Ice4fun

Sorry for the community to see you leave but happy to hear your life is moving in a direction you like... all the best in the future.

Unfortunately... we have no hummingbirds in Newfoundland... i always enjoy seeing them when I travel.

Like everything else about a good session it all comes down to effective communication... both parties gave a role to play in that and the communication is not always verbal.... every lady I gave been with has clearly left me with the impression they wanted to be sure I left happy.... lol but I also do my screening :)

It is not a new movie but i watched Blind Side the Sandra Bullock movie about a family in the southern states who take in a homeless teenager who goes on to play college and pro football.... all in all a pretty good movie.

Mothers Days while wonderful are always a bit of a challenge in our home so the highlight of my day is really getting through the day .

I kinda think a lot of what we look for in this hobby is that element of seduction.... that feeling that we are seducing sexually a beautiful sexy lady or more often that the amazing women we meet are sexually seducing us through their acts of enticement and temptation. The ladies who I have met who are especially adept at the art of seduction have an innate ability to be charming ... to ascertain after just a few minutes of conversation or the exchange of a handful of texts or emails what makes us tick...what things will heighten our desire for them. They use their intelligence ... the ability to choose just the right word that will create sexual association in our mind ..., the use humour to relax us and make us feel comfortable so that we let down our inhibitions and and of course they use physical contact... a touch or a kiss and their amazing smell to arouse our interest. Seduction is creating that relaxed welcoming environment that is also highly sexually charged... it's really amazing because we know in this industry that sex will happen but yet we desire the seduction,,, the atmosphere of lust and desire... the undeniable feeling that the two people there in the room are being drawn together by something more powerful than just a sex act. Now maybe that is just me ... maybe that is what i have experienced and need... in my most successful encounters i have generally had significant contact with the lady before the meeting.. we have talked and gotten to know a bit about each other .... this contact by phone or text or email is like a pursuit... sometime me pursuing her .. sometime her pursuing me ... but in ether it creates an environment of seduction and passion that i find amazing. Sorry for the rambling... because all i really know is that the seduction is important to me the feeling of pursuit and attraction is very important to me.... the intensity is important to me... Just my opinion..

Happy Mothers Day to all the wonderful Mothers of CERB.... we do a lot of important and difficult things in our lives but nothing that we can do will be more important than our roles as parents... it is not always easy being a Mom but all if us owe so much to our Moms... have an amazing day.

No offense was intended by my comments... i did see the tongue in cheek humor in your comments but i also assumed and maybe I should not have that you did not appreciate the introduction of the toy. In any case I apologize if my comments were off base.

On a couple of occasions I have been with an SP and a magic wand or other toys have come into play.... It never crossed my mind that the toy was some kind of threat to my manhood... to the contrary I saw it only as us having the sexual comfort together to introduce toys into the play... i never say the toys as something introduced just to increase her pleasure as I found using the toys on her and having them used on me quite amazing. All I can say is if it bothers you you should discuss it with your SP as I am pretty sure the last thing she wanted was to make the session less pleasurable for you. Bring on the toys is what I say. Just my opinion

Not really sure what your question was Honestpete I read the OP a couple if times.... so if my comments are not in line with what you were thinking sorry. For me I don't need any information regarding my SP's medical appointments. In my experience with the amazing ladies I have met it has been abundantly clear that they look after themselves and know their bodies better than mist people. It has never crossed my mind to discuss their medical issues.... i I hot go know a lady better and it came up fine but otherwise no. In regards to my own medical situation I do have a kinda unique issue that I will normally discuss with the lady on my first visit but no real sharing of information regarding appointments. Just my opinion

Just leaving Costco with two tenderloins which I need to take home and cut into 28 steaks for tomorrow's Mothers Day BBQ with a my extended Family... should be quite the afternoon. Additional Comments: Just leaving Costco with two tenderloins which I need to take home and cut into 28 steaks for tomorrow's Mothers Day BBQ with a my extended Family... should be quite the afternoon.

In my underwear cooking bacon, eggs, toast and pancakes for breakfast for my family.... and of course checking all the CERB posts.

Heading home after a night out with my wife at a friends house... good evening.

Loved that.... thanks for sharing.... looks like a fun thing to try with your favorite person.

I list my mom a few years ago but we were very close in fact she lived with me for the last 20+ years of her life.... she was an amazing lady who still inspires me to be a better person. As is our normal practice we will make a donation in her memory to one of the local community organizations that she was active in. Besides that my children and I will take my wife their mom out to supper.... for a number of reasons mothers day is a little tricky in our home but we do our very best to celebrate.

It really Sucks when you know a good friend is having a hard day and you just want to be there for them and take all the pain away but you know you can't..... best you can do us let them know you are there 100% for them.

I am just about to leave work for the day and head home for what I hope will be a quiet Friday evening.

I am a very light sleeper but this morning I have over slept so i am running around trying to get ready for work and check out all the posts on CERB.... I have to say the extra couple of hours sleep was very nice.

Those who know me will laugh at me choosing either of these... but Walking Have your partner shave your privates... or you shave them?

Sitting on couch in my underwear watching Dave Letterman.

15 minutes would not work for me but if an SP wants to offer it and clients want it.... then God Bless I am delighted they found something that works for them. Bottom line there us no right or wrong... there are as many viable options are there is people in the industry... do what works for you.

Big ass Truck You blindfolded or your partner blindfolded?

This is a close call.... but if I had to choose "sexy tight fitting panties" Which would you prefer.... Jacuzzi tub..... hot tub?

I have really appreciated this thread really has made me think....while I have already posted a couple of times to this thread I would like to add the following: Excitement Factor - There seems to be a presumption that cluents want this for the excitement ...presumably because of the taboo nature of cheating on you SO in their own bed. Well in my case this never really entered into the equation... the one time i invited an SP into my home was when my wife was away and i had booked a longer meeting witb an SP.... my home provided a perfect location for me to cook her a wonderful meal... relax in comfort and watch a movie and of course have an extended play session. Yes there was increased risk but lets get real... every time i meet an SP i assume a risk that i must manage... my home was not more of a risk... just a differnt risk. Comfort Level for SP - I will be honest this never even occured to me before reading this thread... i guess because i never though of this being any more disrespectful than any other meeting wuth an SP i never stoped to think about how the SP might feel about respecting my SO's bed or the potential increased risk to the SP from being caught. I think this risk is not really that high but what i think really does not matter if the SP feels there is. I am thankful to this post for highlighting that for me. Just my opinion

I am 54.... i have some heart issues and take a number of medication....i am pretty sure that a 15 minute session would not serve me well my time would be up long before anything else is up...lolol All joking aside... i actually want the extra time to chat... relax and form a connection... it heightens the experience for me. Just my opinion.