Ice4fun

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Ok.... just spent some time going through your CERB ads....I can't see anything that I would consider to be "less appealing" in fact every inch looks delicious... besides having you....what am I missing :)

Well this is my third day on the couch feeling like Shit and if that did not suck enough.... now it's Snowing.

Ok first off I will admit that his is not a topic that I know much about but my understanding is as follows: Service providers get tested regularly to look after their own health...when they do so i don't expect to see the results it just lets me know they are serious about both their business and their health.. both are good things for me too The testing process is not like a pregnancy test where they pee on a stick and voila we have results...so its not a tool that can be used on the day of the booking to protect yourself.. there are things you can do to reduce your risk (condoms etc) but testing is not going to do it for you. When you choose... thats right choose... to participate in this hobby you assume some risk... really no different than other choices you make. but they are your chouces and your risks... asking for test results is trying to place this responsibility on the lady and to be frank... she has enough things to think about without managing our risk. Finally.... if the risk scares you... maybe you should not participate in the industry. Bottom line the choice is yours. Just my opinion.

So it's decided to give everyone an absolute discharge but the crown takes all the money.... so I wonder who is really getting fucked here.

Have a Good Day.

I have never been faced with this situation as the ladies I have met have all been exactly what I expected...lol...actually in most cases even better. If I was ever in a situation where I decided not to continue I think my approach might be determined by what the issue was. If I was faced with a bait and Switch I would not feel any obligation to compensate the lady. I would politely explain that I was expecting someone else and therfore not interested in continuing. If my reason for leaving related more to my personal choice I would feel it would be appropriate for me to fully compensate the lady for her time. I think the reason I have never been faced with this is the fact that I have tended to see the same ladies repeatedly and after a fair amount of homework.

Personally.... I have less interest in legs that never end and more interest in where those legs do end...:) Oh and just for the record 5' 11 3/4" tall.... just saying.

The good news is that the world is changing and women's sexuality is becoming more accepted. I appreciate that the change is not happening nearly fast enough but this is in fact a huge cultural change. I am 54 and grew up in a world where women were supposed to be sweet and wholesome and any woman who demonstrated her sexuality was looked down upon. In a relatively short time frame women have rightly claimed their own sexual identity... the role models that today's girls see on TV and in the news are significantly different than 30 years ago. In addition the boys if today are being raised by women who are way more comfortable with their sexuality then generations in the past and I think this will have a huge impact as these boys become men. Bottom line the double standard that has existed is finally starting to change and it's about time. Just my opinion.

Communication both verbal and written can play a huge part in the level of sexual excitement that exists between two people... some people, like Delilah, are experts in using words to heighten the intensity of sexual attraction... if you don't believe me take a few minutes to go back and read some of her ads. For me personally it is not so much the specific things that a partner says that make it sexy it is the honesty of the communication.... and the timing of the communication. When I am going to meet a beautiful lady and she messages me with specific details of what she wants us to do it can be an amazing turn on... it is not necessarily the graphic nature of the words but the knowledge of how those thoughts and images are impacting each of us. It also clearly sets the tone for the encounter and if it is with a new partner helps set expectations for both of us. Knowing what a partner likes and wants sexually is always a huge advantage. In terms of communication during the actual session.... the more the better.... if you want something I love for you to tell me.... if I'm doing something right... let me know... if it's not working for you there is nothing better than a dirty suggestion to help me move along. Often when people think of dirty talk during sex they imagine someone screaming in passion.... while I am fine with that if it is what floats your boat... i think of it being more about honest intentional communication of our wants and needs both before and during the session. If you want me to turn you around and fuck you hard from behind while I pull your hair tell me....because I will certainly tell you if that's what I want to do. As with most relationships full unfiltered communication does not just immediately happen... people tend to hold back initially until they get to know the other person... they want to make a good impression so they are careful in what they say and do. that's why I am a big supporter of having good communication with the lady before you actually meet.... then when you do meet... you feel comfortable.... the jitters are gone and you will have established a trust and comfort level that will allow honest communicate of your desires. Hey who wants to wait till the second hour of that first appointment to be comfortable enough to say that you have dreamed of exploring her amazing ass with your tongue for the last 3 weeks or that you want to look into her beautiful eyes as your cock fills her throat. I for one kinda think those thoughts are better said at the start of the session just imagine where they may lead. Just my opinion

Really slow day... still feeling lousy but need to get up off the couch and get something to eat.

Happy Easter everyone.... As for Spring.... i will believe it when I see it.

Still feeling terrible so i am thinking supper tonight will just be another bowl of soup.

What the fuck is wrong with people that they would try to fuck up someone else's business.

I may have missed the point of this thread but I kinda thought that no one was saying there should be a forced set price that everyone had to follow just sort of suggesting that it was probably in the interest of all SP'S that rates remain high and that people don't just start under cutting each other. I don't think any set rate would ever work and there is way to many reasons why people set the rates they do to expect uniformity... i fully agree that each SP has to set their own rate but reminding oneself that the rate you set may affect others is not necessarily a bad thing either. Just my opinion.

Does not really matter to me if the lady is tall or short... i am 5' 11" so most ladies I meet are shorter than me... from a purely physical perspective I think the overall proportionality of the ladies body is more important than just he height. More important than the ladies physical attributes for me is the connection i have with the lady... if we click and are comfortable with each other it us way more important than pure looks. Now all that said lololol a beautiful tall lady in heels that make her ass look even more amazing does do something for me. Just my opinion.

On the Couch under a blanket shivering.... fucking Flu.... also chatting with a friend and surfing CERB

I know how you feel been running a temperature all day and feel like Shit.... on a brighter note forecast is for 15 to 20 cm on Saturday...wtf

Christy I think I agree with everything you have said except your comments about price being the dominant factor... i would agree that price is asked ... lol all of us have to know if we can afford the service but once I know it is not outside my price range I really don't shop around based on cost. most of the ladies I have seen I have seen repeatedly and it has not really crossed my mind to look for something cheaper. Just my opinion

First let me thank you for the personal attack... i do in fact pay attention to many issues... i do agree that Mr. Harper has stayed clear of the abortion issue even though he personally does not agree with abortion... but that's not really that surprising there is no political upside to opening the abortion debate as he would be severely impacted in the next election as abortion is a topic that Canadians especially women would consider when voting. Suggesting that a bill that would make sex work illegal is similar is kinda like comparing Apples and Oranges... Mr Harper is astute enough to understand that while most Canadians are not in favor of making sex work illegal they also will not see this issue as something that drives them when they go to the polls. If as many suggest Mr. Harper goes with a Canadian version of the Nordic model which makes prostitution legal but the purchasing of Sex illegal then it would have a significant impact on me a purchaser of the service. So I can sit and trust that the Government will do what is right or I can express my opinion and try to influence the outcome. As for my choice in who I read and listen to let me just say that I am not a resident of Ontario and therefore seldom if ever read the Toronto Star... as for CBC radio... and Mr. Fife... they would not be part of my daily routine. I am looking forward to reading the actual legislation but refuse to sit back with rose colored glasses thinking that Mr. Harper will do the right thing. Just my opinion.

Me either... never any negative feedback about not tipping... but I do often bring a gift if I have seen the lady mire than once.

So far 3 Tylenol Cold and sinus.... i think I am getting the fucking cold

You may be right... the bill brought forward by the Harper Government may ultimately end up back before the supreme court.... the problem remains that it will victimize sex workers....making Their livelihood more difficult and scare off the good client for the years it will take to once again wind it's way through the justice system. Shame on our government for doing that and really shame on us Canadians for letting them.

Got home from work about 40 minutes ago and just booked and paid for the hotel for an upcoming trip with my wife...... lolol anyone got any suggestions on how I could convince her to let me bring a friend. lololol

Having a lady pay attention to me either in public or by referencing us subtly in a post or on twitter after we gave spent time together is a big turn on for me... now mind you I 100% appreciate that you ladies have many clients and that you can't single guys out... lol but sometimes just a reference to a great evening meeting with a wonderful client is nice... On a more public basis... i would love to take a beautiful lady on a shopping day some where nice.... be with her in the dressing As she tries on what I am buying here and have her thank me right there in the dressing room with a blow job..... has not happened yet... but someday :). So yea... mark me down as in favor of public displays of affection...in the last year one of my favorite things was to take a lady to a nice restaurant for dinner.... i know that does not sound like much but to be out in public with this beautiful lady holding hands in a city like St. John' (still small enough that everyone knows everyone) was just amazing and our play time after was all that much better because of it. Lol I need to travel more.