Ice4fun

I agree I was just kidding around based on your post making her sound so wonderful :). Memories of beautiful meeting can last for a long while.

There are sites for swinging just like this site for example www.fabswingers.com. When I referred to a small group of friends I meant friends you met through swinging not asking for your friend to share his wife.... But if his wife is hot... imagine the possibilities. Lol

Suddenly I wish I had pictures of Katrine.... Maybe if you find the you will repost here Lyla for those who were not lucky enough to have met you in person. 🙂

Lucky for us technology has allowed us to receive texts at any time and still keep them confidential. There lots of apps out there that hide text's away in hidden files and removes them from your phones main text log. To access the text you need a password. For example you can setup the app to treat texts from either a specific phone number or from any phone number not in your contacts as confidential and immediately upon receipt secure them from view. You can set it such that your phones normal notifications (vibrate, ring, blinking light etc) are silenced. This allows you to receive those confidential texts and never worry about them being seen by prying eyes. Additionally it means that you don't have to delete them from your phone so they are available for future reference. Just my Opinion

I am not sure I would generalize about swingers any more than about people who participate in visiting SP's ... I think there are many different people who participate because it meets a particular need they have in their life. In some cases it is a way for couples to explore sexually without going outside their marriage and if that works for them great. Many times people swing within a very small group of friends. As for cleanliness and safety I know there are many swingers who are as diligent about this as anyone else. Unfortunately people often think of swinging as larger groups in an orgy when in fact it is often two couples or a couple with a single joining them. Good clean fun sex... Cleanliness and safety are each of our own responsibilities so swinging would be as safe and clean as you take responsibility for. Just my Opinion

I generally only trust recommendations from people who are active in the forum not only posting but likes etc and who have history here. Just my Opinion

I guess you are assuming people are speculating ... I was not. There is nothing therapeutic about the types of Massage we are talking about and it is only the rare situation where the provider is a RMT. Making an insurance claim for something you know is not covered on purpose is in fact fraud.... I would totally agree that the likelihood of the insurance company doing anything more than deny the claim is very very very low. As for being fired if this issue was ever brought forward ... there are legal protocols around when an employer can fire someone for outside behaviour and the threshold is pretty high ... the activity would have to damage the employer and render the employee incapable of doing their job. That said it is a little more complicated for jobs that require a security clearance... if you lose this clearance as a result of your actions you may be ineligible to continue employment ... this is not being fired it administrative based on your ability to retain a clearance. Just my Opinion