roamingguy

Well I started here on CERB in Feb 2010. I can't find my first post, I think it was something about terms and what they stood for. I was absolutely new to this lifestyle (in fact my first time wouldn't be till July 2010, that's when I lost my "lifestyle virginity" LOL) and it was a major decision for me to enter the lifestyle...but a decision I am very happy I made. I learned the stereotypes the public have, are nothing close to the reality of this lifestyle. Strange, considering the stereotypes, all I have met are ladies or SP's. I haven't seen or met a whore or prostitute in this lifestyle, but to "society" in general, they would have you believe that is what this lifestyle entails, along with johns I tried some of the other boards, I dropped them, and just stayed with CERB. What I like most of all is how CERB is a recommendation board, not a review board and strives to maintain a positive atmosphere (hats off to the Mod and Council for that) As for my postings I try to be positive, treat others with respect. And in this lifestyle, I treat the ladies the same way, with respect As for partaking in this lifestyle, well every encounter, whether it's seeing a lady (and yes, all I've seen are ladies) for the first time, or a repeat encounter for the second,third, fourth or fifth time, I still get the pre date nervousness/excitement in anticipation of meeting (sometimes again) a lady that interests me Some quick ramblings RG Additional Comments: And I found the very first thread I posted, god was I naive and dumb LOL Newbie Here-First Post This is my first post after registering a few days ago. Not only am I new to Cerb, never been (yet) with an sp I do have a couple questions. Apologies if they sound dumb. First, I know what ymmv stands for but exactly what does it mean. If your a late middle aged man, doesn't work out at the gym, do you get a less enthusiastic encounter than a 20 something man...or what. Just not clear how objective/subjective a term it is. Second, if dealing with an agency, how fair is it money wise for the sp. Are the sp's doing the work and someone else making all the money (thought running through my mind is some pimp making all the money, don't know if that is true or not...maybe I watch too much Law and Order). Is it better to deal with an independant. My last question, for now, if you use a cell phone solely for your phone, is that aceptable to provide the sp when setting up an appointment. I know blocked phone numbers/payphones not allowed, but is a cell phone ok Thanks for now RG

Orillia, Ontario May not seem like much, but it's located on 2 lakes (Lake Simcoe and Lake Couchiching) at the Atherly Narrows. Makes it a good locale for fishing. And for those who like to gamble, there is a casino (Casino-Rama) there as well RG

Youngbloods-Euphoria RG

Shania Twain-Who's Bed Have Your Boots Been Under RG

Sonny and Cher-I Got You Babe Thank god for Cher, saved us from a "Y" LOL RG

Rod Stewart-Hot Legs RG

Niagara Falls...the Canadian falls look better RG

Glass Tiger-Don't Forget Me When I'm Gone http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L3PHinGsWxs RG

Steely Dan-Peg RG

Eagles-Hotel California http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NUbTW928sMU&feature=related RG

ELO-Don't Bring Me Down RG

XTC-Ballad Of Peter Pumpkinhead RG

Well Terminator 2 was preceded by Terminator 1 And a song that comes to mind Driving My Life Away what does that have to do with the Terminator Recall the truck chase http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pgkdBH9wnZ4 I know, a stretch RG

The first question I have is why approach them at all. If they wanted to share with you their chosen profession, they already would have let you know. Second, a key aspect of this lifestyle is discretion. It is hardly discrete to "out" someone, irrespective of that person being a family member And the undertone of those wanting to see them and "out" them indicates a somewhat condescending attitude towards the family member. It's ok for me to be a client seeing ladies (who are someone else's daughter, mother, sister, aunt etc) but it's not ok for you to be a SP, and I know best. This is one situation to steer clear from. Pretend you don't know. If she want's you or any family member to know what she is doing, she'll let you know. If she doesn't let you know, that's because she doesn't want you to know. And once done, you may irreparably damage a family relationship...is it worth that risk RG

My two cents for what it's worth. I think any motel charging by the hour would be in a seedier area of town, and attract less savoury type of people. This could detract from getting clients. You would be further ahead, IMHO, getting a reasonably priced motel or hotel. And it's likely hotels by the airport might have 1/2 day rates Just a thought RG

Well there are villains, and then there is evil, pure evil Not a person....a car, not just any car but Christine From the movie Christine-Bad To The Bone George Thorogood and the Destroyers RG

Hall and Oates-You Make My Dreams Come True RG

Alan Parsons Project-Don't Answer Me RG

Someone who doesn't live in an ordinary world is James Bond And his world must suck, no pension plans I assume because this Bond should have retired long ago, before this came out Duran Duran-A View To A Kill RG

Nitty Gritty Dirt Band-Fishing In The Dark RG

With all this wildness going on, you'd think no one has an ordinary life Chad Brock-Ordinary Life RG

Nazareth-Love Hurts RG

Huey Lewis And The News-Do You Believe In Love RG

http://www.youtube.com/embed/nbrTOcUnjNY RG

One quick additional thought, all ladies, be they SP or MA are someone's mother, daughter, sister, niece, aunt, cousin etc. Just something to keep in mind RG