Ice4fun

Happy Mothers Day to all the wonderful Mothers of CERB.... we do a lot of important and difficult things in our lives but nothing that we can do will be more important than our roles as parents... it is not always easy being a Mom but all if us owe so much to our Moms... have an amazing day.

No offense was intended by my comments... i did see the tongue in cheek humor in your comments but i also assumed and maybe I should not have that you did not appreciate the introduction of the toy. In any case I apologize if my comments were off base.

On a couple of occasions I have been with an SP and a magic wand or other toys have come into play.... It never crossed my mind that the toy was some kind of threat to my manhood... to the contrary I saw it only as us having the sexual comfort together to introduce toys into the play... i never say the toys as something introduced just to increase her pleasure as I found using the toys on her and having them used on me quite amazing. All I can say is if it bothers you you should discuss it with your SP as I am pretty sure the last thing she wanted was to make the session less pleasurable for you. Bring on the toys is what I say. Just my opinion

Not really sure what your question was Honestpete I read the OP a couple if times.... so if my comments are not in line with what you were thinking sorry. For me I don't need any information regarding my SP's medical appointments. In my experience with the amazing ladies I have met it has been abundantly clear that they look after themselves and know their bodies better than mist people. It has never crossed my mind to discuss their medical issues.... i I hot go know a lady better and it came up fine but otherwise no. In regards to my own medical situation I do have a kinda unique issue that I will normally discuss with the lady on my first visit but no real sharing of information regarding appointments. Just my opinion

Just leaving Costco with two tenderloins which I need to take home and cut into 28 steaks for tomorrow's Mothers Day BBQ with a my extended Family... should be quite the afternoon. Additional Comments: Just leaving Costco with two tenderloins which I need to take home and cut into 28 steaks for tomorrow's Mothers Day BBQ with a my extended Family... should be quite the afternoon.

In my underwear cooking bacon, eggs, toast and pancakes for breakfast for my family.... and of course checking all the CERB posts.

Heading home after a night out with my wife at a friends house... good evening.

Loved that.... thanks for sharing.... looks like a fun thing to try with your favorite person.

I list my mom a few years ago but we were very close in fact she lived with me for the last 20+ years of her life.... she was an amazing lady who still inspires me to be a better person. As is our normal practice we will make a donation in her memory to one of the local community organizations that she was active in. Besides that my children and I will take my wife their mom out to supper.... for a number of reasons mothers day is a little tricky in our home but we do our very best to celebrate.

It really Sucks when you know a good friend is having a hard day and you just want to be there for them and take all the pain away but you know you can't..... best you can do us let them know you are there 100% for them.

I am just about to leave work for the day and head home for what I hope will be a quiet Friday evening.

I am a very light sleeper but this morning I have over slept so i am running around trying to get ready for work and check out all the posts on CERB.... I have to say the extra couple of hours sleep was very nice.

Those who know me will laugh at me choosing either of these... but Walking Have your partner shave your privates... or you shave them?

Sitting on couch in my underwear watching Dave Letterman.

15 minutes would not work for me but if an SP wants to offer it and clients want it.... then God Bless I am delighted they found something that works for them. Bottom line there us no right or wrong... there are as many viable options are there is people in the industry... do what works for you.

Big ass Truck You blindfolded or your partner blindfolded?

This is a close call.... but if I had to choose "sexy tight fitting panties" Which would you prefer.... Jacuzzi tub..... hot tub?

I have really appreciated this thread really has made me think....while I have already posted a couple of times to this thread I would like to add the following: Excitement Factor - There seems to be a presumption that cluents want this for the excitement ...presumably because of the taboo nature of cheating on you SO in their own bed. Well in my case this never really entered into the equation... the one time i invited an SP into my home was when my wife was away and i had booked a longer meeting witb an SP.... my home provided a perfect location for me to cook her a wonderful meal... relax in comfort and watch a movie and of course have an extended play session. Yes there was increased risk but lets get real... every time i meet an SP i assume a risk that i must manage... my home was not more of a risk... just a differnt risk. Comfort Level for SP - I will be honest this never even occured to me before reading this thread... i guess because i never though of this being any more disrespectful than any other meeting wuth an SP i never stoped to think about how the SP might feel about respecting my SO's bed or the potential increased risk to the SP from being caught. I think this risk is not really that high but what i think really does not matter if the SP feels there is. I am thankful to this post for highlighting that for me. Just my opinion

I am 54.... i have some heart issues and take a number of medication....i am pretty sure that a 15 minute session would not serve me well my time would be up long before anything else is up...lolol All joking aside... i actually want the extra time to chat... relax and form a connection... it heightens the experience for me. Just my opinion.

No Shit.... the government snooping I would have been shocked to hear otherwise...

I kinda think you are over playing the blame thing.... the op did in fact back out that's not blaming that's stating a fact...i don't know placed in the same situation I might have done the same... i simply went on to say that if I did "I" would pay for the ladies time. The OP was great...this was a very real and interesting topic.... a I am glad he brought it up. The fact that we might not all agree on what we should do in this circumstance is not surprising.... does not make someone good or bad. Just my opinion.

I don't automatically tip but have on a few occasions I have...i kinda feel that if there is a requirement to tip than just make it a part of the cost structure. Now I am way more likely to bring a lady a gift especially if it us someone I have seen before. I certainly don't think I am cheap lol Just my opinion

Sorry if you feel that you are being picked on or blamed.... you outlined a scenario in your post and ask for comments that's what we are doing. Unfortunately a few thing came together to have an appointment fall apart... some suggestions have been made about how you could have handled it differently.... all good conversations for you and the rest of us in case we fine ourselves in a similar situation. I don't think anyone here is suggesting that you are somehow a bad guy...you were open and honest with the SP the rest of this is just healthy discussion and people giving their opinion on what they would do. If you and the SP are square... this is all academic and certainly not personal. Here's hoping that your next booking goes way more smoothly because there is nothing worse than missing some time with a great lady from CERB. Just my opinion.

I agree that booking a new appointment would be a good idea to help move things forward but should also include some form of payment for the lost appointment. In regards to the SP having some responsibility for what happened .. i don't see that. What could she have done different? Just my opinion.

Bottom line you backed out at the last minute.... if that was me telling the lady what happened is not enough I would email transfer her the payment. why should her business suffer because I panicked and backed out. Just my opinion.