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I'm not a flag waver of any of the parties. Contempt and corruption have happened with both the Conservatives and Liberals The NDP, never Official Opposition before, federally...wait and see. But provincially, the NDP, the party of the working man/woman...well in Ontario they had lay offs, sorry, a Social Contract, and alienated their biggest constituent, the unions. Party ideology sometimes takes a back seat to the reality of governing, and the nature of our parliamentary system of government allows majorities this almost absolute power...and absolute power corrupts absolutely RG

Well there is one thing about the election that makes me, as a Canadian, very happy The Bloc including it's leader is all but gone...a party dedicated to the break-up of Canada. That is good for Canada as a whole Some musings RG

Yes go vote I voted early last weeks...there was a line-up We can complain all we want, but there are people in countries like China, North Korea etc etc etc who would love to trade places with us to be allowed the right and freedom to vote No matter who you support, vote...it seperates us from a democracy and shouldn't be taken for granted RG

I'll coin one (at least I think I coined it) KCCC Kissing, Cuddling, Conversation and Companionship I know this acronym is not sexually oriented, but any gfe imho has included all of the above, and as I found to my delight, seeing ladies is so much more than just the sexual aspect RG

Congragulations Nicolette. I enjoy reading your post. Keep on writing RG

With all the talk about age preferences I'm going to walk a tightrope with no safety net here by asking this question With all the concern on age, I wonder how many ladies put on their profile/website a younger age than they really are because they think guys are automatically turned on by younger ladies, but they think the older they get, the less attractive and desirable they will be to men? BTW at least for this guy age and desirability are not mutually exclusive RG

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Sugarland-All I Want To Do RG

Thanks for the news story, that's great news As for your question how he died, I think reading from the BBC report The al-Qaeda leader was killed in a ground operation in a mansion outside Islamabad in an operation based on actionable US intelligence, CNN reported. it was a military operation. But I'm watching the news now for details Glad the piece of sh*t is dead RG

ELO-Evil Woman RG

I don't think Ottawa is oversexed compared to any other major city, just that alot of the ladies and gentlemen of CERB are from Ottawa. Best analogy is if you went to the site, rhymes with CERB, but begins with T, you would think Toronto is oversexed. One thing about going to that site beginning with T, is you'll also find out how great CERB is, and the other sites at best rate a distant second This coming from a guy not in Ottawa btw, but I do visit Ottawa, as well as Kingston, Toronto and Hamilton...guess I'm an Ontario boy RG

Geez, have we forgotten Batgirl RG

Well one thing about me is I have enough self confidence that I don't need to write a review that reads like a guy bragging in a locker room. I write a recommendation (if ok with the lady) just to let the lady know my time with her was appreciated, and she is attractive and desirable, while at the same time letting other guys know there is a lady that is worth getting to know. Detailed play by play, well at my age, to make that type of reading worthwhile, it would have to fall in the realm of fiction LOL. And when it comes to the ladies I see, again I have enough self confidence to see who I want to see, not who is some other guys' idea of the perfect lady. When it comes to my type of lady, two criteria, she has to be female and 25 and up. Nuff said RG

Kyra Wholeheartedly agree that there is a difference between a reco, and a reference, but I was using the terms only because a reference (at least imho) is the ladies equivalent (for lack of a better word) to the guy's reco. But I definitely see and appreciate the difference and the ladies safety is paramount vs the guys enjoyment of the encounter (hope that makes sense) Being honest with your time with a guy in a reference is good, as is also alerting ladies of negative feedback of the same guy from other ladies. I've also read some reviews (me I prefer a recommendation), it's almost like locker room bragging talk. Thanks for answering the question, you got what I was asking And btw, the question only started going around my brain when I read a nasty review (it was beyond just a bad review) of one great lady I have seen...just wondered how many start following the bad review with bad reviews of their own, or won't recommend/review after seeing a bad review And thought I'd see the ladies side of the coin with references. That must sound like a mouthful of a rambling Thanks RG RG

Sheena Easton-Morning Train (9 to 5) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S3z9dx4U3gw RG

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How about in the case of a gentleman who you had a good date with, but you find out after the fact that he has been red flagged, but your date was good, no complaints...would you provide a reference for him, or would the fact that he has been red flagged by others deter you from providing the reference BTW, my curiosity stems from what is IMHO a almost nasty review of a lady I have seen twice (and about to see for the third time)...and I wanted both the guys perspectives on giving recos/reviews and ladies perspectives on references if their first hand experience is good, but others write that they had bad experiences RG

Something about Wonder Woman and being tied up with the golden lasso of hers...I don't know if it's a Wonder Woman fantasy though, or a Lynda Carter fantasy Then, although not super heroines, they were crime fighters, the original Charlies Angels (Farrah Fawcett, Jaclyn Smith and Kate Jackson) Guess I'm aging myself here RG

I always go ahead with a reco if my time with the lady was good And as for bad days at work analogy, well I respect that this is the lady's livelihood, which is why I don't do bad reviews (just no reco/review at all) I was just curious if previous bad reviews impacts a guy writing a good review/reco if he had a good time, and likewise, if a lady had a good time from her standpoint, and in her opinion, the guy is reference worthy, would she hold back a reference if other SP's reported the guy as a bad date, for lack of a better word Agree with you, in all cases, ymmv, there is a chemistry/connection element with encounters RG

Happy Birthday Angeltbay Enjoy your special day RG

This topic has been in my head for the past few weeks. I saw a absolutely bad (bordered on nasty) review of a lady I have seen (actually I have seen twice, and about to see for a third time). My question, both to the guys and the ladies. If you saw a lady or gentleman, as the case may be, and your time with her/him was worthy of a good reco/ or a good reference, but you found out others posted a bad review of the lady, or in the case of a gentleman, he had bad reviews from another lady (ladies) would you still provide a good reco/review for the lady, or reference for the gentleman. I know in my case, any reco I write is based on my time with the lady. Just wondering what everyone else's opinion is RG

Some more thoughts. I'm a mixture of both. I have one lady, who in two weeks I will have had the pleasure of seeing for the third time. There are a couple others I will see again, because the time with them the first time was great. And then there are others who because there was either no chemistry or the encounter was plain out bad, I'd never see again. And for me, the time together is far more than the sexual aspect. The chemistry/conversation/social aspect...don't know the right word to encompass all of it is just, if not more important, at least for me, than the physical I do see ladies I haven't seen before, because variety is the spice of life so to speak...but I do some checking first (ie CERB), to make sure our time together will be mutually beneficial. But there is also a different, but great feeling waiting for a lady you have seen before. Some ramblings RG

I'm just curious as to why the focus on seeing an escort nationally as opposed to engaging in sex tourism...I assume that is taking a trip internationally to engage in sex. If just taking a trip qualifies as sex tourism, then every encounter I have had required a trip, to Hamilton, Toronto, Kingston and Ottawa. For seeing an escort internationally, it does depend on where. If it is going to a country where it is a case of woman, or girls are exploited by others, with little or no chance of legal sanctions, I'm definitely against it. By the same token if someone is seeing woman or girls in Canada who are exploited, definitely against it. And in the case of girls and boys (my definition, those who are under age) any guy who would even see one needs to be strung up...I don't care if in Canada or worldwide, pedophillia is wrong. Hurting kids (and underage they are kids IMHO) by getting your sexual gratification from them is sick. Thats one reason my comfort zone for seeing ladies is 25 years or older, but I digress. One thing about seeing ladies in Canada, you have resources, like CERB, and the ladies' websites to help provide you with an educated opinion about whether the ladies are consenting or being exploited. There are some where I look at the profile, red flags and alarm bells go off, and I stay away. Others, you can see that the lady is established, and you are entering a consenting mutually benificial arrangement Some ramblings over my second cup of coffee RG

Willie Nelson (last name begins with N)-Blue Skies RG