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Well it was in the 90's I started liking what was termed, "New Country" This was the first song that caught my eye...yup, the video probably had more to do with it than the song Shania Twain-Any Man Of Mine RG

Congratulations Emma on achieving Goddesshood...it is very much deserved for the contributions you make to this community RG

Congratulations Elizabeth on reaching Goddess status Much deserved, look forward to many more contributions RG

Well I've never received nor expect to receive a Christmas gift per se from a lady, although the ladies I see year round receive a gift from me at our encounters (usually LaSenza's or Victoria's Secret gift cards, sometimes other things) But in all honesty gifts that I remember, and remember the lady for are the out of the blue email/pm's/guestbook messages that I receive. And on occasion when it happens, the unrushed encounter. Me, when it comes to seeing ladies I like to keep Christmas in my heart all twelve months :-) RG

Legs????..... ZZ Top-Legs http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SWuyFz6V8O8 RG

I like WinnipegCub, positive contributer to CERB, and I also like his Christmas Polar Bear avatar RG

Well I personally use a cell phone, and I assume the number shows up. I thought one of the reasons for a unblocked number was so the lady, if she needed to, had a number to call you back Me, I'm pretty much an open book with the ladies, even before we meet. I'll give them my cell number (and cell phone provider for added verification if needed) You want the lady without meeting you to trust you,... trust you enough to be alone with you intimately, but you call from a blocked number to protect your privacy. Cell phone doesn't even link your name to the phone, but it does provide the lady with a number to call, at minimum Under a $100.00, you can get yourself a cheap throwaway cell phone and blocked number not an issue. Even if only used once, consider it part of the cost for partaking in this lifestyle RG

Wishing everyone a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year And hopefully no one has to sit on Santa's lap RG :-)

I like Angela because she is someone who is loyal and cares very much for her friends, and I'm glad she and I are friends RG

Nakedness and eating, your just not doing it right But you might find eating has some side effects LOL A Seinfeld episode for every occasion And now back to our regular programming, hope this isn't a hijacking LOL RG

I do agree that it is the ladies' right to have (or have not if she chooses) a cancellation policy. And she should not nor never be put down by others if she does have a cancellation policy As for application, that too, is entirely up to the lady. But some ladies' policies are in black and white on their website. What is, at least in my opinion, one of the problems, is a potential client often reads, well skims what he wants off the website, primarily photos, rates and services, then books an encounter without reading the whole website I always factor (ie budget) into this lifestyle the chance I may have to cancel due to unforeseen circumstances, and possibly pay a cancellation fee. I know if you reserve a hotel, and are a no show without cancelling in a certain time frame, your going to be charged for the room. Life happens to everyone, but just because life happens to you shouldn't mean someone else is out of pocket for it Hopefully my last post on this topic RG

Taking Care Of Christmas-Randy Bachman RG

For what it's worth. A lot of the other boards, as Kimberly points out are geared for the hobbiests This is one board where both ladies and gentlemen alike can participate in a for lack of a better word, safe environment. And the other boards (I tried a couple, didn't like, closed my accounts on them and now stay exclusively with CERB) there is more a us versus them mentality. After reading some of the posts on those sites, well what the ladies have to put up with from some guys, my heart goes out to them But CERB at least how I see it, isn't, nor should it be, us versus them. Yes it is a business for the ladies, and a lifestyle for the guys. But we are opposite sides of the same coin. The ladies wouldn't be here if there weren't gentlemen wanting to see them. And the guys wouldn't be here except for the ladies. We need one another. Participation in this lifestyle doesn't require one side to lose for the other to win. Both the lady and gentleman can receive what they want from an encounter, and both ladies and gentlemen win. Put one way, it is a mutually beneficial arrangement. Put another way, the ladies scratch our backs, and we scratch the ladies backs Some ramblings posted for whatever contribution they are worth to this thread RG

Except for the first one, everything else is in no order My morning cup of coffee...can't post till my first cup, learned that the hard way LOL My Family and Friends Computer/Internet/EMail Cell Phone CERB, not just the site, but the community, and the friends made here The companionship on all levels, not just sexual, since embarking on this lifestyle (all ladies I've met I remember, not just their name, but the encounter and companionship they provided) Fishing My Cat...sounds silly, but he's family Hate to say it, but work...but in five years, retired :-) Think that's about all, at least for now RG

How many guys would like it if they got up for work, got ready, drove in and the boss is there saying we have no work for you today, oh and by the way, your also not getting paid today, go home. But be prepared to come in tomorrow, but no guarantees that we will have work for you Wouldn't you expect at least some compensation for the time spent getting ready and travel costs to go to work? Best analogy I can come up with It is the ladies' livelihood, pays the rent, car payment, groceries etc...and seems lost on some...not something they just do for the hell of killing a few hours. A cancellation policy seems fair, at least to this guy, and certainly no lady should be put down for having one RG

LOL...but now if I'm ever in Church (cold day in hell btw...I'm agnostic, but I digress) I'm going to wonder who has handled those Bibles, and maybe bring some sanitizer to wipe them down with...maybe sometimes hands switched for a minute or two LOL All posted in fun btw RG

As strong a person as she is, for what she had to put up with (read Different Expectations thread), here is a hug for Isabella Gia RG

Good topic Bethany. Whether I'm seeing a lady for the very first time, or she's a lady I've seen before, I get the pre date nervousness. The churning in the pit of my stomach, my heart pounding, that last minute wondering if I have the room ready (if outcall) donation counted out correctly, for the 100th time, gift and tip ready...and then sitting in the arm chair/couch, making sure the tv is off, waiting for the knock on the door. All the while hoping I won't get weak in the legs and fall on my way to answer the door, or stumble and fall on my way to the incall The nervousness on the first date, well it's a blind date...the ultimate blind date, hence the nervousness. When seeing a lady again it's not so much nervousness as excitement, seeing a lady I like, and catching up on old times, I guess is the way I'd phrase it From a weak kneed guy who enjoys this lifestyle, and the nervousness is part of the excitement of the encounter, I don't want to avoid it...if I'm not excited and nervous, call the paramedics, I'm either dead or close to it LOL RG

And for those of us who have to travel and schedule well in advance, well just remember "life happens" and factor/budget that into your planning. If I was going to see a lady who charges a cancellation fee for a no show, well first I'd text her apologizing, and pay likely through email money transfer the cancellation fee...it's what a gentleman should do when he, whether his fault or not, stands up a lady. It is our lifestyle, our escape, our indulgence...and as good as the ladies are in making it seem a escape for both us and them, it is the ladies' livelihood. And for those who don't require a cancellation fee, well at least for this guy, I have, and will, tangibly make it up to them...and that is in cases with a few days at least minimum notice, and in some cases, a month or two notice of not being able to make the encounter A quick rambling RG

I guess calling ladies who have a cancellation fee policy tasteless, well I don't see that comment as positive, nor no matter how hard I try, can I spin that as a positive. I see it as negative and frankly bashes the ladies who do have a cancellation policy. RG

You have every right to state your opinion and in this case you said "To bring up a cancelation fee the next time we see a client who has had to cancel in my opinion is tasteless" But calling those who have a different policy than yours tasteless, well it does come across as stone throwing and ignorant. You can advocate your policy re cancellation fees without belittling others who have another policy. No one belittle's your business practices, nor should they...your business practices work for you, other ladies' business practices work for them. RG

I'm glad, I certainly want to see you again, and again etc etc etc Angela :-) RG

Looks like more than his balls been dunked in Neet And thanks Sara for making me spray coffee over my computer RG

The only problem with if you are not 100 percent sure you can honour your appointment philosophy is life happens to EVERYONE (and no one can be 100 percent sure) and realistically given that philosophy, no one should ever book an appointment ever Every encounter I book I'm 100% sure I will attend. But life has happened, to me, requiring postponements, and to ladies, who have postponed, and in one case a couple hours before the scheduled encounter cancelled, and due to circumstances, not a postponement, but a cancellation (and no hard feelings here, don't misunderstand). I would suggest, as has been the theme of this thread, that if the lady has a cancellation fee, that is factored into the planning of an encounter, and happily paid to the lady when life happens. A quick rambling RG