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I like Andy, a positive contributor to this community, and always has a song to share too RG

I'm only playing devil's advocate here, but couldn't the ladies just say they are escorts providing "outcall only" sexual services and thus not required to be licensed. This farce the city is putting on is so they can scoot around the fact that they too, by charging licensing fees, are living off the avails RG

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Oh you bad bad girl Cristy...ok, nuff scolding LOL Seriously, I thought along the same lines as you Cristy. Back in my earlier time on CERB there were posts have you seen this lady from CL, or this lady from another site etc etc. To me I thought recommending/reviewing ladies from other sites was not so much an issue of promoting non CERB ladies, but a case of escort sites not affiliated with CERB benefiting from CERB...if that makes sense But as has been explained, and explained to me then, this is a recommendation board, not just for recommending CERB SP's/MA's, but all SP's/MA's And just maybe a guy will see that gem of an SP/MA who isn't on CERB, and will then encourage her to join our community Don't worry Cristy, question isn't harsh, actually seems reasonable to me RG

First, as has been said, the Police/Crown may not get a conviction, but you will still go through a legal wringer in the Criminal Justice system. But questions would come up...such as asking the driver why he/she drove the lady to a hotel, and picked her up an hour or two later? Really, short of an incall, a lady seeing a client at his place (outcall) is not illegal When the Police/Crown get involved, usually it it noticeable indiscrete actions on the part of a lady or one or more gentlemen seeing her...such as booking a hotel room, and guy after guy after guy shows up, all hours, guys carrying items (big bouquet of flowers, a gift bag from Victoria's Secret etc)...it draws the attention of hotel staff. Or having an incall that's an apartment/condo/house where car after car and guy after guy after guy show up all hours As long as you don't draw attention to yourself, whether a lady or a gentleman, you should be reasonably safe from LE. My guess, those who came to the attention of Police did something somewhere along the line to bring attention to themselves. One key word to remember...discretion RG

I wonder how much of this question of penis size comes from the media, first the porn industry, where the guys are hung like horses, and then companies marketing creams, pumps, pills etc. Probably the average guy is just that, average, but may feel less so when he watches a porn movie, or hears about his buddy's exploits in the bedroom (which are likely a work of fiction). But reading what the ladies here have said should make guys feel happy with what they got And one difference between getting a woman getting a breast enlargement, vs a man getting a penis enlarged (if we are making comparisons here)...ok well there's lots of differences, but a big penis can hurt a lady, while a woman enlarging her breasts, no such risk to a guy. For me, I'm average and proud of it, it's the guy inside that should count. And for me personally, I find after kissing and hugging, that the most intimate act isn't intercourse, it's oral (daty and bj) and I'm sure for the ladies, with oral, smaller is better. So do I worry about size, no, got what God gave me, and there are more important things in life to worry about I hope this rambling wasn't too long LOL RG

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Well I for one won't negotiate, whether with a SP or MA...her rates are her rates. But with that said, I would like to know before an encounter what the lady's rates are, that to me seems a reasonable enough request RG

Unfortunately your right. And part of ignorance and stereotyping is labelling. Instead (and I'll use this lifestyle as an example) of ladies being referred to as ladies, terms such as whore, hooker, streetwalker, and prostitute are used. And guys, well referred to as johns. What does this have to do with anything. Well labelling allows for dehumanizing and marginalizing people, and not just society in general, but also police for example. This isn't minor btw. Why do you think it took so long, for example, to apprehend Picton. Because the mentality was that "it's only prostitutes", as if they were less than human." The police weren't looking to protect women, someone's daughter, mother, sister etc...the mindset was that these ladies were less worthy of police protection than mainstream society. And as a sidenote since entering this lifestyle seeing with my first encounter in July 2010, all I have met (even the four bad encounters) are ladies. I have yet to meet a hooker, whore, prostitute, or streetwalker A rambling RG

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I find if the lady shows up at my hotel, and stays for a encounter, that's a good sign (tongue in cheek here) RG

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And in the same vein, it would be great not only if escorts were looked at in the same light as a banker, or other professional, but that guys weren't looked at as johns cruising up and down the street looking to "get off", but were in fact looked at as gentlemen, who have and do treat the ladies they see with respect. And that this lifestyle isn't an exploitive one, it is in fact mutually beneficial. RG

Well a very obvious one, and I don't consider it dirty little secret, just a secret. Here everyone knows...but family and friends don't...I see SP's, although I prefer calling them ladies Embarrassed or ashamed, no...but I know there would be people (meaning well) trying to fix me up with some nice girl they know Hopefully one day this lifestyle will gain mainstream acceptance, untill then, and also for discretion sakes, it is my secret RG

Jason's post got me to thinking. And the OP's original post is more akin to, lets say an alcoholic standing in front of a bar, shouting for all to hear that "drinking ruined my life, and this is the bar where I did all my drinking" More a case of him transferring blame, at least somewhat transferring (enabling I believe is the OP's term...CERB the enabler???) blame to CERB, and by extension escorts, for ruining of his life. Did getting involved with escorts and joining CERB ruin his life. Or just ruin any chance of saving his marriage....two different things. And emphasis here, he decided to join CERB. He could have decided to seek marriage counselling. And take the OP's post to logical conclusion, should CERB screen all prospective members before joining to ensure they are joining for the right reason, whatever the right reason is. I truly do hope he gets his life on track, but really, he could have, and should have just signed off by just saying goodbye, or better yet, just close his account. RG

Did another weigh in, and seven more pounds gone. Celebrate with a drink, water on the rocks, and a couple celery and carrot sticks RG

Good thread Cristy. I think a lot of the negativity surrounding this lifestyle is because of "mainstream" society's ignorance and stereotype about it. The assumptions made is this lifestyle is about guys who are johns, and ladies who are streetwalkers/hookers feeding a drug habit and being pimped out. If someone was told the reality about the lifestyle, that is is one of mutual respect and mutually beneficial. And an encounter can and is much more than just a simple case of sex for money, and you may even develop friendships in this lifestyle, well people wouldn't believe you. And as a sidebar, there is no lady I would see or have seen that I would be ashamed of being seen in public with. The ladies I have met are just that, ladies. A quick rambling RG