roamingguy

First, you, not me brought up the idea of private constructive criticism, I just indicated there are avenues already out there to do as you claim you want to do. Or do you want to have public criticisms of ladies. It seems a lot of men like the idea of posting public negative reviews, where everyone, the lady included, can read it. But those same men seem uncomfortable talking privately (through pm or email) to the lady. If you truly want to contact a lady for private criticism, then pm or email her. If you want a forum for public negative reviews, well CERB is not a review board, it's a recommendation board. There are other boards that cater to negative reviews But just a note, in general, with all sorts of threads, and not just this one, about allowing negative reviews, I have to wonder what sort of ladies guys are seeing. Yes I've had a few bad encounters...but my god overall my encounters are positive and the ladies enrich my life. Are there that many ladies out there that are really so bad or are there guys just too critical. And finally in answer directly to your question, well I wouldn't publicly criticise a lady if I'm too uncomfortable discussing it with her in private RG

Happy Birthday Pistol Pete Enjoy your special day RG

Happy Birthday Birdboy Enjoy your special day RG

Kinda like the back to nature thing...hiking in a forest Captain Kirk or Captain Jean Luc Picard :-) RG

Plants High Plains Drifter or The Outlaw Josey Wales RG

Got the results of my physical a few weeks ago, and I show indications that I might have diabetes :-( Last Friday took a diabetes test, had to drink this sickingly sweet stuff and wait two hours, but I digress. Got results back, don't have diabetes...false alarm :-) The down side, there is bullsh--t going on at work (why I was off from August to mid October) even now, and I just haven't been eating right, screwing up my blood sugar. Forcing myself to eat now, even if not hungry But god am I glad for CERB, and even more so, for the ladies here, seeing them is my monthly escape RG

You remember have mom wash your clothes in this style washing machine (mind you it was at our cottage) RG

Snowflakes Hagen Das or Ben & Jerrys RG

Hockey (only because they are on strike and I can watch something else LOL) Jennifer Marlowe (Loni Anderson) or Bailey Quarters (Jan Smithers) (WKRP In Cincinnatti) RG

There is such an avenue on CERB...it is the PM system. If you truly have constructive criticism for a lady you saw, PM her and tell her, or in the alternative use your email and contact her that way. That would allow you the avenue for polite private constructive criticism you seek. Mod is busy enough, he doesn't need a forum which I can see, and likely others too, spiraling into negativity, and turning CERB into one of the other boards. Nor does he have the time to read every post before being posted. And any offensive PM, well there is a Report Abuse icon, so any abusive/negative PM's can be reported to Mod Use what already exists, sounds like it fits the bill for what you want RG

A general question then to the ladies. I have a very very very special encounter coming up early November. Would a moustache in the early stages of growing be unpleasant for ladies if you know what I mean? And this encounter is very very very special, because of the ladies and the encounter planned...I don't want anything to spoil it RG

I just tried doing a beard/moustache...trust me, I wouldn't have a good goatee...and the whiskers (beard that is), just itched me something fierce, 3 weeks of itching hell LOL But as a young pup I had a moustache which looked, well imho, good, maybe I should try again RG

Now that I shaved myself bald I need a second opinion from ladies I have had encounters with. And that is...should I grow a moustache? Would it suit me, and would you ladies like it, or prefer the clean shaven look Opinions are appreciated Thanks RG

Not disagreeing with constructive criticism...but that should be a dialogue between the gentleman and the ladydone PRIVATELY Maybe the lady had an off day. Maybe there was no chemistry. Maybe the gentleman's expectations were different than what the lady said she provides and so on. And a thought here. For those guys wanting to post a public negative review of a lady, that everyone and the lady herself too (remember that) can read, why don't you have the same willingness to privately discuss (even by email or pm) your issues with the lady. She'll read about it one way or the other, at least privately shows respect. Once a negative review is posted, a lady can't respond, not without it sounding defensive. And she can't comment about the guy's possible role in the encounter being negative (it does, after all take two to tango) But truly, if you have a need for criticism, there are other boards...this board runs very fine, thanks to the Mod and Council and the ladies and gentleman who make up this community Another two cents RG

God I wish I were rich or important enough to be blackmailable LOL Seriously guys, well the guys that Sophia's rant may be directed to, you just aren't that important or wealthy enough (well most of you I guess) to be blackmailed. What would blackmail gain the lady. Get outed to your wife...why, just rationally think about it...there is no motive. A lady makes much more money by being a good SP. Get rich, most of us do this lifestyle on disposable income, not enough money to satisfy a blackmailer Cell phone, just buy a cheap disposable, throw it away after every encounter if concerned your wife may find it. Just consider it part of the cost of this lifestyle Other verification, ie full name and reference, if asked, provide it. If your unwilling to provide verification information, don't waste the lady's time by contacting her. And if all the protocols and etiquette of seeing a lady make you that uncomfortable, maybe this just isn't the lifestyle for you A rambling from a gentleman who is happy being verified RG

I like Meg because she is so damn cute and adorable not to mention a wonderful positive voice on CERB and a great SP RG

I like Phaedrus, he is a wise and intelligent contributor to CERB RG

Good point about chemistry Meg. And those guys who want to post a "lukewarm" review of a lady after an encounter with her, do they include in their review, how their own contribution made the encounter "lukewarm?" It does take two to tango after all. Not all people click, that isn't anyone's fault, so why post lukewarm or negative reviews Another two cents RG

yes Wendy's or McDonalds RG

BJ (just my opinion but much more intimate) CERB or the other boards RG

Mayonaise Which do you prefer, in call or out call RG

First there are other boards out there...I've tried a few in addition to CERB, and the ones I was on seemed to thrive on negativity. I have a very negative work environment, this lifestyle is my escape, I don't need it to be negative too And CERB is for the ladies a, for lack of a better term, a safe board. All of us, ladies and gentlemen are equal participants here. My guess, it starts going down the road of allowing negative reviews, you'll find the ladies leaving. Finally, when you join CERB, the policy is very clear, "if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all" So when you joined CERB you knew at the outset the rules. If you don't agree with it, go to a board that has a policy you do agree with From a CERB member content with the CERB policy of positivity RG

Me too :-) RG

Lazy today, needed to get shaving cream at Wal Mart after getting my head clipped, so decided to pop into the McDonalds there, pick up a Big Mac and Fries (that damn McDics doesn't have shakes, so I had a no alcohol beer when I got home) which I had when I got home RG

Call me Kojak, got it clipped...just after dinner go to the bathroom and shave the stubble off (First Choice doesn't shave down to the wood) Thank you all for giving me the guts to do this LOL RG