roamingguy

For what it's worth, when I started hobbying, the very first "lady" I saw should have needed a reference (she was that bad)...but it's lesson learned But to those ladies who I had the good fortune and pleasure to meet without the need for a reference, it's very much appreciated And for those ladies that I've seen, or will see, but required a reference as part of the screening, I certainly have no problem providing one (or if needs be, more) I can see from the ladies viewpoint why they would like some reference. I would assume the reference just lets ladies know the guy they are about to meet intimately and alone isn't dangerous, is on time, pays in full, and has good hygiene...completely understandable why a reference is sometimes requested For what it's worth RG

Couple more popped into my head...wasn't thinking about them when I first posted First one. I've had to look after my mother taking her back and fourth to surgeries/doctors appointments etc. It took alot of my time, and really cut into my fishing last summer (it's also one reason I need to plan my hobbying way ahead of time)...but I digress. I'm not complaining however, because I consider myself lucky that my mother is alive and well enough that I can be around to look after her Second one...and some will consider it sappy. There was a ferrill kitten at the humane society, which if not adopted was to be returned to where it came from after getting shots/neutered. Well he saw me and adopted me, and instead of having to go back out in the cold, he has a warm home and he is allowing me to live with him, all I have to do is feed him and pay the rent LOL RG

For me A warm pleasant personality Assertive Respect for herself and others Intelligience (that doesn't mean they need a Ph.D, some of the most intelligent people I know have high school) Life experience for lack of a better word In terms of looks/age, well I have been attracted to women of all ages, and looks, you couldn't profile me (except to say they are female) RG

Aaron Tippin Kiss This RG

A few more Anal Pumper (fire truck) Anal Meat Wagon (slang for ambulance) Anal (VW) Rabbit Anal Edsel Anal (Toyota) Tundra Anal (Dodge) Viper And I still don't look at my truck the same way RG

The only thing good about winter is spring is next and coming Sorry, but after a winter storm a couple weekends ago cancelling a planned encounter, I now hate winter Just kidding, it's just another season RG

Rolling Stones Satisfaction RG

Yes, why feel guilty. If at all, feel good that the time you spent with her provided money to the lady to put food in the child's mouth and clothes on the child's back I do see it leading to awkward feelings, but feeling bad, why? My 2 cents RG

This past Christmas got to celebrate it with my family, including my 7 year old nephew who was born premature and told he had 6 months to live (I do love it sometimes when doctors are wrong) RG

This damned addicting game...love it!!!! Eagles Hotel California http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ygI3BZxdCY RG

"please don't hurt me" LOL RG

How about anal beamer (BMW) Still won't look at my truck the same way though, :???:thanks Cleo:grin: RG:-D

The game is on again Nazareth Love Hurts RG

I'm not going to look at my truck the same way again But to add, instead of just Hummer, now Anal Hummer RG

Your secret is safe with me Elaine, sorry Emma

So we now know your real name...it's Elaine:wink: RG

Meg I want you now RG

Just to add to the discussion, I do like the outcall. But for me, to a nice hotel (forgot cheap hotels/motels) And I do ask the lady if any preference to hotels But I do have fond memories of some incalls At the end of the day, it's got to be a location that both the lady and hobbiest feel safe and comfortable with Thrown into the discussion for what it's worth RG

Forgot to add to my list Gordon Lightfoot Anne Murray and mentioned before, but the genuine Canadian singer, Stompin Tom...all Canadians can relate to what he sings RG

Meg's thread about phone numbers got me to thinking, from the vantage point of the lady's safety. Do the ladies prefer an outcall to a hotel or incall to their place. It would seem to me (I may be wrong here) but the safest one for the ladies would be an outcall to the guy's hotel (after all it's his name on the registration) I kinda like the outcall myself, getting ready for the encounter, wine chilling etc, and the anticipation of the knock on the door. Some thoughts, both from the ladies and hobbiests RG

A few BTO Prairre Oyster Bryan Adams Shania Twain Terri Clark Farmers Daughter Neil Young RG

Couple more things to add. First, whore with heart of gold...NO..heart of gold yes, but in my hobbying experience, it's been ladies I've been with, not whores. As for stalker issue, my last girlfriend turned out to be a stalker, very off balanced. The ladies I've met through hobbying thus far and those I've communicated with via posts/pm's/e-mails, intelligient, kind, and caring. The cell phone issue, go to most stores (wireless wave, walmart, etc) pick up a cheap phone pay as you go...no need for a contract. You can get into a cell phone for about $100.00...which is pretty cheap...no reason not to get one. As for the info, I delete the lady's number off my phone after the encounter, and her address if an incall off my gps as soon as the date is over. RG

I've never had a problem with giving my cell phone number (which now btw is my home phone too) I only prefer text, since you may get the call in an area where you can't speak. Likewise, I prefer texting, since the lady may not be in a spot where she can talk But I'm pretty open, give my cerb handle, first name, phone number, email address and reference if needed But I'd be really disappointed if I missed Meg, but life happens RG

Why when looking at that picture of Sandra Bullock, am I reminded of one of my favorite ladies who recently retired RG