Ice4fun

Christmas gifts for my family...

From my perspective the personal bar of soap and mini mouth wash would not be necessary... a large bottle of mouth wash with paper cups and some liquid soap or body wash would be just fine. I kinda work from the assumption that if I have decided to spend some intimate time with this wonderful lady and she has agreed to see me then it's reasonable to assume she has the same excellent taste in her other clients so my level of concern is not that great. Just my Opinion

The Safe Harbour Outreach Project (SHOP) in St. John's which works with sex workers in the province, has written an open letter to Premier Paul Davis, asking for action to delay new Criminal Code provisions in the federal Protection of Communities and Exploited Persons Act. SHOP says as a former police officer, Davis has more than a passing familiarity with the vulnerability and powerlessness experienced by some sex workers in the province. They says they believe the Act will result in serious harm against sex workers in the province and across Canada. SHOP coordinator Laura Winters says overwhelming evidence shows that the criminalization of sex work contributes to harm against sex workers. She says the Act will expose sex workers to further stigma and discrimination, diminish control over their working conditions, and threaten their health and safety. She is calling on the premier to refer the Act to the Newfoundland and Labrador Court of Appeal before pursuing prosecutions under the new laws. The link below is to thelocal St. John's news story which includes a link to the letter written by SHOP. http://www.vocm.com/newsarticle.asp?mn=2&id=51063&latest=1

While I would agree that organized religion has certainly painted a picture that says that monogamy is the only right way I am not sure sure that religious dogma should be the measuring stick for whether Monogamy is right or wrong maybe it is both.... maybe it is the right thing for some and the wrong thing for others... I kinda feel that's where most organized religions go wrong thinking they know what's right for everyone. I am not a deeply religious person but in my day to day life i have been involved with my church and other community groups who I see involved in adding value to our/my community (btw I define my community very widely)... do I support every thing my church has or will do... of course not... but i do support the positive things they do. So I am a church going CERB member... that does not make me or most of the people I connect with in my religious community right wing zealots who are intolerant of diversity or of everyone's personal rights to choose what they believe for themselves. If monogamy works for you go for it if it is not what is right for you wonderful Just my Opinion

Over the last couple of years that I have been active in this hobby I have met some of the most caring amazing people I have ever met... before becoming involved my impression of people working in this industry was I guess conditioned by the media and right wing conservatives who paint a very cold ruthless picture which I quickly learned was not true. Unfortunately I have also come to understand how mean spirited people can be... people who do things like f... with people's ads or post ridiculous reviews or malicious posts intended to hurt others....I have come to realize how people working in this industry have to deal with idiots who pester them with texts and emails and calls who are literally stalkers who put the lives of ladies and their family's in danger.... people need to grow up and stop acting like stupid a..holes. Just my Opinion

All i need is the basics... towels, wash cloth, body wash and mouth wash. In fact I keep mouth wash and tooth paste in my vehicle to ensure that when I arrive my breath is great for that first embrace and welcome kiss. While i don't think it's necessary to have more than the basics I will admit that when i see that a lady has taken the time to do little extras for her guest it certainly impresses me. Just my Opinion

Ultimately the choice is yours to make based on what works best for you. I don't think from a client booking perspective it would make a difference if the client was the really interested in seeing you. That said my preference is clearly text and i find the exchange with the lady through texting a few messages as part of the booking process to be informative to me. Just my Opinion

I like a warm sexy embrace at the door and then to sit and chat... i love getting to know the lady and making a connection... as we talk i like for us to touch and kiss until we both just naturally move to the bedroom. Just my Opinion

Late work day... ran a few errands for a friend... went to funeral home.... so that means supper is delivery Pizza.

I kinda think people should have the right to live their life any way they like... if monogamy works for them great if not that's fine to. To each their own. Just my Opinion

Never smoked so sorry I don't have any good tips for you. Congratulations on the first 24 days... keep up the good work.

You are quite right... thank you for taking the time to tease out all the details so as to ensure that we all were reminded of the obvious as opposed to focusing on the actual point of my initial post... if the lady was trustworthy before the law when there was also illegal activity involved why would we trust her less now? Just my Opinion

Well I think this is really a two way street I think some times us clients forget that we are not the only ones contacting the lady when in fact they are constantly getting the same questions over and over.

Happy Birthday Sasha... hope you have a great day.

If I visited a lady at her place of work (condo / home/ hotel) i was participating in an illegal activity and given the amount of inservice I saw advertised that would implicate a lot of clients and ladies. However that said the main point of my post was that the new law has increased the element of risk due to the increase in what's illegal ... however if we could trust these same ladies before when there was legal risks why not now... i don't see how the new law has made the ladies i see less trustworthy. Just my Opinion

I know what you mean about censorship... i think it took me 15 attempts to get my earlier reply accepted... While I accept the changes the board is making if it becomes that hard to post a non sex related post it will hurt this board as people will just not bother. Just my Opinion

Happy Birthday Reuben... hope it's a great day

When I get more than three hours rest a night it is wonderful. I was always a night owl but it has been particularly problematic over the last couple of years. I don't take anything for the insomnia but it is never a problem on days I spend time with a CERB lady lol Just my Opinion Additional Comments: When I get more than three hours rest a night it is wonderful. I was always a night owl but it has been particularly problematic over the last couple of years. I don't take anything for the insomnia but it is never a problem on days I spend time with a CERB lady lol Just my Opinion

While I know your referring to a Sex fantasy I can't help but want fantasize about waking up tomorrow and finding myself in a world where people are more tolerant and respectful of others... a world where people respect other people's life choices. Just my Opinion

The Bill has people scared and nervous and afraid because it greatly changes the risks associated with the hobby. I think it is pretty safe to state that up till now most Hobbiests knew they were engaged in illegal activities but they assumed that unless they were hiring street workers then the majority of the risk was actually the workers and that indoor work was not even on the radar of LE. Until we have operated under the new law for awhile and we get a comfort level for how the law will be enforced by LE and the courts there will continue to be fear mongering. In the interim i would just remind everyone that under the old laws the activities of this hobby were illegal and we did not see ladies outing people.... so if we could trust ladies then why not now? Just my Opinion

Happy Birthday Yabut... hope you have a great day

Reading the posts here on Lyla because I can't get to sleep ... been a long week. Additional Comments: Reading the posts here on Lyla because I can't get to sleep ... been a long week.

Friendship and CERB is actually something I have spent a considerable amount of time considering and there have been other threads asking for opinions on if a client and a CERB lady could be real friends. To be honest I have found this whole topic to be very challenging.... I have always felt that of course it is possible for a client and a lady to be both friends and maintain a business relationship. After all I maintain a balance that is similar with many of my friends (yes I know I am not intimate with them) but some friends are co-workers or people who report to me at work, some are business colleagues... in all of these cases I am able to separate the business or work aspects from the friendship elements with no major issues so why should this be any different. But I think I am starting to realize it just may be. Now don't get me wrong I still think there can be a friendship I just think it is a lot harder than I thought but you know nothing in life is easy that is worthwhile and the friendships I have developed as a result of my involvement in the industry have been very worthwhile to me. I have also come to learn that you can only offer your friendship you can't make someone be your friend and you can't impose your idea of what friendship should look like on others. All you control is your actions and how you treat the people you consider your friends some people will take advantage of the friendship you offer... some will disappoint you and treat you badly but that's no different than real life. If you open yourself up to friendship even with all its inherent risks then you open yourself up to the possibility of amazing connections with amazing people... for me it has been worth the effort I hope it has been for them as well. The 10 points listed by the OP all ring true to me. Just my Opinion

I think 3rd time will be lucky especially if you include Savannah and Lexy.... that said don't leave the poor cod out or for that matter all us NL guys who would be delighted to kiss you.

I really don't think this is a texting issue... it's more a matter of good manners. I appreciate and try to respect the methods of contact that a lady may identify as her preferred method in her ad or on her website but when texting is an option it would be my preferred method. It allows me to converse discreetly with a lady even when my wife is around. So I don't think there is anything inherently wrong with text... in fact i think that the people who are assholes via text will be the same when communicating in other ways too. Just my Opinion