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House is full of visiting relatives and local family for a BBQ.... So I am just looking for a quiet place to get away from all of them. Love them all greatly buy just not in the mood today.

Driving home from an afternoons sight seeing with visiting family.

Groceries.....

Sorry for your loss BCGuy...your mom is at Peace and I hope you and your family find are able to find some Peace and comfort in your lives in the days and weeks ahead.

Tough times.... transitions in life are never easy...

Being tired but not being able to sleep sucks.

Of course I do but discretion stops me from naming her.

I have not seen either mirrors and just hearing you talk about them has me missing them.

Loneliness is kind of a funny thing.... long weekend... lots of family home...people all around and yet that is when you can feel the most lonely.... loneliness is not about the absence of people around you even if it's people you care for.... it's about that feeling of connection or about what or who is missing. Just my opinion.

I may be off base but when I read that in an ad or on a website I gave just assumed it meant that while the lady has outlined her general range of services she is open to some discussion with clients.... now having said that one has to be reasonable in how far they take that if a lady says "I only play safe" I would not read open minded to mean maybe BBFS is a possibility. Just my opinion.

In theory the idea of Clients reporting on potential trafficking sounds like a good idea... the survey results are probably accurate and most clients would want to do the right thing... the problem is that those clients are also probably the least likely to be booking with potentially trafficked or abused SP'S. I have seen SP'S for almost 30 years in a number if Canadian Cities... i don't see street workers and tend to book with established ladies with websites and recommendations so in all that time I have never met with an SP who I was worried about their physical safety. So yep its easy for me to say I would report however chances care I will never have anything to report. Now all that said I think it would be wise for LE to make it as easy and risk free for clients to report as even one reporting would be valuable. Just my opinion.

In my experience sex during pregnancy can be very enjoyable it is not however something I would be looking for with an SP. Just my opinion.

New Glasses

Happy Birthday Magician.

Bianca... you mean your not really 25?

Happy Birthday Mandy66... have a great day.

All I need is for the lady to demonstrate her happiness about my being there... to passionately greet me at the door... i don't need her to be dressed any special way or to do any specific thing... i just want to immediately feel welcome and the Centre of her attention.

I guess it comes down to terminology... what you are referring to as good friend was what I was equating to "friend" someone you would help out as you said no matter what.

I see a big difference between someone being a friend and someone being an acquaintances. I think most of the ladies I have met I would agree the relationship has been more of an acquaintance than a friend we have met enjoyed each others company... been friendly and would be happy to meet them again. In a small number of cases I have met SP's who I have gotten to know fairly well and they know me equally as well and in some ways better than many of my civilian friends. These relationships are for me personally the most fulfilling and at the same time the most challenging to maintain.

Happy Birthday Trish

This thread has been on the go now for a couple of years and I would be interested in knowing if peoples opinions have changed..... has the reality reflected what you had thought... If you, like me thought that it was possible to establish a friendship with an SP ... has that happened? or if you thought friendship was not possible has that proven to be the case? For me personally I have met several ladies who I consider to be my friends .... I would have argued that there was really No reason why there could not be business relationship and a true friendship. In reality my experience has been that this is much harder to maintain than I would have expected. This probably reflects the fact that I have had unrealistic expectations regarding what a friendship should look like. What has been your experience.....

Bianca.... you ever need a driving buddy you know where to find me. Lololol

$140.00 worth of Gas for the truck...

Apology accepted.... I Give Up

Being a sex worker is but one dimension of who these people are Just like everyone else they have the right to choose who they want to be friends with they may choose other sex workers or they may choose clients or they may choose people in their community who they have things in common with... yoga... wine... sports... bike riding... travel... who the fuck knows the possibilities are endless. Saying that SP's are free to choose their friends is just common sense.... they are people Sex Work is their business. My stating that blatant fact is not the same thing as saying that SPs choose to be friends with clients.... As I said in the last paragraph of my initial post.... due to the level of intimate connection in this line of work SPs tend to keep business just that ...business. So could they be your friend and see you socially off the clock sure and I could hypothetical win the lottery.... chances are both will not happen.