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I spend time getting to know the lady. I like encounters of a minimum two hours, sometimes more. That is to spend time getting to know one another, and in the case of repeat encounters, time to catch up. It certainly isn't because I have the stamina for sustained multi hours in bed LOL Already mentioned but let the encounter unfold naturally, both for first time meetings and repeat encounters (if you repeat) No scripts On a related note, and one I learned about after my first four to five encounters. Forget the menu...in fact I don't even look if a lady has a menu now. Respect her boundaries...nuff said there Just a couple thoughts thrown in RG

Go to the passport office. Just my opinion RG

I was busy getting ready for a very special encounter on Saturday afternoon, a ménages à trois with Emily Rushton and Lonna Lux. Since embarking on this lifestyle on the bucket list was to engage in a ménages à trois, and this night was the night. I have been looking forward to this for a long time. I know both ladies very well. I don't consider them SP's, they are friends. And when we meet, they treat me as a friend, not a client. Yet as excited as I was, seeing my friends again, this time they were both together, I was also nervous as hell, almost but not quite, scared, but in a good way. This turned out to be a couple of firsts. For me, it was my first ménageever. You could say my virginity was going to be taken. For Lonna and Emily, while they have met socially, knew and liked one another, this was the first time they were duo partners. But despite the firsts, we all know, like and trust one another. It isn't an overstatement to say Saturday night it was three friends getting together for a very special time, it wasn't a client meeting two SP's at the same time. And although it may be a matter of semantics, it was a ménages à trois, it wasn't a duo. How this very special evening came about, well it is too long a story, that commenced in September 2010 and on November 10, 2012 came to be. And I can say it was an evening that would make Hugh Hefner envious. Emily and Lonna arrived on time at my hotel, within minutes of one another, both looking as young and beautiful as ever. We all sat in the living room having drinks, cheese and crackers. Lonna had some Red Bull, and WOW!!!...well no details here or anywhere but, well later on that evening, well you go girl. We sat around getting caught up on old times. Sharing personal things going on in our respective lives, matters we shared because we trust one another. But what we discussed was behind hotel room doors, and stays there. But it is special to know ladies that you can trust to share personal aspects of your life, and they trust you too. And Lonna, Emily and myself trust one another that way. I even made sure they knew it was my first ménage, and as such they were taking my "virginity." With that Lonna and Emily took me by the arms and dragged me (but not kicking and screaming) into the bedroom, where our conversation took another turn. They told me they were in charge and to do as they said. We got undressed and they pushed me down on the bed. As friends I like them, and trust them implicitly. So they took charge, oh did they take charge. Well the three of us friends started liking one another. Lonna and Emily liked me. I liked Emily and Lonna. Lonna and Emily liked one another. It was a bedroom filled with a lot of liking that night. But details of our liking are very private between the three of us friends however. We then were lying in bed, in post like bliss, me the luckiest thorn between two beautiful roses. And someone has a birthday coming up. Emily and I got together ahead of time (don't ask how...secret) and a birthday cake was arranged for Lonna. Emily covered Lonna's eyes while my drained and weakened body went to the kitchen to get the cake. I brought the cake back in, Emily and I singing Happy Birthday. Lonna cut the cake, and the three of us had birthday cake in bed (yes, Lonna and Emily can eat cake in my bed any day) Then I heard some giggling, and simultaneously I heard Emily and Lonna say sploshing. You'll have to look up the word, all I will say is birthday cake never tasted oh so good. I consider myself very lucky to have met and developed such a good relationship, well friendship, with two very special ladies. And that they both met, and like one another is great. That the two of them felt comfortable enough with one another and with me that their first time together was with me making my first ménages à trois a very special evening, and a wonderful memory. Thank you both to Lonna and Emily for getting together with me to make this evening so special Gentlemen, if you have the chance, schedule an encounter with Emily and Lonna. Each lady in their own right is an outstanding companion. And if the stars can align for you, like they did for me and you can see them together, do yourself a favour and arrange to see them for a ménage . Together they are dynamite companions, and have a special chemistry. Again, to Lonna and Emily, saying thank you doesn't cover it, but THANK YOU. In my mind, before this encounter, a duo was on the bucket list. But this evening turned out to have nothing to do with a bucket list at all. It was much much more. It was a very special evening with two very special friends, and a ménages à trois. It was and is a night I will always remember.

Happy Birthday JoyfulC Enjoy your special day RG

Normally that would be an option, but these two ladies aren't duo partners regularly, in fact this was their first time together, so no duo picture exists But thanks anyway :-) RG

I'll ask this question here, it is sort of related to the topic at hand. I know how to post recco's, done a few. But I'm going to be posting in a day or two, once I polish it up, a recco on a ménages à trois with two special ladies. My question, I like posting the lady's picture in the header image. But there is only one header image icon, so how do you get a picture of both ladies posted. Or would I be better to insert an image of each lady into the body of the recommendation and avoid the header image icon altogether Thanks in advance RG

Happy Birthday Lexy Enjoy your special day RG

Congratulations Spud Enjoy reading your posts, looking forward to reading 2000 more RG

Are you talking about putting pictures on a CERB thread you are posting? If so, there are icons above the screen you type into. The fifth icon in from the right (looks like this ) is what you want. Copy the URL of the photo you want. Then click on that icon. Up comes a screen saying enter the URL of your image. Paste the URL of the photo into that screen, and Bob's your uncle Hope that's what you were looking for and hope it helps RG

More thrown in for discussion. Are there, on the ladies' part, assumptions about higher/lower volume hobbiest's. In other words, guys who see SP's very frequently (a few times a week for example) versus the average guy (sees SP's about once a month) versus the guy who occasionally sees a SP (maybe three-four times a year) My bet, no assumption whatsoever, by either ladies or gentlemen. And my point, really should even the question about assumptions about higher/lower volume be asked...seems like kind of a double standard to me, and unfortunate that it needs to be asked IMHO Just a thought RG

Mushroom cheddar chowder It's cream of mushroom soup, with grated cheddar cheese and sour cream on top. Followed by fresh pineapple Was too lazy and didn't feel adventuresome tonight RG

Most of my encounters are outcalls to my hotel. So yes, my wallet is with me. In my early days embarking on this lifestyle, I hid my wallet (just in case) but forgive me, I was a newbie then. Now my wallet is with me, not hidden away. In fact the one sleepover I had I didn't feel the need to hide my wallet (and a unscrupulous lady could wait till I was asleep, get up, steal my wallet and leave) because this lady is a class act, and trustworthy. Even incalls, the few I've had, never felt worried about my wallet because the ladies I see are honest and class acts. I've only had one time where, while my wallet was never in jeopardy, I do think this lady if she had an opportunity, would steal. In short, I've learned to find great ladies to have encounters with...ladies who are class acts, and make seeing them be an escape, not a cause for concern A rambling RG

Like Meg said, face sitting And it is in the Urban Dictionary http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=face+sitting RG

I think come the New Year I'm going to splurge and get a portable CD player to take with me on out calls to have some background music playing. Can you get detachable speakers for sony discmans, and if so, does anyone know how the sound quality is. Or are there other smaller portable cd players out there. I don't want to be walking through a hotel lobby carrying an oversized boom box with me LOL Now as for music, and ladies, your opinion greatly appreciated (although all CERBite's may join in), what sort of music would you like to hear if you went to an out call. I know someone who can burn a disc or two for me. Thanks in advance RG

Congratulations Nicolette on the 4500 milestone Enjoy your posts, look forward to 4500 more RG

This recommendation is a little slow in coming, sorry Angela. Angela and I had scheduled our second encounter for October 13, 2012. I was looking forward to reconnecting with Angela. My last date with her was good, and I was expecting another great time with her. I had nervous excitement all the way on my drive to Ottawa. I showed up at Angela's incall on time. I knocked on the door, and was greeted by Angela, looking as sexy as ever. She ushered me into the kitchen, where she had some hot hor d'oeuvres waiting. And Angela remembered I can't drink, and had non alcoholic wine for us to drink. We sat down, and got caught up on old times and current events. Well after awhile of catching up, we went downstairs to the bedroom, and continued catching up, the details of which are private between Angela and me. After catching up, we were just lying in bed, kissing cuddling and more conversation. Unfortunately, as always is the case, our time ran out and it was time to for us to say goodbye...well until the next time. Angela is a great lady to see. I would recommend that any gentleman looking for a lady to see in Ottawa for a good encounter give Angela a call. You won't be disappointed. And Angela, thank you again for a wonderful second encounter. Looking forward to when we see each other again.

Sorry, but as a gentleman who exercises discretion and treats SP's like ladies, because they are ladies, I find your statement off putting. I don't forget my manners, I don't, in the case of incalls, arrive early. I respect all boundaries. Just because some men don't behave like gentlemen don't lump us all together. I don't characterize all SP's the same because of some encounters with bad SP's RG

A bottle of wine RG

Really only you know whether you can keep the love for your wife and sex without romance with an escort separate. Every individual is different But, as has been mentioned, do things to keep this lifestyle discrete. A disposable cell phone, which you don't take home, a separate account (maybe only cash only) definitely no credit cards, don't change your home behaviour, use your own soaps etc. One more thing. I see you are in the USA. If you plan to see escorts in the US, keep in mind for the most part it is an illegal (criminal) activity down there, and you may risk arrest. Also escorts in the United States, from my understanding, for the most part, require verification (your full real name, reference, phone etc) I personally support verification, but are you comfortable in your situation providing such information to a lady Whatever you decide, good luck RG

Well my thoughts. Not that I am looking for a escort to date (well except within the confines of this lifestyle) or for that matter am I looking to start dating again. And I can't envision falling in love with an escort, or for that matter, any lady. Given the unique dynamics of this lifestyle, in my opinion, only the lady can broach the subject. If a gentleman brings up the subject, it can be confused with asking a SP out for another encounter, or just looking to see her for free. If a lady brings it up, she can make it clear she is looking at you, the gentleman, as not a client, but potential boyfriend. So to answer your question in short, absolutely if a SP says she loves you, would you date me, it is fair. And completely unfair and ungentlemanly for a guy to ask a SP the same thing...this is a very unique lifestyle with special dynamics But if a lady does ask the question, she should, as anyone does, be prepared that he may not feel the same way, and not be interested in dating, or a relationship. He may want a uncomplicated no strings attached lifestyle As I see it RG

Happened to me too Meg. Paid my internet last month, then forgot, and paid it again...so no internet bill this month RG

$80.00 worth of gas, didn't even fill the tank :-( RG

And to add to that, you can't fix stupid If you are early, go to a Timmies, a mall or somewhere where your presence won't be noticed RG

Good luck mistert. Your will be missed while on your leave of absence and welcomed back when you return Again good luck RG

The only, well not assumption, but question in my mind when looking for a lady to meet is will I have a good encounter with her. If the answer is yes, then I will contact her. If I do have a good encounter with her, then she is a lady I will schedule repeat dates with. But it is no more my business whether she is a higher/lower volume provider than it is the lady's business whether I see a lot of ladies, or a few. And I enjoy my time with the ladies who have provided me with wonderful good encounters. Whether they are high or low volume providers never crossed my mind, whether they are good companions, that for me is what is important and the only thing that matters to me Good post Nathalie RG