777flyer

This happened to me as well, I had actually brought the subject up the first time I saw her, given the location we had met and the fact i would occasionally be in the general area she worked.....we agreed that discretion, for both our sakes, is best maintained at all times. Sure enough, while out for shopping trip, we run into each other, and with a polite smile and a gentle nod of our heads, we politely acknowledged each other.....and moved on without stopping or conversing. I sent an email afterwards, wishing her a great day and she was appreciative that i did not stop to chat, as was I she didn't....you never know who is lurking nearby, family, friend...business partner.... Discretion is always best maintained in my opinion....

Having recently joined this hobby, i do not think your stepped approach will enhance your experience.....good research will. What will, in my opinion, is to do a lot of reading and research on this board, decide what it is you are looking for in an SP, and find one that is best suited to your needs and desires.... If you are unsure, send an email and your questions will be asked, as long as you are polite, sincere and honest....you will get that in return... I did ! Whether it be thru an agency or an Indy....it is what you want and who you select that makes a difference.......not the sequence in which you progress from an agency to an indy.... SNK

Being new at this, let me ask a question. What if the SP has a no review policy, and the session with the SP turns out to be far less than you had expected ? Catch 22 ? Should we not then tell our fellow hobbyists of the less than favorable review, or do we keep quiet ? SNK

Having just now started enjoying the hobby, I have decided that absolute discretion is a must....for me anyway. Not everyone shares our liberal views of this hobby, nor would most ever consider it......so i choose to keep people in the dark and don't take anyone into my confidence. I have far too much to lose in terms of my family, job and friends....and people just don't really 'Get' what this hobby is about and how much of an enjoyment it can bring. I don't particularly feel like being judged by the narrow minded.....many of whom run our society... SNK

Yes, months is the minimum..... Have a cute kitten, first time she went into heat, watched her rub everything, and purring and meowing...then she got so loud late at nights that i made a bee line to the vets.... She was a little worse for wear for a few days, but all is well and she has forgiven us now....lol