roamingguy

Geez this talk is giving me more flashbacks, and whetting my appetite too. Hoagie House (cheese steak hoagies were great) back in my high school days in Kingston Fat Alberts pizza (going way back, pre high school days)-first one out in Bell's Corners. RG

Reading through this thread and I had a thought.:idea: Maybe there could be a way in the hobbiest's profile that a icon (thumbs up) could be put by an SP. The SP after seeing the hobbiest, if the encounter was good, could click on the hobbiest's profile, and put a thumbs up icon on his profile. Any other sp's who check the hobbiest's profile would see the thumbs up, click on it, see who submitted it and if any questions they could contact the sp For negative encounters there is the restricted sp only section of cerb. Just a quick thought, quickly thought out RG

Start of the Labour Day Weekend...3 days away from work, I'm happy Be happier if I could hobby...but I have a encounter scheduled in a few weeks time that I'm looking forward too RG

Definitely get a lawyer to protect your friends interests. And call the police to have the children charged with theft for taking stuff out of your friends home. Right now my mother is going through some issues, I could never imagine doing something like those kids are doing...that sort of thing pisses me off RG

Fell off the bow of my boat into a lake one early spring years ago Damn it was cold RG

I think this all stems to basic interpersonal relations...treat someone the way you would like to be treated Everyone deserves respect Another 2 cents RG

That's too bad, loved their smoked meat on rye and matzaball soup But that's going back quite a few years now...left Ottawa 1984 Thanks Cindy RG

This talk about food gave me a flashback to years ago when I lived in Ottawa. Is Nate's Deli still going (I believe it is/was on Rideau Street) RG

Usually on the road, hunger isn't a issue for me, but I find I need a Timmies to keep me going....extra large double cream RG

I don't know about you, but I'd be worried about the credit card receipts...alot don't want a financial record of the hobbying. If you need to use a credit card, just go to a bank machine, get a credit card cash advance. RG

There are some people who think they are better and more important than everyone else. To that I say it's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice RG

PM sent RG

Unsolicited PM's from SP's you don't know and haven't established any sort of SP/Client relationship, not cool If an SP you know, and it's confirming an appointment, or letting a client know a opening is coming, etc, no problem...to me it's an alternative to email RG

Meg You are absolutely right, it can't be forced. Even so called institutionalized rehab only works if the individual is willing to be rehabed...it is still the addict's choice whether they want to kick the habit. Another problem (don't ask me how I know, and no, I'm not, never have been a druggie) is programs are too short. It takes approx 30 days to get the drug out of the system, and the addicts need for another fix to go away. Then treatment programs take 30 days. Most programs are 30 days long total, when they should be 60 (30 days to detox, under medical supervision, then 30 day treatment) By the time the 30 day program (detox+treatment) is over, they are back out looking for their next fix. And unless you are professional, with resources, as cold as this sounds, don't try to "save" an addict yourself, you'll likely be dragged down, and it's emotionally, at the minimum, draining. RG

Note to self, no socks and sandals LOL RG

And believe it or not Megan, I want to book a appointment with you. Budget and distance allows one encounter/appointment per month for me, but come December...well I can see a third trip to Ottawa in my future RG

Thanks for the replies, at least I know now I'm not wired wrong (at least in this regards LOL) I think I'll continue hobbying, but my cut off will be minimum 25 years old So this hobby opens up a whole age range, by the time the year is out, I'll have seen woman from late 20's (29) to mid/late 40's.....and loving it RG

I'm going to pose a question to everyone out there. I'm 49 years old. My comfort level in age difference would be seeing an SP youngest mid to late twenties. I've seen some SP profiles with woman that are 18 years old (to me, teenager) to early twenties. They are physically attractive, but I can't get my brain around the age difference (I'm thinking they could under different circumstances be my daughters age, or really stretching it, close to a granddaughters age) and a rendevous with someone that young would make me feel like a dirty old man Am I wired wrong, or do I have a conscience, or just different values/ethics? RG

My viewpoint is this. It is paying for sexual intimacy. It may last an hour, or two or however long you pay for. But during that time the focus is on you and the SP. I say intimacy, only because for me at least, it's not a 5 minute wham bam thank you mamm, and you leave, treating the SP as a thing. It is, for me, 2 people having fun together, and both leaving happy, and hopefully, not to sound cliche, respecting one another. Not leaving feeling cheap and used. Thus far I'm lucky to have connected with one special lady, who I will see again, and I think of her and our short time together fondly. Hopefully my introduction to this hobby will introduce me to other special ladies and judging by posts written, there are alot out there RG

I have to agree with the Mod. Remember, the ladies are real people, with real feelings and deserve to be treated with respect. If you have a bad experience, my advice, chalk it up to experience and move on and get on with life. Don't dwell on this, it will end up dragging you down And remember, when you see a lady (and yes, they are ladies) that you have a good encounter with, spend a bit of time, and write a review/recommendation. Trust me, not only will it be appreciated by the ladies, you'll feel good too. 2 cents from a relative newbie RG

Not to hijack the post, but how do the ladies feel about body hair (ie chest, legs etc) Personally I can't see myself shaving my chest/legs etc RG

My first SP experience was off CL. The experience, well I felt I was raped, paid $400.00 got very little (in a 2 hour period, maybe total 40 minutes...she needed lots of breaks) Chalk it up to a learning experience. No more CL for me RG

Why does this joke come to mind RG ........................- HELGA'S DIARY ON A CRUISE SHIP DEAR DIARY - DAY 1 All packed for the cruise ship -- all my nicest dresses, swimsuits, short sets. Really, really exciting. Our local Red Hat chapter decided on this "all-girls" trip. It will be my first one, - and I can't wait! ............................................................-- DEAR DIARY - DAY 2 Entire day at sea, beautiful. Saw whales and dolphins. Met the Captain today -- seems like a very nice man. ............................................................-- DEAR DIARY - DAY 3 At the pool today. Did some shuffleboard, hit golf balls off the deck. Captain invited me to join him at his table for dinner. Felt honored and had a wonderful time. He is very attractive and attentive. .........................................................- DEAR DIARY - DAY 4 Won $800.00 in the ship's casino. Captain asked me to have dinner with him in his own cabin. Had a scrumptious meal complete with caviar and champagne. He asked me to stay the night, but I declined.. Told him I could not be unfaithful to my husband. ............................................................-- DEAR DIARY - DAY 5 Pool again today. Got sunburned, and I went inside to drink at piano-bar, stayed there for rest of day. Captain saw me, bought me several large drinks. Really is quite charming. Again asked me to visit his cabin for the night. Again I declined. He told me, if I did not let him have his way with me, he would sink the ship... I was shocked. ............................................................-- DEAR DIARY - DAY 6 Today I saved 1600 lives. Twice.

If the next one was scheduled in July, I just might pop up (that's my holidays)...I could see me scheduling a rendevous at the same time RG