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Congratulations Cato on the Big 4000. Enjoy reading your posts, keep 'em coming RG

Wow, seriously, can't believe that many already Mind you, and as it turned out, over 1000 of those posts are the music thread But thank you everyone for your comments, very much appreciated And thank you Malika for noticing, and starting this thread, very very much appreciated RG

I found long (2 or 3 hours) sessions draining on me too...well twice, with ladies that (I won't name, it is their livelihood) let's say no chemistry with. God I couldn't wait for the encounter to end. And at least for me, it's not an issue of money, if there is no chemistry, money wise, easy come, easy go, I'd rather end it sooner, the lady can keep the money, and we end the session sooner than later And the money question, I recognize that the lady did calendar me in (over another client) at a specific date and time, so I'd let her keep the money for the encounter if cut short, if quite obvious there was no chemistry. And chemistry is after all a ymmv, sometimes 2 people just don't click, nobody's fault However, those thank goodness, too few encounters I don't focus on, I've had so many great encounters of two-three hours And I do like a first encounter to be a two hour encounter. It allows time to sit down, have something to drink, conversation, get to know one another. Seeing ladies for me isn't just about sex, it's about companionship. And thats why, for me at least, you need a couple hours to get to know one another. If you click, then repeat encounters are usually three hours. But I can see a 45 minute (well for me 30 minute) session, if it was only about sex. And that thirty minutes allows me 5 minutes to get undressed, 5 minutes to get dressed, maybe a 5 minute break to catch my breath too LOL But no matter what, I'm never looking for discounts, if I want to see a lady, it's because there is something about that lady that caught my attention, and I want to meet her Some quick additional thoughts RG

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=103 RG

Stray Cats-Stray Cat Strut RG

Question like that makes me thank god I'm single No, if I had an SO, she could watch it alone...just like I'd watch some of my favorite shows alone if she wasn't into them...the struggles you married guys face Would you, just to make an ex jealous, take an SP out (letting her know ahead of time btw) to a social event that your ex was at, for the sole purpose of making her jealous (btw I wouldn't, move on, have an encounter with the SP for the enjoyment of the encounter) RG

Well I never said the phrase TOFTT is offensive, it's just an encounter, for me, I do, for me. The last people I'm thinking about when I see a lady are the guys on "the team" I will recommend, if the lady allows reco's and I had a good encounter. But lack of reco's doesn't affect whether I'll see a lady or not RG

No, but my partner is my cat who even though I don't tell him about this, he always gives me this "look" that only cats can do, like he knows where I'm going, and he's a little annoyed with me, when I'm about to leave to see a lady Would you develop an exclusive "relationship" with just one SP, even though the exclusivity isn't going to be reciprocated? RG

I like Castle appreciating my maintaining grace in the face of defeat. Although I never felt defeated till hearing that line yesterday (btw all said tongue in cheek) LOL :-) Seriously, I like Castle, his contributions to CERB make the community a much better and positive place RG

Just a thought, instead of waiting to see a current recommendation before seeing a lady, see a lady, and write a recommendation I personally don't like the phrase TOFTT...really you are seeing a lady for yourself not some imagined team. But if you see a lady you like, write a recommendation...irrespective of whether one has been written on her before. A quick thought RG

Well I'm of the opinion that seeing a lady is more than just sex, so chemistry is definitely a large part of the encounter. Talking, communicating, hug,kiss, sense of humour etc etc etc,...everything that is done prior to clothes being removed is very important for a good encounter Menu is not first and foremost on my mind, nor do I even ask about it anymore, I prefer an encounter to unfold naturally But through posts/emails/pm's/the lady's website/profile gives me a good idea if we will click. And even if we don't see eye to eye on every single subject, it makes for interesting discussions Some ramblings RG

Congratulations on your first 1000 Isabella. You are always a positive influence on CERB, and I always enjoy reading your posts Looking forward to reading your next 1000 posts RG

Dixie Chicks-I Can Love You Better RG

1 * Accept the fact that some days you're the pigeon, and some days you're the statue! 2 * Always keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you have to eat them. 3 * Always read stuff that will make you look good if you die in the middle of it. 4 * Drive carefully... It's not only cars that can be recalled by their Maker.. 5 * If you can't be kind, at least have the decency to be vague 6 * If you lend someone $20 and never see that person again, it was probably worth it.. 7 * It may be that your sole purpose in life is simply to serve as a warning to others. 8 * Never buy a car you can't push. 9 * Never put both feet in your mouth at the same time, because then you won't have a leg to stand on. 10 * Nobody cares if you can't dance well. Just get up and dance. 11 * Since it's the early worm that gets eaten by the bird, sleep late. 12 * The second mouse gets the cheese. 13 * When everything's coming your way, you're in the wrong lane. 14 * Birthdays are good for you. The more you have, the longer you live. 15 * You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person. 16 * Some mistakes are too much fun to make only once. 17 * We could learn a lot from crayons. Some are sharp, some are pretty and some are dull. Some have weird names and all are different colors, but they all have to live in the same box. 18 * A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour. 19 * Have an awesome day and know that someone has thought about you today. 20 * It was I, your friend! *Save the earth..... It's the only planet with chocolate !*

Pretenders-Brass In Pocket RG

Robert Palmer-Addicted To Love RG

Hues Corporation-Rock The Boat RG

AC/DC-Back In Black RG

I like CMJ's very unique and correct insights And further to those insights, really, there are more people on CERB who make this a positive community than we think RG Damn...Old Dog beat me to the punch Well I like Old Dog because, um, gee, don't know...oh wait, he must be ok, came in second so he must be doing something right Just wish he'd be a little less serious, and get a sense of humour RG :-)

Congratulations Ava on post, well now 1001. Enjoy your posts, keep on writing RG

I was too slow on the draw so I like Winnipeg Cub because he is a comes across as a gentleman and is a positive contributer to the CERB community and I like Angela of Ottawa, always insightful in her posts, a positive influence on CERB, and one of the great ladies I've met in Ottawa...as great in person as on the board RG

I like Sensual Erin. Her posts are a positive contribution. I like reading what she writes, and her presence here helps makes CERB the positive community it generally is RG

Edward Bear-You And Me And Mexico RG Additional Comments: Edward Bear-You And Me And Mexico RG

I too must say thank you to all who nominated me and voted for me It really is an honour to be given so many votes, I really didn't expect it, and it leaves me somewhat humbled, considering all the Valued Members nominees in the poll WIT is definitely deserving of Valued Member award But for all who nominated and voted for me, thank you, it is really appreciated RG

ELO-Hold On Tight RG