roamingguy

Whether you do your own, or find a lady who will do them for you, one thing can't be stressed enough, do it slowly and very carefully. Back in July, day before an encounter, grooming myself...didn't feel a thing but saw a bit of blood on the razor. A very tiny nick. It did change the encounter somewhat, as I had to tell the lady I nicked myself...no oral or cfs that day ...but a lot of use of hands :-) But great lady she is, it was a memorable encounter RG

Just a quick comment and hope this isn't thread hi-jacking. While yes, I prefer outcalls, and no matter where, I do have to travel to see ladies, first and foremost consideration is the lady's preference and comfort zone. If she prefers incalls, I'll see her at her place. Second matter, and some ladies do this already and it has been discussed in other threads. But for the lady to ensure her safety, verification methods are used. I'm very happy to provide requested information myself. Not only does it allow the lady to know who she is seeing, it goes great lengths to starting a trusting "relationship", even before we meet in person A quick rambling RG

Sharing the information on the SP only section would be the route to go IMHO. But while completely understandable, the desire for revenge backfires in the end. He could then start posting/bashing/negative reviewing and it just turns into a mess. I know the feeling, but I am glad I didn't act on my gut reaction when something similar happened to me. I took a deep breath, and cooled off (with the advice and counsel of a couple CERB ladies) Don't lower yourself down to his level RG

And that is the big part of the betrayl. If a new client, payment would be made up front, as is normal practice. But he violated the trust that developed with an existing SP/Client relationship, knowing that he could pay at the end of the encounter, and shortchange her after he received the services he wanted Once trust is broken, you can't get it back. He violated your trust. Don't see the guy again, it will be his loss RG

Here's a hug for you Chanel, but not squeezing too tight. Hope things get better And a hug for you too Meg, just because RG

Happy Birthday Capitalman Enjoy your special day RG

He was wrong. You induldged his request at his place, and you likely did so because as a regular, there is more of a "relationship" so to speak than with a first time client He did IMHO cross the line. As a client he shorted you...your rate is your rate. But considering he was a regular, he betrayed the "relationship" that developed between the two of you. I'm guessing there is a part of you that feels betrayed by him. The desire for payback I really understand, really understand. But don't lower yourself to his level, it could end up backfiring on you, with him writing negative reviews etc. Just don't see him again, the loss will be his Sorry you were put through this RG

Well done Megan, very much deserved RG

I'm certainly not a menu focused guy, I much prefer an encounter to unfold naturally. And I do let the lady take the lead, at least in the first couple encounters, only because she knows her boundries/limits. As for expectations, I expect the lady to have a smile on her face, and at least seem happy that we are meeting. Really, I don't have higher expectations one lady over another. Her donation doesn't determine my expectations...by the same token, ladies should expect all clients to be gentlemen Some late night ramblings for what there worth RG

I prefer outcalls, I guess because I enjoy being the host. I like getting a nice hotel room, get it ready (wine chilling etc), then as it get closer to the scheduled time, heart thumping, waiting for the knock on the door. But that is just personal preference, the most important is the lady I'm going to meet. RG

Genesis-I Can't Dance RG

Well speaking of Traveling, here is Stompin' Tom Connors with a song about where he's been on his travels I've Been Everywhere http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sqiff0WFWvs RG

And when you get hurt, you cry Roy Orbinson-Crying RG

Speaking of national...and stand while this is playing Canadian National Anthem-sung by Krista James RG

Carly Simon-You're So Vain RG

ABBA-The Winner Takes It All RG

I can't say monogamy is better (or worse) than poly-amorous. As long as each partner is comfortable with the relationship choice (monogamy or poly-amorous) they are in, then that is the right choice for him/her. But both partners have to be on the same page, and not forced into a relationship "style" the other partner wants A rambling for whatever that's worth RG

No advice on apartments since I don't live there, but as far as carpets go, don't dry them out, make sure the landlord replaces them. And have the apartment inspected/cleaned for molds etc too. Good luck RG

Sarah Personally I'm not menu focused, I enjoy the entirety of the encounter, and it's usually something about the lady's personality (gleaned from reading posts, pm's, emails) that makes me want to meet her As for your second question. No you are not strange for looking forward to encounters with certain clients. In fact it's somewhat of an ego boost to a guy to know the lady looks forward to an encounter with him. It's actually kinda special to have those type of relationships, for lack of a better word. Enjoy them and cherish them, they are few and far between RG

Tommy Hunter-No Charge http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7Om7Wkwzv0 RG

When I saw a MA I wanted to see her because I never had had a erotic massage (or lapdance and private striptease for that matter) That was the sexual experience I was looking for (and must repeat btw) I personally view erotic massage as one type of sexual encounter just as seeing a SP and getting oral/fs etc is another type of encounter If I want oral/fs etc, I'll see an SP, if I want an erotic massage, I'll see a MA. And I don't see a MA hoping for something else from that encounter Hope that is making sense RG

Had Thanksgiving Day dinner, brother and his family just left, kitchen cleaned up and now just sitting back relaxing. Tomorrow off to work, but a real short work week, on a training course (a good one) Wed through Friday. Highlight is I'm seeing a wonderful lady one evening while away on this training course, so this is going to be a great week RG

Mike and the Mechanics-All I Need Is A Miracle RG

I think the concept of homewrecker is another example of passing off responsibility onto someone who shouldn't bear responsibility. Any moral judgements, and I'm not making any, so parden my use of what can be judgemental terms should be about the husband cheating on his wife. And he would cheat irrespective of which SP he saw. If one retired, he'd see another IMHO (and seriously, no judgements here, no one knows anyones personal life, and no one here is in a position to judge) If a married man sees a SP or has an affair, shouldn't he bear the responsibility for not being faithful. Also with an affair, isn't there a real risk of emotional attachment to the lady he is seeing, whereas seeing an SP, the attachment is less emotional (ie not in love) and less risk of a husband leaving his wife over an SP, because at the end of the day, the SP/Client relationship is based on the lady being compensated financially for her time, without the expectation of the man leaving his wife and marrying her My quick rambling RG

Steve Winwood-Valerie RG