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How far in advance, it depends on your circumstances. Me for example I contact a lady sometimes six to seven months in advance owing to me living in smalltown Ontario and having to travel to see a lady. A drop of the hat encounter just not possible for me But some ladies can entertain an encounter with a few hours notice Contact the lady using her preferred method of contact. If she has verification/screening requirements (real name, phone, email etc) provide the information. Since this is your first time you won't have a reference. Tell the lady this is your first time she likely has other screening methods. Most important be open with her as well as respectful The donation leave in an envelope and give to the lady at the beginning of the encounter. I also give a gift at the beginning of the date. At the end of the encounter I give the lady a tip During the encounter let the lady take the lead. You two are strangers the first time so she may not feel comfortable if you initiate anything intimate...don't worry she'll know the right time and you'll enjoy your encounter Good Luck And have a good time RG

I like Lee because he's funny as hell too. Not to mention a much respected member of this community RG

Well I'm approaching....gulp...52 What I have pleasantly discovered encounters aren't about orgasms or msog (although if I spent a week with a lady I likely could have msog LOL) What I have discovered is that the pleasure derived in an encounter comes from the connection made with a lady and in some cases friendships formed with a lady But if getting older and slower concerns you just book longer encounters with a lady A rambling RG

Happy Birthday Star Enjoy your special day RG

Just my opinion but MOD did the right thing And a piece of advice don't call out the MOD quick way to get a time out from CERB RG

Yes have a great flight and visit to Japan Assuming you are leaving from Toronto my condolences ahead of time for the gong show known as Pearson LOL Seriously though have a great time RG

I know my first encounter was with a "lady" who advertised on CL...and what a bad encounter it was. In fact all my bad encounters were when I strayed off the reserve so to speak, booking encounters with non CERB (or Escorts Canada) ladies As Mod says avoid CL or BP not just for your first time but all the time. There are a lot of great CERB ladies to see RG

I like nlwoodchuck because even though a newbie to CERB he is making positive contributions to the board and is an active participant to this community RG

Good point Cristy. Every lady is unique and beautiful in her own way. Ladies shouldn't worry that some other lady is competition for her. JMHO but there isn't an ideal perfect woman, just women each of whom are unique and can offer something special to the clients they see A rambling from a guy who has been blessed to see a few ladies ;-) and each lady and the encounter provided was special and unique And I hope it came out right RG

Awww Meg I'm so sorry. It is like losing a family member Condolences and a big hug RG

Happy Birthdat Mr Green Enjoy your special day RG

Happy Birthday Alissa Enjoy your special day RG

Congratulations on your milestone Samantha Always enjoy reading your posts...looking forward to your next 2000 contributions RG

I like emiafish because he is a positive contributor to this community And like me, he doesn't drink (in fact we both quit drinking in 1980) and like me he isn't preachy about not drinking Just for you emiafish if you ever crave the taste of a beer but not the alcohol get Becks no alcohol (absolutely 0% alcohol) beer. It tastes the same as beer well as I remember it just no alcohol...you can get it in grocery stores RG

Not splitting hairs here, I'm very sure that those women who aren't professional do make it a difficult profession for the ladies who are professional to work in. My point though, those unprofessional ladies do not make the professional companions look bad, they only make themselves look bad, and time spent with a professional companion all the more memorable and appreciated Thats all I was trying to say RG

Good thread Serena. It is a very special lady who can see a gentleman, for the very first time, and as cliche as it sounds, give of herself body mind and soul. And for those professional companions who provide escapes for us gentlemen you have, well speaking for myself, my appreciation and gratitude. The value of the encounter far exceeds the donation asked for. And it certainly isn't a profession every woman can do I do take issue with your last line though Serena. The ladies who don't take this lifestyle seriously or professionally don't make the rest of you professional companions look bad. They only make themselves look bad and at least for me make my encounters with professional companions all the more special and appreciated A rambling RG

Decaf coffee, fruit salad (mixed berries and pineapple) and a chocolate croissant RG

Well this may not start off sounding like a highlight of the day but bear with me Thurs morning tire looking a little low again so went to the gas station before work to top it up with air. I know a trip to the garage in order though second time this tire went a little low in a few weeks Yesterday got up to go to work tire completely flat :-( Called CAA got it reinflated and drove to the garage Tire checked...thought maybe a nail in the tire and it could be patched Turned out the steel belt in the tire coming apart and a couple shards of steel went through the rubber....tire unrepairable But the garage carries a stock of used tires and they had one that would fit the truck. Not only was it installed they rotated my tires The highlight. Well it turns out a steel belt coming apart is dangerous and I likely wouldn't have noticed a problem untill too late except for the shards of steel causing a leak And second I thought major $$$ for the repair...only $53 for the tire and labour RG

I didn't forget her, she and I have yet to meet in person but I am so looking foward to when we do get together I only listed those Ottawa ladies I have met in person, not the ladies I want to meet but just haven't had the chance yet RG

Who to see...well that is very much a personal decision decided on who peaks your interest Here are Ottawa ladies I have met and had wonderful encounters with. Meg For Fun Angela Of Ottawa Mia Bella (not sure if she is retired) Alexandra Sky Isabella Gia and if an erotic massage is something you'd like to try give Megan (Megan's Touch) a call There are other Ottawa ladies that are highly recommended but I have yet to meet them Just mentioning the Ottawa ladies I have seen RG

Well I don't have an answer for you...just a personal observation from my own experience. While I have never been married (thank god as it turns out for me) I have had a number of relationships and did the dating game. While in relationships/dating I was alway monagomous and not moralizing, just what is right for me, would never see any other women while involved (again not moralizing it's just right for me) But one aspect of this lifestyle I love is the polyamorous nature of it. In part because of that I couldn't go back to a conventional relationship. And if by some fluke the right woman came along I would be faithful, but it would be a difficult decision because I'd have to give up this polyamorous lifestyle For whatever it's worth RG

Pork hocks in sauerkraut washed down with Beck's no alcohol beer Followed by a decaf coffee and chocolate croissant (saw them in the grocery store they look good) RG

Happy Birthday blondi33 Enjoy your special day RG

The way I partake in this lifestyle is my encounters are planned far ahead and I initiate contact via email (thus far that has been the preferred method of contact) Should a lady wish a phone call (two ladies did, but it was part of their screening) I would call. I haven't had to leave a message because of no answer but if I did it would be something like it's "RG calling in reply to our email correspondence, I'll call back tomorrow same time" One more thing, when a lady wants a phone call I'll ask via email what a good time is, just in case the lady may have family/friends or clients at a certain time Thus far I haven't encountered a voicemail, but voicemail wouldn't deter me from seeing a lady I'd like to see RG

You didn't need to remove your instructions pchx3x. They were bang on and worked on my phone Thanks to everyone RG