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In my opinion most guys will generally follow the path of least resistance.... in a world of smart / mobile phones I think this often means if the phone number is in the ad or on the website they will probably call or text as a first option ( I know lots of guys also like email first). I kinda think it is really up to each SP to decide what works best for them ... communicate it in their ads and website and stick with it.... it's their business they get to choose. I have contacted SP'S by phone and email and text and by PM.... they have all worked and I hope in each of these cases I respected the ladies preferences. I will say my most successful encounters with repeats seem to have started with more detailed email communications at the start. Just my opinion

Met with a really good friend for a couple of hours this morning.... it really does not get any better than that.

God bless twitter :).... thanks

I agree 100% that we should always moderate what we say publicly about others and that without specific approval of the other party we should use maximum discretion in talking about others. My comments related mainly to the language or tone used by people in their ads.... i personally am not a big fan of the more explicit ads but if they work for the SP in question... than good for them.

Well I have always been partial to warm wet spots so i can't think of a better place that I could wiggle myself into.

Great Thread Delilah.... i have thought about my jitters before meeting a lady before but never really thought about it from her perspective. First from my perspective I am nervous and have jitters every time I go see a lady... i am 54.... not exactly a stud.... my mind conjures up exotic activities from time to time that my physical body just can't always deliver on. For the most part I have always seen myself as an older guy meeting with beautiful sexy ladies who, in my mind anyway, will have had many sexual interludes with guys way more talented than me. So when I go to that meeting with a sexy lady that I have checked out and booked I certainly don't want to leave her less than fulfilled. Yea...i know it's a business and all that but I come from a school of thought that the best sex I will have is when it is good sex for both parties. From the ladies perspective in the past I have always felt that the first meeting with a new client must make the lady nervous.... but oddly I really only thought they would be nervous because of the risk they take in putting themselves out there to meet privately with a guy they really know very little about. I never really gave much thought to the fact that the SP might also be nervous about...will he like me.... will I meet his expectations.... will I be able to live up to the idealized vision that he may have from the ads and website and posts. Of course it makes sense that this nervousness would exist.... just that all the amazing ladies I have met from here on CERB have always far exceeded my expectations. So bottom line.... it appears we are all nervous and get the jitters all I can think is that it is a good thing.... it makes us focus.... it makes us pay attention.... it heightens our desire to please the person we are with and results in amazing meetings. So I say bring on the jitters. BTW.... i don't think this jitters thing is just related to 1st meetings.... my meetings with SP'S with whom I have long-standing frequent meetings cause me the same nervous jitters... in fact.... even greater performance anxiety... i know how amazing she i... not just imagine so the pressure is on. Finally I will just say that I am a realist.... nope can't do all the things I could do when I was 25 but i do do most of them better than I did when I was 25. in the end my only concern about performance would be if the lady I was with did not think I did everything within my power to make her happy during the session.... i will never guarantee success but i will guarantee you will get the full effort from me. As for you wonderful ladies relax.... we are going to have a great time :)

I am not sure I have recognized any major shift in the tone of the threads here on CERB Over the last year. I have seen some ads that have tended to be more blunt ( Some might say vulgar) but i have to think that these SP'S are doing whatever seems to work for them. On the flip side I have seen some amazing ads written by people like Nathalie and Delilah and others that are just written master pieces from my perspective. Bottom line it's an open forum so people will express themselves in many ways and use language that best meets their needs.... there will be an ebb and flow... flow along with he things you like and ignore the rest there is room for all of us I think. Just my opinion.

How I wish that had worked.... :( As for me today.... khaki pants.... green striped dress shirt... black underwear and leather jacket.

Hope you had a great Birthday Cleo....

Hey hope you had a great Birthday Courtney

Ok sounds to me like the guy is looking to pay for 30 minutes but get all the benefits of a longer appointment... if you want time to chat and hug than shower and still 30 minutes of play....pony up and pay for the hour. Time starts at the door... Just my opinion

So.... to recap.... like most other businesses the business person does what is right for their business.... I'm guessing but that independence to do whatever you think is right for your business has got to be nice. Just my opinion

I think this is a good thing for Toronto and even better for Rob Ford if it turns out to be true.

I never thought I would want to lick a flower. :) But flower is not bad.

Like most things in life very little is inherently bad it more likely depends on how it is used.... if it facilitates the communication process or the booking process then it should be positive... if it just deflects contacts I am less likely to be impressed. Just my opinion

I really need to Fuck You and not just once.

Not something I gave tried or thought if asking for but hey what every works for you us all good for me. It's probably not something I would encourage for my first meeting with a lady but if I had seen a lady on a regular basis and she suggested it would be hot to watch some porn together I would certainly not say no. Just my opinion

I don't recall ever asking a lady for any specific look... always kinda thought that she probably knows way better than me what makes her look great. That said I do very much like to see her wearing something that I may have given her at a previous meeting or that we may have bought when we have gone shopping together. As for how I would like her hair.... lolol... most of my thought about her hair is what it should look like when we are finished... if things go well her hair should look like she was just fucked and fucked hard. I want to thank you Delilah for your comments because it made me stop and think about how the request might impact my partner.... I guess before we meet I will need to start thinking about things like do I want to be pulling on ponytail or Pigtails.... do I want that great ass of your all enhanced by great heals.... hmmmmm the foreplay starts :) Just my opinion

Just home from hockey game... sitting in family room wearing faded blue jeans... blue pinstripe dress shirt and black jockey shorts... At some point we have to start getting pictures with these posts Just my opinion

Music during a session us not a necessity for me but I have to say many if my most memorable sessions have been with amazing ladies who have thought ahead and set the scene for our encounter including arranging for appropriate background music. Interestingly I am not sure I have cared to much about what exact songs were playing but i do know that if it was her selection and it made here feel sexy and passionate than it has to be good for me. So for me... pick something that makes you hot.... if I have booked to come see you...lol... i will already be very hot. I do recall one particular song that was playing when I was with an amazing lady... in fact it was playing as we both came.... i only Remember the song because I think the music was on shuffle and let's just say it was not that sexually appropriate. Just my opinion

Hmmmm for me all of my best sessions with service providers gave started with mental foreplay long before we meet.... those amazing exchanged texts that say nothing but also say everything.... that sexy picture sent preceeding the meeting.... the few words shared over the phone as we finalize the details of the encounter...the tweets or pms that explore our thoughts... our wishes.... our passion.... yea the foreplay fir me starts early Just my opinion

Bianca.... are you tracking me lololol

I know I was a member of CERB for a number of years before I actually started using an Avatar.... as was said earlier I think I kinda saw it as a place where I came and read but did not really participate so i never really felt a part of the community so did not think I needed details in my profile or an Avatar. Since I have become more active in the hobby and started posting more often I felt I needed to complete the profile info and add an Avatar if I wanted to engage other active members. Maybe the question is how do we get more of the "?" to engage.

It's serb to me.... no other pronunciation ever occurred to me.

Damn it Delilah now you have ruined it by saying there is an end :) lolol More seriously while I won't say that I like the ending of my sessions with beautiful ladies they tend to not bother me that much as I tend to be a repeating client and for most of my sessions I already know when our next meeting will be. Now that said most of my sessions tend to end with a period of hugging and chatting and with the lady walking with me to the door were we have a long amazing embrace and kiss.... that last hug... Hmmm very very nice. However the ending that I remember the most was actually one where the amazing lady never got off the bed... she lay there partially covered by a sheet as I dressed and I came to her... we hugged and kissed and I left her there on the bed. I kinda like the fact that when I left she was right where she needed to be... she looked amazing...the only way it could have been better is if I could have planned far enough in advance to have stayed and slept next to here.... maybe next time. Just my opinion BTW.. the title "Wrapping it up" made me initially think this was a safe sex thread.