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I am a very light sleeper but this morning I have over slept so i am running around trying to get ready for work and check out all the posts on CERB.... I have to say the extra couple of hours sleep was very nice.

Those who know me will laugh at me choosing either of these... but Walking Have your partner shave your privates... or you shave them?

Sitting on couch in my underwear watching Dave Letterman.

15 minutes would not work for me but if an SP wants to offer it and clients want it.... then God Bless I am delighted they found something that works for them. Bottom line there us no right or wrong... there are as many viable options are there is people in the industry... do what works for you.

Big ass Truck You blindfolded or your partner blindfolded?

This is a close call.... but if I had to choose "sexy tight fitting panties" Which would you prefer.... Jacuzzi tub..... hot tub?

I have really appreciated this thread really has made me think....while I have already posted a couple of times to this thread I would like to add the following: Excitement Factor - There seems to be a presumption that cluents want this for the excitement ...presumably because of the taboo nature of cheating on you SO in their own bed. Well in my case this never really entered into the equation... the one time i invited an SP into my home was when my wife was away and i had booked a longer meeting witb an SP.... my home provided a perfect location for me to cook her a wonderful meal... relax in comfort and watch a movie and of course have an extended play session. Yes there was increased risk but lets get real... every time i meet an SP i assume a risk that i must manage... my home was not more of a risk... just a differnt risk. Comfort Level for SP - I will be honest this never even occured to me before reading this thread... i guess because i never though of this being any more disrespectful than any other meeting wuth an SP i never stoped to think about how the SP might feel about respecting my SO's bed or the potential increased risk to the SP from being caught. I think this risk is not really that high but what i think really does not matter if the SP feels there is. I am thankful to this post for highlighting that for me. Just my opinion

I am 54.... i have some heart issues and take a number of medication....i am pretty sure that a 15 minute session would not serve me well my time would be up long before anything else is up...lolol All joking aside... i actually want the extra time to chat... relax and form a connection... it heightens the experience for me. Just my opinion.

No Shit.... the government snooping I would have been shocked to hear otherwise...

I kinda think you are over playing the blame thing.... the op did in fact back out that's not blaming that's stating a fact...i don't know placed in the same situation I might have done the same... i simply went on to say that if I did "I" would pay for the ladies time. The OP was great...this was a very real and interesting topic.... a I am glad he brought it up. The fact that we might not all agree on what we should do in this circumstance is not surprising.... does not make someone good or bad. Just my opinion.

I don't automatically tip but have on a few occasions I have...i kinda feel that if there is a requirement to tip than just make it a part of the cost structure. Now I am way more likely to bring a lady a gift especially if it us someone I have seen before. I certainly don't think I am cheap lol Just my opinion

Sorry if you feel that you are being picked on or blamed.... you outlined a scenario in your post and ask for comments that's what we are doing. Unfortunately a few thing came together to have an appointment fall apart... some suggestions have been made about how you could have handled it differently.... all good conversations for you and the rest of us in case we fine ourselves in a similar situation. I don't think anyone here is suggesting that you are somehow a bad guy...you were open and honest with the SP the rest of this is just healthy discussion and people giving their opinion on what they would do. If you and the SP are square... this is all academic and certainly not personal. Here's hoping that your next booking goes way more smoothly because there is nothing worse than missing some time with a great lady from CERB. Just my opinion.

I agree that booking a new appointment would be a good idea to help move things forward but should also include some form of payment for the lost appointment. In regards to the SP having some responsibility for what happened .. i don't see that. What could she have done different? Just my opinion.

Bottom line you backed out at the last minute.... if that was me telling the lady what happened is not enough I would email transfer her the payment. why should her business suffer because I panicked and backed out. Just my opinion.

I had the pleasure of raising two children and when they were in their Teens they knew all my buttons to push and there were times when we were going through it that I could not believe a child of mind could act like that. Now years later I understand that it was part of their development..in hind site the behavior was not nearly as bad as I thought part of it as also my wanting to retain control of my children not accepting that they were trying to establish the first parts of their independence. It all passed pretty quickly and there were some tremendous times that I wish could have been longer. They will grow so fast and be gone cherish every moment even the tough one.... As a parent you are contributing to the formation of the great adults who I kinda know will do a better job in this world than we have. Just my opinion.

This is a great thread... certainly making me think.... i have had an SP in my home and it was a great experience...at the time it never crossed my mind that doing so was being disrespectful if my wife... it was just a very convent location that provided us with wonderful amenities that improved the session. As I read others comments I am struck by how it could be seen as crossing a line. One I never really contemplated which may mean I am insensitive to other or just plain self absorbed. I can say that it was never meant to be disrespectful of my wife who I love mire than anything. Thanks for making me think.

How about: TPOTMLFS - Takes Pity on Toronto Maple Leafs Fans lol

I don't really have a foot fetish.... but I do think a woman's feet can be very sexy.... when I am attracted to a woman I like to touch and caress and kiss and lick every inch of her body including her feet.... certain positions result in her feet being in your face and hie can you not luck and suck and caress them. Just my opinion

After 54 years I am starting to understand that the real highpoint in any day is when you have the opportunity to spend some time with or communicate with someone who you care about. Today I got to do that and I am very thankful.

Ahhhhh living the life tonight.... leaving work late and heading to the hockey game.... so supper is Burger from A&W.

I agree... a great deal of clear information gets communicated with these simple acronyms. Now we might want to add a few more....lol CCG - CERB Certified Goddess LNC - Loves Newfoundland Clients Lol Just my opinion

Had the opportunity tonight to chat with a good friend... so nice.

Maybe it's just me but thus just seems like a stupid idea.

I have had the pleasure of meeting an SP to my home and found it wonderful but a little nerve wrecking having to be sure we did not leave any evidence of our time that would cause me problems with my wife. it was not the sex in my marriage bed that made it exciting for me it was the opportunity to host the amazing lady and have all the comforts of my home to do so. I have always met SP'S in hotels so this was very nice and I think it also allowed her to have a glimpse into my regular life which I liked. Just my opinion..

Very sorry to hear about your loss.... i can tell you there is a path ahead and support will come from all the expected places and some unexpected. The death of someone you love and the grief you experience will change your life.... but not end it. Good luck on your journey