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Shania Twain-Love Gets Me Every Time http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xidczw_shania-twain-love-gets-me-every-time_music RG

Adam Ant-Goody Two Shoes RG

Kiki Dee-I've Got The Music In Me http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IIS8khAZDAg RG

Happy Birthday Soleil Enjoy your special day RG

You know your old when you can actually remember some of these ads (originally posted in joke section) I remember seeing the doctor's smoking camels ad http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=62524 RG

Rodgers and Hammerstein-Some Enchanted Evening (South Pacific) I'm sorry everyone LOL RG :-)

Yes...and seeing as I won the lottery it would have to be a HUGE amount set aside because this activity would be quite a bit more than once a month, and every day would be Saturday Would you provide a photo of yourself to a trusted and one of your favorite gentlemen, or ladies as the case may be, if requested (a photo that could be framed and displayed, not one showing activities during an encounter) RG

Steve Miller Band-Abracadabra RG

I'm assuming the last letter is "D" (Bloomfield) so.......Diana Ross and the Supremes-Someday We'll Be Together RG

Eurythmics-Sweet Dreams http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rJE_Sc1Wags RG

KC & The Sunshine Band-Get Down Tonight RG

Nickelback-Sharp Dressed Man RG

Atlanta Rhythm Section-Imaginary Lover http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=po9xobroaSU RG

Eagles-Lyin Eyes http://www.mojvideo.com/video-eagles-lyin-eyes/a5702ebed1db6e0f7cee RG

I'm going to hell for this one I'm sorry, ahead of time Donny and Marie Osmond I'm Leaving It (All) Up To You Kinda a sick song for brother and sister to sing, don't you think http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRLhHE--BxU RG

When I began seeing ladies and a newbie member on CERB, my initial gut reaction to providing verification information was no...it's MY privacy Then, and there is a learning curve here, I stepped back a second and thought this through without the quick emotional (and I think normal reaction) that most guys have And keep in mind for the ladies, this is their livelihood, their bread and butter it's not a scheme for alterior motives First, fear of her breaking up your marriage. What does a lady gain by it? Unless she is emotionally hung up on you, a man she knows only by emails/texts/posts on a board/phone call. She has nothing to gain, except career suicide because if she outs you to your SO, she'll never get a client again Second, who really is at potential risk here. Truth be known, the lady is. She is as much seeing a stranger for the first time as the guy is. And as much as there are exceptions, women are more likely to be victims of physical violence from men, than men receiving it from women (btw not painting all men as violent). Third. Unless your filthy rich, blackmail can't be the reason. Most of us have some disposable income for this activity. If a lady thinks she is going to hit the jackpot well guess again, most of us don't have that type of money. Not to mention again, career suicide for the lady if she tries to blackmail you Now everyone has to do what is comfortable for them, within their boundaries. If there is a lady you want to see, and requires verification, then comply with it. But if the verification requirements are outside your comfort zone, and you are unwilling to provide the information, understand that by the same token, she will have to decline the encounter But, and take my word for it, three times I have been verified. My willingness to provide the required information established trust very fast, and led to an encounter with a great lady, another encounter with another lady coming up this week, and once, like ships in the night, our schedules collide LOL, another lady and I will meet. There are some other ladies, that once a date can be established, I'll happily verify with them too Some quick thoughts RG

Emily You have received not one, but two nominations from established and contributing CERB members...thats good enough reason right there Your contributions on CERB, whether public or private are contributions, and it's the contributing members that make CERB a great board So all I have to say, congratulations on your deserved nomination RG

Don't let this first time deter or sour you. My first encounter was the date from hell, but if my experience is an example, there are many many more great ladies who are dates from heaven RG

Hell yes since any SO's I have are ex-SO's Well guess my cat could watch LOL For the guys, if you have a few favourite ladies, if one all time favourite demanded you stop seeing all other ladies, she will see you exclusively, no charge, anytime, anywhere. But if you don't stop seeing all other ladies, you won't see her. Could you stop seeing all other ladies RG

I like ottawaadventurer because his posts are a positive contribution to CERB RG

Stealers Wheel-Stuck In The Middle With You RG

For the issue of work phone number, and I'm speaking for myself only, I work in a shared office/shared phone number, so a phone call to my workplace would be very awkward. And keep in mind my work life is work, my family knows the number, but only calls in an emergency. And if your not going to phone there, why have the number. Like I said, I'm cool with verification. If asked I give and have given my full name, phone (and seeing as it's a cell, I'll give my mobile carrier company too if needed), email, board (CERB) handle, with pm to confirm, a reference (or references if needed). Underlying all of this is my philosophy that if I'm concerned about a lady knowing this information, then I wouldn't want to see her to begin with. Just a quick couple thoughts RG

Well being a client, no LOL but I'm not into videotaping so it's not something I'd request from an SP...so no But on a related subject, for the ladies/gents, if you had a long time client/lady that you've been seeing, and had a bad encounter (bad day at work, ie showing up late that sort of thing) would you continue to see him/her, or would that end the SP/Client relationship for you with that person (btw, it wouldn't end it for me) RG

Edward Bear-Last Song RG

I've seen a number of ladies who have full verification requirements. That was my real name, board handle (plus pm from that board), phone, email, and reference. One lady I wanted to see required my workplace phone, but no reference...but since I work in a shared office, I declined. No encounter btw, and no hard feelings. Giving her my office number was outside my comfort zone, and me not giving it was outside her comfort zone, but no hard feelings I find it a strange reaction for the lady to be rude about you declining your work info. Gentlemen must respect a lady's boundaries...but likewise, a lady should also respect a gentleman's boundaries. If neither the lady or gentleman can work it out, part on amicable terms. But in no way should anyone question the lady's right for verification. No matter how much some guys protest about privacy concerns, the lady is always at more risk. And complying with verification sure is a great ice breaker to establishing trust Some quick ramblings RG