Ice4fun

Just take the plunge.... i guarantee you will not be sorry but the longer you wait lol the more you will kick yourself for waiting when you do..... go for it.

You continue to amaze me Tom...if everyone approached life with even half of the spirit that you do the world would be a much better place.... thank you

I seriously doubt you have a bad ass but i know a sure way to find out...... there nothing quite like a taste test to settle an issue.... the problem might just be that you don't seem to me to be someone that I would only want a taste of....

Your comment at the start of your post was: "Il Re works in this industry and he has to tow the line. He doesn't want to lose any customers who might be reading his comments. He has to defend his fellow workers." I'm no English major but I think most people reading your post would conclude that this wording could only have been seen as your being dismissive of his opinion and suggesting it carried little value simply because he works in the industry. Perhaps your point would have stood out better if you had simply started your post with the comment "As a customer....." then the focus would be on your opinion.

One really good thing about CERB is the fact that we get to see a range of opinions here. I appreciate all the varying opinions... some I may not agree with but they do inform me. What is not so nice and seems to be happening more often, in my opinion, is people feeling that to effectively make their point they must discount or attack someone else. The fact that IL Re works in the industry should not be a surprise to anyone on CERB but so what if he is that does not mean his opinion is incorrect or of less value.... many of the people who work in this industry are also customers. Why bluethunder felt it was necessary to dismiss Il Re's comments instead of just making his own boggles my mind. Just my opinion.

Sure what's said during sex can be Amazing and enhance the moment...... but stop for a minute and think about how equally exciting can be just the sounds.....that rhythmic sound of our wet warm body parts slapping against each other the sound we all know so well..... but listen more closely and hear the breathing that happens with each of those slaps.... the little sounds.... that amazing exhaling sound she makes as you go deep inside her ..... or maybe how her breath pattern changes as you rub your fingers across her clit...... or speaking of that the amazing sound of her pussy getting wetter and wetter as you rub it and explore it....love that sound..... But I digress... this post is about dirty TALK.... sorry ;)

I'm not sure any if your choices adequately cover what catches my interest. Certainly a beautiful picture professional or otherwise is likely to catch my eye but i am looking for a well written ad that tells me about the intelligence and professionalism if the lady... i want to see a website so that I can go learn more about the person... if it's one of those off the shelf sites it's less likely to retain my interest. Some of my favorite websites have amazing blogs that open a windows to the amazing lady. I like it when the ad or website encourages contact prior to booking date so that the connection can be enhanced. I am normally not looking for explicit wording but a lady who can express herself with an exotic flair will certainly attract my attention. Just my opinion.

Having a 4 say long weekend and not feeling well enough to get off the couch.

It's unfortunate that some guys can't keep there head screwed on tight enough to understand that this is a business and feel compelled to to stalk and harass ladies in this business. This is a difficult enough business to run without the additional concern about some nut who can't seperate the fantasy from reality..... i hope things work out for you.

I'm 54 so I have visited strip clubs in various city's around Canada for about 35 years.... have the changed... of course they have... like all businesses they gave adjusted their service offering to reflect the environment in which they operate. I delighted to see that I no longer go into clubs and see ladies required to wear pasties as full nudity was not allowed or that if you wanted a private dance you could not drink in the same room.... things change and people will see positives and negatives to the changes.... for the ladies who preferred no contact the move to it being the norm was seen as a negative while others saw it as a great way to bump up their revenue. one think I have missed at the clubs as they gave moved to more lapdance/contact venues us the amazing dance shows some of there ladies were able to do. As for the beauty of the ladies at the clubs then vs now.....all I can say is I have never had a problem finding a beautiful lady at the clubs. 30 years ago there was no tattoos and no body jewelry... hair styles were different.... people dressed differently...hey but before we judge.... go back and look at some pictures of yourself from the past what we think is sexy changes with time and in my opinion that is not a bad thing..... would I get a tattoo or piercing. lol... most likely not... have I met some amazing sexy beautiful women who have YES. In my opinion anything that makes a lady feel sexy about herself is ok with me. Bottom line... i can't go back to the past so the things I miss about then will remain as fond memories... there are however so many new fond memories to make. Just my opinion.

I'm not sure I have a favorite place but I have always thought it would be nice to Meet a beautiful lady at a really good restaurant for a meal.... it would be one of those times where you just know from looking at each other that you have to fuck...at some point during the meal she excuses herself to go to the washroom and as she walks around behind me she leads down kisses my neck and tells me she is not wearing any panties. I follow her to the washroom approach her from behind place one arm around her and push her up against the wall lift her dress over her beautiful ass and take her from behind....... after we return to the table.

Welcome to CERB.... feel free to jump right in and join the chat and explore your wild side.

Ok.... just spent some time going through your CERB ads....I can't see anything that I would consider to be "less appealing" in fact every inch looks delicious... besides having you....what am I missing :)

Well this is my third day on the couch feeling like Shit and if that did not suck enough.... now it's Snowing.

Ok first off I will admit that his is not a topic that I know much about but my understanding is as follows: Service providers get tested regularly to look after their own health...when they do so i don't expect to see the results it just lets me know they are serious about both their business and their health.. both are good things for me too The testing process is not like a pregnancy test where they pee on a stick and voila we have results...so its not a tool that can be used on the day of the booking to protect yourself.. there are things you can do to reduce your risk (condoms etc) but testing is not going to do it for you. When you choose... thats right choose... to participate in this hobby you assume some risk... really no different than other choices you make. but they are your chouces and your risks... asking for test results is trying to place this responsibility on the lady and to be frank... she has enough things to think about without managing our risk. Finally.... if the risk scares you... maybe you should not participate in the industry. Bottom line the choice is yours. Just my opinion.

So it's decided to give everyone an absolute discharge but the crown takes all the money.... so I wonder who is really getting fucked here.

Have a Good Day.

I have never been faced with this situation as the ladies I have met have all been exactly what I expected...lol...actually in most cases even better. If I was ever in a situation where I decided not to continue I think my approach might be determined by what the issue was. If I was faced with a bait and Switch I would not feel any obligation to compensate the lady. I would politely explain that I was expecting someone else and therfore not interested in continuing. If my reason for leaving related more to my personal choice I would feel it would be appropriate for me to fully compensate the lady for her time. I think the reason I have never been faced with this is the fact that I have tended to see the same ladies repeatedly and after a fair amount of homework.

Personally.... I have less interest in legs that never end and more interest in where those legs do end...:) Oh and just for the record 5' 11 3/4" tall.... just saying.

The good news is that the world is changing and women's sexuality is becoming more accepted. I appreciate that the change is not happening nearly fast enough but this is in fact a huge cultural change. I am 54 and grew up in a world where women were supposed to be sweet and wholesome and any woman who demonstrated her sexuality was looked down upon. In a relatively short time frame women have rightly claimed their own sexual identity... the role models that today's girls see on TV and in the news are significantly different than 30 years ago. In addition the boys if today are being raised by women who are way more comfortable with their sexuality then generations in the past and I think this will have a huge impact as these boys become men. Bottom line the double standard that has existed is finally starting to change and it's about time. Just my opinion.

Communication both verbal and written can play a huge part in the level of sexual excitement that exists between two people... some people, like Delilah, are experts in using words to heighten the intensity of sexual attraction... if you don't believe me take a few minutes to go back and read some of her ads. For me personally it is not so much the specific things that a partner says that make it sexy it is the honesty of the communication.... and the timing of the communication. When I am going to meet a beautiful lady and she messages me with specific details of what she wants us to do it can be an amazing turn on... it is not necessarily the graphic nature of the words but the knowledge of how those thoughts and images are impacting each of us. It also clearly sets the tone for the encounter and if it is with a new partner helps set expectations for both of us. Knowing what a partner likes and wants sexually is always a huge advantage. In terms of communication during the actual session.... the more the better.... if you want something I love for you to tell me.... if I'm doing something right... let me know... if it's not working for you there is nothing better than a dirty suggestion to help me move along. Often when people think of dirty talk during sex they imagine someone screaming in passion.... while I am fine with that if it is what floats your boat... i think of it being more about honest intentional communication of our wants and needs both before and during the session. If you want me to turn you around and fuck you hard from behind while I pull your hair tell me....because I will certainly tell you if that's what I want to do. As with most relationships full unfiltered communication does not just immediately happen... people tend to hold back initially until they get to know the other person... they want to make a good impression so they are careful in what they say and do. that's why I am a big supporter of having good communication with the lady before you actually meet.... then when you do meet... you feel comfortable.... the jitters are gone and you will have established a trust and comfort level that will allow honest communicate of your desires. Hey who wants to wait till the second hour of that first appointment to be comfortable enough to say that you have dreamed of exploring her amazing ass with your tongue for the last 3 weeks or that you want to look into her beautiful eyes as your cock fills her throat. I for one kinda think those thoughts are better said at the start of the session just imagine where they may lead. Just my opinion

Really slow day... still feeling lousy but need to get up off the couch and get something to eat.

Happy Easter everyone.... As for Spring.... i will believe it when I see it.

Still feeling terrible so i am thinking supper tonight will just be another bowl of soup.

What the fuck is wrong with people that they would try to fuck up someone else's business.