Ice4fun

To dream is often just an extension of our conscious mind but liberated from the norms if everyday life that often stop us from acting. In our dreams... we are liberated to do things that scare us in the light of day... to say things that we are way to shy or introverted to say.... in your dreams you are free to be who you want to be or who you will be because you have visualized it do now it can come true.... Unfortunately I don't sleep much... Two or three hours a night ad a result my night time dreams are not something I often remember and when I do... it us usually about family... for those who know me well they will understand why that is the case. On the other hand during my waking hours I actively daydreams and often my thoughts are about wonderful ladies I have met and the amazing times we have spent together. The human mind is an amazing thing...it allows to remember and recall in intimate detail things that have happened to us... we can remember all the amazing scents associated with the passion....the sounds if the time we spend together... those amazing...rythmatic sounds we associate with sex...like two fingers rubbing quickly across a warm wet clit... or perhaps the slapping sound of bodies coming together.... or maybe just the thumping sound of the headboard against the wall or the squeak of the mattress as it moves on the frame.... yes our mind allows us to capture these moments and replay them at our leisure. But that is not the real amazing thing about our minds...not only does it allow us to replay things we have experienced.... it allows us to imagine and vividly see things we have not yet done.... we can imagine and daydream abut sex with that amazing goddess on CERB that we have not met yet... be we amazing scent.... the texture of her hair and what it is like to run our fingers through it or pull it hard....our wonderful minds allow us to plan what our meeting will be like. My mind frequently engages me in both the memories of amazing mind blowing sessions with wonderful ladies I have met and mental planning for future repeat meetings with these ladies. While less often I also find myself fantasizing about session I have yet to have with CERB ladies who have captured my attention with their posts... pictures...and amazing ads. God Bless our amazing minds. Just my opinion.

Hmmm my addiction is not to the site as much as the unbelievably sexy ladies who frequent the site.

Beautiful Delilah feeling Gross... that concept defies all logic and common sense ... I do however feel jealous of those lucky chips.... oh to be so devoured by such a beautiful lady.... to have her unable to resist the temptation to have even more..... fucking lucky chips. Just my opinion.

I always get money back... that's called planning... my taxes were done a month ago.... i am talking about doing taxes for family and friends... many of which do not plan ahead. lol.

Spent most of the day helping family with taxes... home now watching TV... surfing CERB.

Doing Taxes.... tax time fucking sucks

I think it is only normal to be nervous so don't let it worry you I gave met a few SP'S over the years and can tell you I am always nervous before the door opens. If you want to take it slower some SP'S offer a social time... it will allow you to meet the amazing lady but with less pressure.... i did this with a wonderful lady once and it worked out very very well. Let's just say the half hour social time got extended. Whatever approach you take... just relax and go with the flow... the wonderful ladies of CERB will always ensure that your time spent together will be amazing. Just my opinion

You know you are on CERB too much when during the say you start thinking about how the things you are doing will turn up in your next posts lolol...

This is not an SP / Client problem it is a societal problem that I kinda think is actually improving... younger people today are far less likely to see differences in people and have grown up in a world that is becoming more and more diverse. I have never considered myself to be bigoted or racist but my children have demonstrated to me that I am in fact a product of the environment in which I grew up.... my children actually don't see the difference in people and accept everyone for who they are.... i think I am very excepting but you know I do notice the differences... my kids are without a doubt teaching me about true diversity and acceptance. As for the CERB world one think I have realized that if you want to find a group that is ultra accepting of diversity you really don't have to look further than the amazing SP'S in this industry... i think that because of this they are more likely to react to stupid insensitive comments made by clients. Just my opinion. Additional Comments:

I don't really like to think of that goodbye image as a last of anything.... if things have gone as spectacular as would imagine... the image as we part will really be just my most recent memory...one in a long line of memories... many of which are yet to be made. So on the bed naked... at the door... in the hall.... all are great memories to encourage me to return soon. Just my opinion.

Suddenly wishing I could see the inside if your arms....

Or when her head is tilted back... her mouth is open and you can see that she is trying to say something... her lips move... but no words are formed.... her breath as she inhales and exhales almost speak... but ultimately all she does is turn and bite the inside of her arm as she loudly moans...

I kinda think you are right especially when meeting a lady for the first time and when there may not have been much conversation by email /text/phone before the meeting. We get nervous and look for topics to keep the conversation flowing... often in other types of social interactions it is family and work that we default to. Hey and sometimes we are just nosey bastards. Lol Just my opinion.

The clock starts at the agreed upon time it's my responsibility as a client to respect the SP'S time and be on time just like it is the SP'S responsibility to be ready on time. That said we all know that life happens.... things go astray... both for clients and SP'S... if either is running late I would expect them to advise the other and normally this is able to be accommodated with slight adjustments in the scheduled time. Now that said sometimes schedules are tight and adjustments are not possible but in my experience this us the exception and not the rule. We all know however when you give some people an inch they take a foot.... you know the guy who us always late... in those circumstances I would totally agree that the time starts at the appointed time whether he is there or not. Most times I would think just telling the client that he is not respecting your time and that in the future there us no flexibility if he is late will fix the problem. Just my opinion

In my opinion most guys will generally follow the path of least resistance.... in a world of smart / mobile phones I think this often means if the phone number is in the ad or on the website they will probably call or text as a first option ( I know lots of guys also like email first). I kinda think it is really up to each SP to decide what works best for them ... communicate it in their ads and website and stick with it.... it's their business they get to choose. I have contacted SP'S by phone and email and text and by PM.... they have all worked and I hope in each of these cases I respected the ladies preferences. I will say my most successful encounters with repeats seem to have started with more detailed email communications at the start. Just my opinion

Met with a really good friend for a couple of hours this morning.... it really does not get any better than that.

God bless twitter :).... thanks

I agree 100% that we should always moderate what we say publicly about others and that without specific approval of the other party we should use maximum discretion in talking about others. My comments related mainly to the language or tone used by people in their ads.... i personally am not a big fan of the more explicit ads but if they work for the SP in question... than good for them.

Well I have always been partial to warm wet spots so i can't think of a better place that I could wiggle myself into.

Great Thread Delilah.... i have thought about my jitters before meeting a lady before but never really thought about it from her perspective. First from my perspective I am nervous and have jitters every time I go see a lady... i am 54.... not exactly a stud.... my mind conjures up exotic activities from time to time that my physical body just can't always deliver on. For the most part I have always seen myself as an older guy meeting with beautiful sexy ladies who, in my mind anyway, will have had many sexual interludes with guys way more talented than me. So when I go to that meeting with a sexy lady that I have checked out and booked I certainly don't want to leave her less than fulfilled. Yea...i know it's a business and all that but I come from a school of thought that the best sex I will have is when it is good sex for both parties. From the ladies perspective in the past I have always felt that the first meeting with a new client must make the lady nervous.... but oddly I really only thought they would be nervous because of the risk they take in putting themselves out there to meet privately with a guy they really know very little about. I never really gave much thought to the fact that the SP might also be nervous about...will he like me.... will I meet his expectations.... will I be able to live up to the idealized vision that he may have from the ads and website and posts. Of course it makes sense that this nervousness would exist.... just that all the amazing ladies I have met from here on CERB have always far exceeded my expectations. So bottom line.... it appears we are all nervous and get the jitters all I can think is that it is a good thing.... it makes us focus.... it makes us pay attention.... it heightens our desire to please the person we are with and results in amazing meetings. So I say bring on the jitters. BTW.... i don't think this jitters thing is just related to 1st meetings.... my meetings with SP'S with whom I have long-standing frequent meetings cause me the same nervous jitters... in fact.... even greater performance anxiety... i know how amazing she i... not just imagine so the pressure is on. Finally I will just say that I am a realist.... nope can't do all the things I could do when I was 25 but i do do most of them better than I did when I was 25. in the end my only concern about performance would be if the lady I was with did not think I did everything within my power to make her happy during the session.... i will never guarantee success but i will guarantee you will get the full effort from me. As for you wonderful ladies relax.... we are going to have a great time :)

I am not sure I have recognized any major shift in the tone of the threads here on CERB Over the last year. I have seen some ads that have tended to be more blunt ( Some might say vulgar) but i have to think that these SP'S are doing whatever seems to work for them. On the flip side I have seen some amazing ads written by people like Nathalie and Delilah and others that are just written master pieces from my perspective. Bottom line it's an open forum so people will express themselves in many ways and use language that best meets their needs.... there will be an ebb and flow... flow along with he things you like and ignore the rest there is room for all of us I think. Just my opinion.

How I wish that had worked.... :( As for me today.... khaki pants.... green striped dress shirt... black underwear and leather jacket.

Hope you had a great Birthday Cleo....

Hey hope you had a great Birthday Courtney

Ok sounds to me like the guy is looking to pay for 30 minutes but get all the benefits of a longer appointment... if you want time to chat and hug than shower and still 30 minutes of play....pony up and pay for the hour. Time starts at the door... Just my opinion