Ice4fun

No Shit.... the government snooping I would have been shocked to hear otherwise...

I kinda think you are over playing the blame thing.... the op did in fact back out that's not blaming that's stating a fact...i don't know placed in the same situation I might have done the same... i simply went on to say that if I did "I" would pay for the ladies time. The OP was great...this was a very real and interesting topic.... a I am glad he brought it up. The fact that we might not all agree on what we should do in this circumstance is not surprising.... does not make someone good or bad. Just my opinion.

I don't automatically tip but have on a few occasions I have...i kinda feel that if there is a requirement to tip than just make it a part of the cost structure. Now I am way more likely to bring a lady a gift especially if it us someone I have seen before. I certainly don't think I am cheap lol Just my opinion

Sorry if you feel that you are being picked on or blamed.... you outlined a scenario in your post and ask for comments that's what we are doing. Unfortunately a few thing came together to have an appointment fall apart... some suggestions have been made about how you could have handled it differently.... all good conversations for you and the rest of us in case we fine ourselves in a similar situation. I don't think anyone here is suggesting that you are somehow a bad guy...you were open and honest with the SP the rest of this is just healthy discussion and people giving their opinion on what they would do. If you and the SP are square... this is all academic and certainly not personal. Here's hoping that your next booking goes way more smoothly because there is nothing worse than missing some time with a great lady from CERB. Just my opinion.

I agree that booking a new appointment would be a good idea to help move things forward but should also include some form of payment for the lost appointment. In regards to the SP having some responsibility for what happened .. i don't see that. What could she have done different? Just my opinion.

Bottom line you backed out at the last minute.... if that was me telling the lady what happened is not enough I would email transfer her the payment. why should her business suffer because I panicked and backed out. Just my opinion.

I had the pleasure of raising two children and when they were in their Teens they knew all my buttons to push and there were times when we were going through it that I could not believe a child of mind could act like that. Now years later I understand that it was part of their development..in hind site the behavior was not nearly as bad as I thought part of it as also my wanting to retain control of my children not accepting that they were trying to establish the first parts of their independence. It all passed pretty quickly and there were some tremendous times that I wish could have been longer. They will grow so fast and be gone cherish every moment even the tough one.... As a parent you are contributing to the formation of the great adults who I kinda know will do a better job in this world than we have. Just my opinion.

This is a great thread... certainly making me think.... i have had an SP in my home and it was a great experience...at the time it never crossed my mind that doing so was being disrespectful if my wife... it was just a very convent location that provided us with wonderful amenities that improved the session. As I read others comments I am struck by how it could be seen as crossing a line. One I never really contemplated which may mean I am insensitive to other or just plain self absorbed. I can say that it was never meant to be disrespectful of my wife who I love mire than anything. Thanks for making me think.

How about: TPOTMLFS - Takes Pity on Toronto Maple Leafs Fans lol

I don't really have a foot fetish.... but I do think a woman's feet can be very sexy.... when I am attracted to a woman I like to touch and caress and kiss and lick every inch of her body including her feet.... certain positions result in her feet being in your face and hie can you not luck and suck and caress them. Just my opinion

After 54 years I am starting to understand that the real highpoint in any day is when you have the opportunity to spend some time with or communicate with someone who you care about. Today I got to do that and I am very thankful.

Ahhhhh living the life tonight.... leaving work late and heading to the hockey game.... so supper is Burger from A&W.

I agree... a great deal of clear information gets communicated with these simple acronyms. Now we might want to add a few more....lol CCG - CERB Certified Goddess LNC - Loves Newfoundland Clients Lol Just my opinion

Had the opportunity tonight to chat with a good friend... so nice.

Maybe it's just me but thus just seems like a stupid idea.

I have had the pleasure of meeting an SP to my home and found it wonderful but a little nerve wrecking having to be sure we did not leave any evidence of our time that would cause me problems with my wife. it was not the sex in my marriage bed that made it exciting for me it was the opportunity to host the amazing lady and have all the comforts of my home to do so. I have always met SP'S in hotels so this was very nice and I think it also allowed her to have a glimpse into my regular life which I liked. Just my opinion..

Very sorry to hear about your loss.... i can tell you there is a path ahead and support will come from all the expected places and some unexpected. The death of someone you love and the grief you experience will change your life.... but not end it. Good luck on your journey

I only really have one wish... to have back someone Iost 6 years ago... don't need anything else.

I get the whole not knowing what to say or when to say it thing... especially if it is with someone you may have just met or don't know too well. For me the secret is not so much in what the exact words are it is more about the authenticity and the passion with which it is said.... the lady does not need to yell " I want your hard cock in me"... a simple whisper in my ear that she can't wait to feel that first thrust would work just as well. In regards to timing I think this is really a matter of starting slow and looking for cues from your lover that what you are saying is working for them. Like all good relationships it's as much about listening and reading the body language as it is about what you actually say Just my opinion.

Busy morning at the office... just taking a minute to check some email and texts and surf CERB. Perhaps I am addicted and it us time for a change lololol

I agree 100% about the Hug.... and not just a quick squeeze... a firm embrace where for that first few minutes our bodies connect and there is an instant feeling of being welcome..... it's one of my favorite moments of an encounter. Just my opinion

After a very busy day at work and a night of family tax returns I am finally relaxing.... sitting in my underwear on the couch in the family room watching TV... surfing CERB and wish i had someone to chat with LOL

Supper tonight was a full cooked turkey dinner it was pretty good...

Its sad but true ... the highlight of today was finalizing family income tax returns and dropping them off at CRA at 11:40 PM.... really living the high life...lol

It really sucks to miss someone who you really don't have any right to miss... That and it is fucking snowing here in St. John's