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In my opinion there is certainly nothing wrong with a dirty mind... it can help get the heart beating and your imagination all fired up... of course like anything we do we need to be aware of our environment and act appropriately.... not suggesting we should not push boundaries just keeping it realistic. So yeah... I have a Dirty Mind lol Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

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I kinda agree it is hard for a strip club to compete with all the available alternatives... when i was younger strip clubs never really had as much competition... now there are all kinds of alternatives and the cost is way higher. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Happy belated Birthday grass_hopper. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I was only ever in the Silver Dollar once about 8 years ago and was not all that impressed. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Just finished doing some tax returns for family... once theirs are done I can actually do my own Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Right it is... lol Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

The most I do is go to see a beautiful lady as often as I can. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I have always loved the look of a lady lying on her stomach on the bed... that combination of back and butt just is amazing. Just my opinion. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Couldn't agree more... I think most likely in those situations where lines have become blurred that the client and yes sometimes the lady if they are not expecting the end of the relationship, might initially react based on their emotions. I am not suggesting that is appropriate just that I can see that as something that I am sure happens. In regards to stalking, harassment, threatening to out the lady ... that would never be acceptable in my mind. I strongly believe in discretion and would not advocate anyone, client or lady, bashing each other in public or using others to do so even indirectly but if the clients behavior was inappropriate I am pretty sure it will be shared in the Escorts only area and with friends so like wise if the ladies behavior was inappropriate the client should not be expected to remain silent if asked about his experience with the lady. I don't believe in negative reviews with the exception of the warnings area here which should of course be used only as intended. Bottom line endings are not easy and people should strive to keep it civil but that advice apply as much to the client as the lady. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

In your perfect world where lines never get blurred you are 100% right but most of us actually don't live in that world so my comments on this topic also include situations where the lines have become blurred and as I said it takes both parties to blur the lines in this industry. Imagine my gall to actually suggest that poorly ending relationships in this industry might from time to time result from the behavior of both parties.... what a concept... how silly of me. Imagine my even thinking that a relationship might end for any reason other than the client doing something... what was I possibly thinking. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Emily with your depth of experience you are an eloquent advocate for the many wonderful ladies working in this industry I do hope however that you will forgive me if I suggest that your response is somewhat one sided ... To suggest, as your post does, (unless I am misunderstanding it and maybe I am) that escorting relationships end only because of the behaviors of the client or that they are the only source of the drama ignores the fact that there were two parties involved and while I general accept your premise that us men might be the more frequent culprit I think it is safe to assume that from time to time it is the ladies behavior or even more likely both parties behavior that lead to the problem and the resentment especially in arrangements that have extended over longer durations. My post simply suggested that relations are complex and difficult and that when the lines get blurred (which takes the acceptance of two parties) it can cause drama and that both parties need to restrain their emotions and seek to take the high road.... not always an easy task but certainly the desired outcome. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

The dissolution of a relationship be that a business relationship either inside or outside this industry or a friendship or a more personal relationship such as a marriage or significant personal relationship is never easy...relationships regardless of type are as complex as the individuals who are in them. Of course in this industry it is always our hope that people reflect on the positives of the relationship and be thankful for what was and that they can look forward to the new opportunities the future will bring to each of them as they go their own way.... As we all know the world is never that simple... either party may feel resentment or loss or lack of understanding as to what is happening...either party may feel taken advantage of or feel that certain issues financial or other maybe outstanding and need to be addressed as part of winding up the previous arrangement. Of course the more simple the previous arrangement the easier it is to separate...conversely if the parties have through their previous behaviors made their arrangement complicated then this may make the separation more challenging and require that the best in both people rise to the top. If the individuals have kept their arrangements pure business and not "blurred" the lines and never stepped outside the x dollars for x hours then it will be much easier (but not necessarily easy) to move forward. The client may have formed an attachment to the lady that he will miss or the lady my suddenly be without a regular source of revenue that they have become accustomed too. I am not saying that is appropriate just that it might in fact be the case. Hopefully it is well understood by everyone who partakes in this industry that either party has the right to either not make or not accept a booking at any time they like... the trick obviously is how that is done... thought should certainly be put into the communication of the decision to ensure it takes into consideration the needs of the other party... for example if the parties have normally connected by phone perhaps an email might not be appropriate. Of course if the lady has concerns for her personal safety she should always take that into consideration. Drama is often a two way street and in my experience it is often the person insisting on making it clean with no drama who has perhaps instigated the drama by their own behavior.... try to show the other person the same level of respect you would like them to show you. When arrangements in this industry come to an end it is probably incumbent on both to try and restrain their emotions... don't drag others into the situation... limit commentary on discussion boards like this so as to not inflame the issues that might exist ... when people are emotional they are more likely to over react to a simple post that they may feel is directed at them... so my advice would be to exercise caution... don't take steps in the emotion of the time that run the risk of being misunderstood by the other party especially if the relationship has been ongoing for a long time or was particularly frequent. There are as many reasons for an arrangement to end as there are people in arrangements hopefully the fact that the arrangement has worked for a while has meant that there was some connection between the two.... perhaps it is best for everyone if neither part sets fire to the bridges they both used to get where they are ... you never know what the future holds. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

It is illegal to purchase sex.... it is legal to sell sex... your question is not dumb... the law is. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Not sleeping unfortunately... Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Sitting at home very frustrated that I have been treated very badly by someone I considered a good friend. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

It's kinda nice to see that our police forces nationally are continuing to use discretion and considering the broader issues of worker safety and community good when implementing this new law rather than just fall into lock step with Harpers moralistic right wing approach. !they seem to better understand the issues around the industry then the politicians. That said I don't think we are out of the woods yet. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Interesting thread... I am not sure I agree that all sports teams have an obligation to venture into this area but I think soom certainly do. In sports like Hockey where the game at the higher amateur level often involves the most talented players being away from home and family during what is often the crucial years of sexual and emotional development then I think the teams take on a greater role in that aspect of the persons development.... they have to be more present in ensuring that these young people understand what is expected of them and help them to understand that just because they are elite athletes they don't operate outside the rules of consent. As a society we are not that good at helping our your understand consent even when the young person is at home surrounded by role models. Recent information from the US has highlighted that 1 in 4 or 5 young women attending university will experience unwelcome physical sexual attention so it's not just our athletes who don't seem to get the issue and this clearly speaks to a need for improved sexual education in the schools about Consent and what that means.... While I am not from Ontario I believe this is one of the changes recently proposed in the ontario governments announcement about revising sex ed...starting earlier... and preparing younger students for the vast amount of sex imagery and information that they will see in the media and social media. Ok... i know long and rambling way of saying yes some sports should take this more serious but in reality so should we all. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

This industry is in large part driven by disposable income so it's not unrealistic to think that many of the more active clients are people who are more established financially which in a lot of case is when they are older. As an older guy in my mid fifties who has some degree of financial independence and who enjoys the company of a beautiful sexy intelligent woman I have seen ladies in the age range from 19 to mid 50's and all I can say is I tend to have the best connection with women who are mid thirties and later. I am not saying I have never connected with someone younger just that in general the connection has been better with ladies in their 30's. Now don't get me wrong the younger ladies I have meet have been wonderful... the sex has been great and their bodies have been the thing guy's constantly fantasize about but with the ladies who have had a few more years of life experiences I have just shared a greater connection in addition to the amazing sex. Let's face it... if I am booking for a couple of hours there will be lots of time for other things besides sex and it is that companionship time that often makes the difference for me. Beyond the sex the more mature ladies have generally understood me better.... they had the life experiences that were more in common with me. I will suggest however that these more mature ladies are I think with out exception younger in spirit and outlook then their age might initially suggest and yes they were all extremely sexy. In life as we get older I think we often come to learn to appreciate as sexy things that we might not when we are younger... aging with grace and showing that in how you carry yourself can for me be very attractive. So bottom line I can understand why a lady might choose to market herself to the demographic that she feels she best connects with just like I might select who I choose to meet. As long as the lady who opens the door is genuine to the image she has portrayed in her ads then I don't think I would care that she fibbed about her age. Just my Opinion.... makes sense to me might not to anyone else. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Nope pretty much the same things in my glovebox... clean your car... what do you mean?? Lol Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

You have to wonder what type of society we are living in when a 9 year old boy with Autism was handcuffed by police at his school after he had an outburst ... something that to my limited knowledge is not all that unusual with children with Autism. I would have thought in today's school environment protocols would have been in place for this child to safely deal with these type of issues without putting the child through the trauma of having to be restrained and handcuffed like a criminal... he is nine?? I don't no all the details as i only caught a short clip on the news a few minutes ago so I may be missing something but shame on us for not having the proper supports in place for the student... the teacher and the school. http://www.ctvnews.ca/canada/parents-demand-ottawa-school-records-of-autistic-boy-who-was-handcuffed-1.2285207 Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I am a Leafs fan so I am not quite sure what you guys mean when you suggest cheering for a team to be in the playoffs...... That said I can honestly tell you that I hope as many Canadian teams make it to the playoff... it really is time for OUR CUP to come back home. So if necessary I will cheer for HABS, Senators, Flames, Oilers Or Vancouver if they are in contention. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Tickets to a show for my Daughter... I have been so blessed in my life by my children. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Supper tonight will be a surprise... A good one... my daughter is cooking and she always does something nice. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Just about to leave work and head home... more snow here today so here's hoping a generous neighbor has already been out and cleaned out my driveway. Well having hope is a good thing right? Additional comments: Well hoping paid off driveway was all clear... I have great neighbors. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk