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Congratulations Lee on hitting the 2000 mark Enjoy your posts, positivity and humour Looking forward to the next 2000 posts RG

Happy Birthday Mya Enjoy your special day RG

Another song about, well yes, about history Billy Joel-We Didn't Start The Fire RG

Caligula RG

Happy for you and your major milestone...it is something you will remember with fondness for the rest of your life You probably have thanked Aubrey privately, but I'm sure she would really appreciate a nice recommendation written from you. She shared something very special with you. A recommendation I'm sure she'd appreciate Again, happy for you RG

Quite a few SP's know my real name...I gave it to them (in most cases as part of verification, but my choice to give out) A few (three to be exact) SP's gave me their real name (their choice btw, and no I won't name those ladies, it is private between the two of us) But to dig around to find out a SP's real name, when they haven't given it to you is something entirely different, and a major breech of her privacy If someone doesn't give out her (or his as the case may be) there is a reason for it. They keep their "civilian" life seperate from this "lifestyle" life and don't want the two to overlap. To dig around to find out a person's real name, you are stealing something that is theirs, and is very important to a person, their privacy, and it starts bordering, as Angus says, on stalking. And it isn't harmless, how do you think a lady would react if she found a client prying into her private life...how would a guy react if a lady started digging into his private life. Probably at least a combination of fear and anger, fear, what is he/she going to do with this information, anger at the violation of privacy. What is the next thing a person would breech after that. RG

I like Lee because even though he knows I'm a better fisherman, he still keeps trying...got to admire his perseverance. Not to mention he keeps a good sense of humour too RG Aaaagh!!! Sorry Malika, your just too fast for me I like Malika for her upbeat positive attitude and her contributions to this community. Enjoy reading what Malika writes RG

Well I got my pay as you go cell phone paid for this month. And changed the plan to add email to the phone service. Set it up on my phone, shows it as part of my plan (billed for) yet the email won't activate on my phone. Yup, paying for it, not getting it. So I go to Virgin Mobile store last week to see if they could help. Girl there totally useless and rude. More concerned with chatting it up with some guy she was attracted to (no he definitely wasn't a customer) I was told by Virgin that a store could set it up for me. All this girl did was hand me a phone and dialed customer service Then the women from customer service talking me through the set up didn't know what she was doing. Kept telling me to try this, and that and the other. Took so long I started off with a fully charged phone and by the time I left the battery ran down. But it really didn't matter, "customer service," that's a joke name btw, hung up on me, and I still don't have email So not too happy with my cell phone provider right now, and at one time they used to give good customer service RG

Maybe brave to confess, but discovering the lady's real name. Really, if she wanted you to know her real name she would have told you. If she didn't want you to know, you should have respected her and her privacy. I'm sure guys would be upset if a lady breached their privacy. When a guy sees a lady in this lifestyle, he is allowed to see what she is comfortable letting him see. It doesn't entitle him into all areas of her life, nor to snoop into it. What was done a major breach. I really don't know what was hoped to be gained by knowing her real name. That to me is a major breech, not just of privacy, but of trust RG

Basic-John Travolta, Samuel L. Jackson, Connie Nielson RG

Zack And Miri Make A Porno RG

Sheena Easton-Strut http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcAJ9siMseA RG

Xanadu-Olivia Newton John RG

Well first, at least for me, my personality is the same, whether with family, friends, or the wonderful ladies I've met through this lifestyle. So any ladies that meet me, are meeting the real me, not a character. But, what I have to do is compartmentalize my life. There are things about my life everyone knows, some things my family knows, some things my friends know, some things only the ladies know, and some things only I know. About the only time, on the surface it would seem that my personality would change is at work (I become very strict, rigid, and treat matters very black and white)...but it's due to the nature of the work, and I have to put on a game face if you will, not to do so would be seen as a sign of weakness. But I digress But speaking on another note, you say you know the SP in her real life. Question I have, does she know you too, both in your real life and as a gentleman partaking in this lifestyle. If she only knows you in one life, she may feel she is being taken advantage of by your knowledge of two sides of her life. Not thrown out to argue, but as food for thought RG

Valkyrie-Tom Cruise, Kenneth Branagh RG

Thunderball (James Bond) RG

Happy Birthday Shortcake Enjoy your special day RG

Well a few celebrity ladies... Catherine Bell (JAG) Mariska Hargitay (Law & Order SVU) Kathryn Erbe (Law & Order CI) Julianna Margulies (The Good Wife) Shania Twain Halle Berry Just a few...but I haven't been "visiting" as much since embarking on this lifestyle :-) RG

Ronin Robert DeNiro, Jean Reno Good movie RG

How do you manage...simple, you have to keep your emotional head on straight. Don't confuse the sexual intimacy found in an encounter with love. This lifestyle is about no strings attached companionship. Yes there are ladies I've come to like and consider friends (with benefits :-) ) But at no time do I kid myself that it is love, nor am I looking for that one special woman. Likely, any feelings you have are one way. Enjoy this lifestyle for what it is, but don't go reading more into it than there is. It is poly amorous by nature. And for the ladies, it is their livelihood. It is their profession, one which requires a very special gift dealing intimately with men. But they have their emotional head on straight. If they didn't, they'd run the risk of emotional involvement with their clients. Enjoy this lifestyle for what it is. Don't read more into it though or you are setting yourself up to be hurt My two cents RG

I think, not sure, but when you go back in to edit, go to the title section and you can delete (backspacing) and put a new title in. Again, not sure, but while in edit I do think the title can be edited/deleted/re-titled Good Luck RG

My experience, has been to always behave like a gentleman. Mind you for me that is how I always behave especially with ladies Another way to put it, you are seeing a lady, so treat her like she is a lady Irrespective of the fact that at it's root this is a business, and the ladies' livelihood, remember to respect her and appreciate that it is a lady that is allowing you to be intimate with her. Remember to behave appropriately, in other words behave as a gentleman who is seeing a lady and you can't go wrong A short rambling before bedtime RG

Well not the same fear Jenn, but in the beginning of this lifestyle I was concerned, me being a middle aged man, bald, glasses and a belly meeting beautiful SP's, some of whom are IMHO model material. They could be in Playboy, Sport's Illustrated Swimsuit Edition or Victoria's Secret catalog or well you get the idea. These women could easily have any man they want. But, for the time of the encounter, the man they want is me, with all my flaws...I'm certainly not someone you'd see on the cover of Gentleman's Quarterly. If they really aren't into seeing men, they sure do a good job acting as if they are. They make me feel like a king, their friend and their boyfriend all rolled into one without making me feel like a client. And I'm sure they do that with all their clients. I say this because I believe you would get the same experience from SP's. Being treated like someone special, not a client. So I wouldn't worry about that aspect of meeting a SP. Probably your hurdle is having your first encounter, but it's just nervousness. I went through that first encounter nervousness and hurdle, probably everyone does. Once you do it though, you'll wonder why you waited so long Good luck RG

Eraser- Arnold Schwarzenegger RG

Apocalypse Now RG