Ice4fun

Music during a session us not a necessity for me but I have to say many if my most memorable sessions have been with amazing ladies who have thought ahead and set the scene for our encounter including arranging for appropriate background music. Interestingly I am not sure I have cared to much about what exact songs were playing but i do know that if it was her selection and it made here feel sexy and passionate than it has to be good for me. So for me... pick something that makes you hot.... if I have booked to come see you...lol... i will already be very hot. I do recall one particular song that was playing when I was with an amazing lady... in fact it was playing as we both came.... i only Remember the song because I think the music was on shuffle and let's just say it was not that sexually appropriate. Just my opinion

Hmmmm for me all of my best sessions with service providers gave started with mental foreplay long before we meet.... those amazing exchanged texts that say nothing but also say everything.... that sexy picture sent preceeding the meeting.... the few words shared over the phone as we finalize the details of the encounter...the tweets or pms that explore our thoughts... our wishes.... our passion.... yea the foreplay fir me starts early Just my opinion

Bianca.... are you tracking me lololol

I know I was a member of CERB for a number of years before I actually started using an Avatar.... as was said earlier I think I kinda saw it as a place where I came and read but did not really participate so i never really felt a part of the community so did not think I needed details in my profile or an Avatar. Since I have become more active in the hobby and started posting more often I felt I needed to complete the profile info and add an Avatar if I wanted to engage other active members. Maybe the question is how do we get more of the "?" to engage.

It's serb to me.... no other pronunciation ever occurred to me.

Damn it Delilah now you have ruined it by saying there is an end :) lolol More seriously while I won't say that I like the ending of my sessions with beautiful ladies they tend to not bother me that much as I tend to be a repeating client and for most of my sessions I already know when our next meeting will be. Now that said most of my sessions tend to end with a period of hugging and chatting and with the lady walking with me to the door were we have a long amazing embrace and kiss.... that last hug... Hmmm very very nice. However the ending that I remember the most was actually one where the amazing lady never got off the bed... she lay there partially covered by a sheet as I dressed and I came to her... we hugged and kissed and I left her there on the bed. I kinda like the fact that when I left she was right where she needed to be... she looked amazing...the only way it could have been better is if I could have planned far enough in advance to have stayed and slept next to here.... maybe next time. Just my opinion BTW.. the title "Wrapping it up" made me initially think this was a safe sex thread.

Just take the plunge.... i guarantee you will not be sorry but the longer you wait lol the more you will kick yourself for waiting when you do..... go for it.

You continue to amaze me Tom...if everyone approached life with even half of the spirit that you do the world would be a much better place.... thank you

I seriously doubt you have a bad ass but i know a sure way to find out...... there nothing quite like a taste test to settle an issue.... the problem might just be that you don't seem to me to be someone that I would only want a taste of....

Your comment at the start of your post was: "Il Re works in this industry and he has to tow the line. He doesn't want to lose any customers who might be reading his comments. He has to defend his fellow workers." I'm no English major but I think most people reading your post would conclude that this wording could only have been seen as your being dismissive of his opinion and suggesting it carried little value simply because he works in the industry. Perhaps your point would have stood out better if you had simply started your post with the comment "As a customer....." then the focus would be on your opinion.

One really good thing about CERB is the fact that we get to see a range of opinions here. I appreciate all the varying opinions... some I may not agree with but they do inform me. What is not so nice and seems to be happening more often, in my opinion, is people feeling that to effectively make their point they must discount or attack someone else. The fact that IL Re works in the industry should not be a surprise to anyone on CERB but so what if he is that does not mean his opinion is incorrect or of less value.... many of the people who work in this industry are also customers. Why bluethunder felt it was necessary to dismiss Il Re's comments instead of just making his own boggles my mind. Just my opinion.

Sure what's said during sex can be Amazing and enhance the moment...... but stop for a minute and think about how equally exciting can be just the sounds.....that rhythmic sound of our wet warm body parts slapping against each other the sound we all know so well..... but listen more closely and hear the breathing that happens with each of those slaps.... the little sounds.... that amazing exhaling sound she makes as you go deep inside her ..... or maybe how her breath pattern changes as you rub your fingers across her clit...... or speaking of that the amazing sound of her pussy getting wetter and wetter as you rub it and explore it....love that sound..... But I digress... this post is about dirty TALK.... sorry ;)

I'm not sure any if your choices adequately cover what catches my interest. Certainly a beautiful picture professional or otherwise is likely to catch my eye but i am looking for a well written ad that tells me about the intelligence and professionalism if the lady... i want to see a website so that I can go learn more about the person... if it's one of those off the shelf sites it's less likely to retain my interest. Some of my favorite websites have amazing blogs that open a windows to the amazing lady. I like it when the ad or website encourages contact prior to booking date so that the connection can be enhanced. I am normally not looking for explicit wording but a lady who can express herself with an exotic flair will certainly attract my attention. Just my opinion.

Having a 4 say long weekend and not feeling well enough to get off the couch.

It's unfortunate that some guys can't keep there head screwed on tight enough to understand that this is a business and feel compelled to to stalk and harass ladies in this business. This is a difficult enough business to run without the additional concern about some nut who can't seperate the fantasy from reality..... i hope things work out for you.

I'm 54 so I have visited strip clubs in various city's around Canada for about 35 years.... have the changed... of course they have... like all businesses they gave adjusted their service offering to reflect the environment in which they operate. I delighted to see that I no longer go into clubs and see ladies required to wear pasties as full nudity was not allowed or that if you wanted a private dance you could not drink in the same room.... things change and people will see positives and negatives to the changes.... for the ladies who preferred no contact the move to it being the norm was seen as a negative while others saw it as a great way to bump up their revenue. one think I have missed at the clubs as they gave moved to more lapdance/contact venues us the amazing dance shows some of there ladies were able to do. As for the beauty of the ladies at the clubs then vs now.....all I can say is I have never had a problem finding a beautiful lady at the clubs. 30 years ago there was no tattoos and no body jewelry... hair styles were different.... people dressed differently...hey but before we judge.... go back and look at some pictures of yourself from the past what we think is sexy changes with time and in my opinion that is not a bad thing..... would I get a tattoo or piercing. lol... most likely not... have I met some amazing sexy beautiful women who have YES. In my opinion anything that makes a lady feel sexy about herself is ok with me. Bottom line... i can't go back to the past so the things I miss about then will remain as fond memories... there are however so many new fond memories to make. Just my opinion.

I'm not sure I have a favorite place but I have always thought it would be nice to Meet a beautiful lady at a really good restaurant for a meal.... it would be one of those times where you just know from looking at each other that you have to fuck...at some point during the meal she excuses herself to go to the washroom and as she walks around behind me she leads down kisses my neck and tells me she is not wearing any panties. I follow her to the washroom approach her from behind place one arm around her and push her up against the wall lift her dress over her beautiful ass and take her from behind....... after we return to the table.

Welcome to CERB.... feel free to jump right in and join the chat and explore your wild side.

Ok.... just spent some time going through your CERB ads....I can't see anything that I would consider to be "less appealing" in fact every inch looks delicious... besides having you....what am I missing :)

Well this is my third day on the couch feeling like Shit and if that did not suck enough.... now it's Snowing.

Ok first off I will admit that his is not a topic that I know much about but my understanding is as follows: Service providers get tested regularly to look after their own health...when they do so i don't expect to see the results it just lets me know they are serious about both their business and their health.. both are good things for me too The testing process is not like a pregnancy test where they pee on a stick and voila we have results...so its not a tool that can be used on the day of the booking to protect yourself.. there are things you can do to reduce your risk (condoms etc) but testing is not going to do it for you. When you choose... thats right choose... to participate in this hobby you assume some risk... really no different than other choices you make. but they are your chouces and your risks... asking for test results is trying to place this responsibility on the lady and to be frank... she has enough things to think about without managing our risk. Finally.... if the risk scares you... maybe you should not participate in the industry. Bottom line the choice is yours. Just my opinion.

So it's decided to give everyone an absolute discharge but the crown takes all the money.... so I wonder who is really getting fucked here.

Have a Good Day.

I have never been faced with this situation as the ladies I have met have all been exactly what I expected...lol...actually in most cases even better. If I was ever in a situation where I decided not to continue I think my approach might be determined by what the issue was. If I was faced with a bait and Switch I would not feel any obligation to compensate the lady. I would politely explain that I was expecting someone else and therfore not interested in continuing. If my reason for leaving related more to my personal choice I would feel it would be appropriate for me to fully compensate the lady for her time. I think the reason I have never been faced with this is the fact that I have tended to see the same ladies repeatedly and after a fair amount of homework.

Personally.... I have less interest in legs that never end and more interest in where those legs do end...:) Oh and just for the record 5' 11 3/4" tall.... just saying.