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This is not an SP / Client problem it is a societal problem that I kinda think is actually improving... younger people today are far less likely to see differences in people and have grown up in a world that is becoming more and more diverse. I have never considered myself to be bigoted or racist but my children have demonstrated to me that I am in fact a product of the environment in which I grew up.... my children actually don't see the difference in people and accept everyone for who they are.... i think I am very excepting but you know I do notice the differences... my kids are without a doubt teaching me about true diversity and acceptance. As for the CERB world one think I have realized that if you want to find a group that is ultra accepting of diversity you really don't have to look further than the amazing SP'S in this industry... i think that because of this they are more likely to react to stupid insensitive comments made by clients. Just my opinion. Additional Comments:

I don't really like to think of that goodbye image as a last of anything.... if things have gone as spectacular as would imagine... the image as we part will really be just my most recent memory...one in a long line of memories... many of which are yet to be made. So on the bed naked... at the door... in the hall.... all are great memories to encourage me to return soon. Just my opinion.

Suddenly wishing I could see the inside if your arms....

Or when her head is tilted back... her mouth is open and you can see that she is trying to say something... her lips move... but no words are formed.... her breath as she inhales and exhales almost speak... but ultimately all she does is turn and bite the inside of her arm as she loudly moans...

I kinda think you are right especially when meeting a lady for the first time and when there may not have been much conversation by email /text/phone before the meeting. We get nervous and look for topics to keep the conversation flowing... often in other types of social interactions it is family and work that we default to. Hey and sometimes we are just nosey bastards. Lol Just my opinion.

The clock starts at the agreed upon time it's my responsibility as a client to respect the SP'S time and be on time just like it is the SP'S responsibility to be ready on time. That said we all know that life happens.... things go astray... both for clients and SP'S... if either is running late I would expect them to advise the other and normally this is able to be accommodated with slight adjustments in the scheduled time. Now that said sometimes schedules are tight and adjustments are not possible but in my experience this us the exception and not the rule. We all know however when you give some people an inch they take a foot.... you know the guy who us always late... in those circumstances I would totally agree that the time starts at the appointed time whether he is there or not. Most times I would think just telling the client that he is not respecting your time and that in the future there us no flexibility if he is late will fix the problem. Just my opinion

In my opinion most guys will generally follow the path of least resistance.... in a world of smart / mobile phones I think this often means if the phone number is in the ad or on the website they will probably call or text as a first option ( I know lots of guys also like email first). I kinda think it is really up to each SP to decide what works best for them ... communicate it in their ads and website and stick with it.... it's their business they get to choose. I have contacted SP'S by phone and email and text and by PM.... they have all worked and I hope in each of these cases I respected the ladies preferences. I will say my most successful encounters with repeats seem to have started with more detailed email communications at the start. Just my opinion

Met with a really good friend for a couple of hours this morning.... it really does not get any better than that.

God bless twitter :).... thanks

I agree 100% that we should always moderate what we say publicly about others and that without specific approval of the other party we should use maximum discretion in talking about others. My comments related mainly to the language or tone used by people in their ads.... i personally am not a big fan of the more explicit ads but if they work for the SP in question... than good for them.

Well I have always been partial to warm wet spots so i can't think of a better place that I could wiggle myself into.

Great Thread Delilah.... i have thought about my jitters before meeting a lady before but never really thought about it from her perspective. First from my perspective I am nervous and have jitters every time I go see a lady... i am 54.... not exactly a stud.... my mind conjures up exotic activities from time to time that my physical body just can't always deliver on. For the most part I have always seen myself as an older guy meeting with beautiful sexy ladies who, in my mind anyway, will have had many sexual interludes with guys way more talented than me. So when I go to that meeting with a sexy lady that I have checked out and booked I certainly don't want to leave her less than fulfilled. Yea...i know it's a business and all that but I come from a school of thought that the best sex I will have is when it is good sex for both parties. From the ladies perspective in the past I have always felt that the first meeting with a new client must make the lady nervous.... but oddly I really only thought they would be nervous because of the risk they take in putting themselves out there to meet privately with a guy they really know very little about. I never really gave much thought to the fact that the SP might also be nervous about...will he like me.... will I meet his expectations.... will I be able to live up to the idealized vision that he may have from the ads and website and posts. Of course it makes sense that this nervousness would exist.... just that all the amazing ladies I have met from here on CERB have always far exceeded my expectations. So bottom line.... it appears we are all nervous and get the jitters all I can think is that it is a good thing.... it makes us focus.... it makes us pay attention.... it heightens our desire to please the person we are with and results in amazing meetings. So I say bring on the jitters. BTW.... i don't think this jitters thing is just related to 1st meetings.... my meetings with SP'S with whom I have long-standing frequent meetings cause me the same nervous jitters... in fact.... even greater performance anxiety... i know how amazing she i... not just imagine so the pressure is on. Finally I will just say that I am a realist.... nope can't do all the things I could do when I was 25 but i do do most of them better than I did when I was 25. in the end my only concern about performance would be if the lady I was with did not think I did everything within my power to make her happy during the session.... i will never guarantee success but i will guarantee you will get the full effort from me. As for you wonderful ladies relax.... we are going to have a great time :)

I am not sure I have recognized any major shift in the tone of the threads here on CERB Over the last year. I have seen some ads that have tended to be more blunt ( Some might say vulgar) but i have to think that these SP'S are doing whatever seems to work for them. On the flip side I have seen some amazing ads written by people like Nathalie and Delilah and others that are just written master pieces from my perspective. Bottom line it's an open forum so people will express themselves in many ways and use language that best meets their needs.... there will be an ebb and flow... flow along with he things you like and ignore the rest there is room for all of us I think. Just my opinion.

How I wish that had worked.... :( As for me today.... khaki pants.... green striped dress shirt... black underwear and leather jacket.

Hope you had a great Birthday Cleo....

Hey hope you had a great Birthday Courtney

Ok sounds to me like the guy is looking to pay for 30 minutes but get all the benefits of a longer appointment... if you want time to chat and hug than shower and still 30 minutes of play....pony up and pay for the hour. Time starts at the door... Just my opinion

So.... to recap.... like most other businesses the business person does what is right for their business.... I'm guessing but that independence to do whatever you think is right for your business has got to be nice. Just my opinion

I think this is a good thing for Toronto and even better for Rob Ford if it turns out to be true.

I never thought I would want to lick a flower. :) But flower is not bad.

Like most things in life very little is inherently bad it more likely depends on how it is used.... if it facilitates the communication process or the booking process then it should be positive... if it just deflects contacts I am less likely to be impressed. Just my opinion

I really need to Fuck You and not just once.

Not something I gave tried or thought if asking for but hey what every works for you us all good for me. It's probably not something I would encourage for my first meeting with a lady but if I had seen a lady on a regular basis and she suggested it would be hot to watch some porn together I would certainly not say no. Just my opinion

I don't recall ever asking a lady for any specific look... always kinda thought that she probably knows way better than me what makes her look great. That said I do very much like to see her wearing something that I may have given her at a previous meeting or that we may have bought when we have gone shopping together. As for how I would like her hair.... lolol... most of my thought about her hair is what it should look like when we are finished... if things go well her hair should look like she was just fucked and fucked hard. I want to thank you Delilah for your comments because it made me stop and think about how the request might impact my partner.... I guess before we meet I will need to start thinking about things like do I want to be pulling on ponytail or Pigtails.... do I want that great ass of your all enhanced by great heals.... hmmmmm the foreplay starts :) Just my opinion

Just home from hockey game... sitting in family room wearing faded blue jeans... blue pinstripe dress shirt and black jockey shorts... At some point we have to start getting pictures with these posts Just my opinion