roamingguy

Something to throw into the mix here. And it's been said before, in other threads. First, the only truly safe sex is masturbation. Allowing only certain services, wearing a condom, they are risk reduction, not risk elimination. And the belief that being in a monogamous relationship with a girlfriend/wife eliminates all risks, well that is a fallacy. First, and I'm not making any judgements, how many people are married but having an affair, without their spouse knowing? And you may believe you truly know your sexual history, but your knowledge of your sexual history is only as good as what your partner(s) have told you, and in their case, it is only as good as what their partner(s) have told them, and so on and so on and so on. Partners may lie or just don't really know. With that having been said, every encounter should be done respecting each other's boundaries and comfort zones. Just thrown in for the mix, for whatever it's worth RG

Supertramp-Goodbye Stranger http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-SU3U425qVo&feature=fvwrel RG

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Travis Tritt-Here's A Quarter (Call Someone Who Cares) RG

Tina Turner-Private Dancer RG

Eddie Rabbitt-Step By Step http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tkR14M7Zd5o RG

Uncle Kracker-Smile RG

Earth Wind and Fire-After The Love Has Gone RG

I think on the issue of personal relationships, it is one area we should all be judgement free on. This lifestyle is "judged" enough by outsiders. What works for one person, be it lady or gentleman might not work for another. There are no right (or wrong) answers, just everyone's different opinion. And we should all respect one another's decision in this regard, even if their decision isn't the same as ours My 2 second rambling RG

Alanis Morissette-Hand In My Pocket RG

Human League-Don't You Want Me RG

Adam Ant-Goody Two Shoes RG

Doobie Brothers-What A Fool Believes http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CDWGKQcQ8zw RG

Air Supply (awww, I stuck someone with a "Y" LOL)-All Out Of Love RG

To me, GFE means there is the added intimacy and companionship included with an encounter. When you see a lady for a GFE, you are seeing her for more than just sexual services. You want to take time to get to know her. You enjoy her company, the conversation over drinks, kissing, cuddling. And your SP/Client relationship may evolve to dinners out and so on. It isn't about unprotected FS. But as with everything in this lifestyle, there is the ymmv factor. And always, respect the lady's boundaries. Just because she provides a GFE doesn't mean she doesn't have boundaries A rambling RG

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I'm definitely no expert at all, but did Google it All I can say is Ouch!!! RG :-)

Supertramp-Goodbye Stranger http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-SU3U425qVo&feature=related RG

Only if I can add at least another hour and fifteen minutes to it, if not more. Forty five minutes might be a viable option for some, but for me, a minimum of two hours is what I like Great thing about this lifestyle though, it offers something for everyone, no right or wrong RG

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Lower Buckhorn Lake, Ontario...where I caught my first muskie RG

Really no big deal at all. Pay up front. Myself, I pay in cash anyway, so they require payment when you check in. Tell them at the time of check in you may be leaving before 4am. And if that hotel won't accommodate you, guess what, there are lots of other hotels that will. Don't worry about the reason you are checking out early, it's none of their business to begin with. And if you need an excuse, tell them you and your boyfriend had a fight, but now he wants you back to make up. Really, as long as you don't draw attention to yourself, the hotel won't notice you, you'll be one of hundreds of daily customers. And they no more care why you want a room for the night (keep in mind that is their business and how they make money) than a restaurant would wonder why you are showing up wanting a meal A quick afternoon rambling from a guy who's gone through more than one hotel lobby :-) RG

Chicago-If You Leave Me Now RG

Anchorage, Alaska RG