Ice4fun

Another reason I have to get to Halifax SOON :)

A downtown location while not a necessity is certainly a positive. My main requirements is discrete, has close available parking and is generally upscale. A place like the Delta is perfect for me underground parking with discrete elevator access in lower lobby. That said I would not really gave a problem with any of the better hotels in the city or with an upscale condo. Just my opinion.

There is another thread here asking if you have seen any good movies lately..... made me think about a similar thread that I should start...... Have you made any good Movies recently..... care to share details? Unfortunately.... i have not made any movies yet... lol not that it would be a must see. lol.

Love the premise of this thread but to be honest I don't think I am that comfortable saying what I think the best gift I have given is. When I repeat with a lady who I have a connection with I do like to bring a gift and if I can I try to make it something personal and something that I think they want or need. I have given wine and perfume and clothing and sex toys and lots of things... lol surprisingly I don't necessarily feel that the best gifts have always been the most expensive... the best has been the ones where I can tell by her reaction that I have hit the nail on the head in my selection. It's also kinda interesting that I think I give gifts as much for my benefit as the ladies I like surprising people with gifts I do it with family and friends so it just seems right. Just my opinion

Wow interesting Question.... ok if your asking if I might be initially more interested in a sexy lady who has a beautiful face then I would be lying to say no...sure seeing a beautiful face is not a negative but to be frank it's like most things in life things are not always as they might appear. External beauty is not always an indicator of a great session or an amazing connection. The reality is that beauty is subjective and to be frank how beautiful a lady might seem to me might change once I have had the opportunity to get to know her. Some of the ladies who I like the most might not have the "perfect" body or face but they in my opinion have something even more... the perfect package... that combination of personality... self awareness... confidence... passion and desire that makes them even sexier more beautiful. Do they have what some may see as physical flaws...lol... who doesn't... but that is who they are and they wear it with pride and make every inch of themselves sexy and desirable. The way they feel about themselves makes me want to be with them and when I am I feel very lucky.

First let me say I love a long passionate hug and kiss at the door before I leave... u want to gave that feeling that neither if us want to separate. That said I have had many wonderful sessions which have not ended with us hugging at the door... i recall one amazing session where I left with the lady lying naked on the bed partially covered by a sheet looking totally amazing and exhausted... i loved the idea that our fun had left her spent... we did kiss and hug at the bed and she made me feel like she hated I was leaving. Bottom line I want to feel like she would love me to stay and can't wait till I return. If I feel like that... i will be back. On a few rare occasions I have met ladies who are walking to the door almost as soon as we cum.... it a quick hug and bye... even great sex will not get me to repeat if I feel like a transaction I want the connection.

The reality is no matter how much we care or want to help we can't fix someone else and until they reach a point where they want to change or want help to change we are virtually powerless. What can we do... make sure we stay connected... offer help with the change process not with daily life issues that result from the problematic behaviour. Tell the person we care and are there for them. What should we expect... well to be pushed away... to be hurt... to have unpleasant things said about us... to feel like we are being mean and letting our friend down... but remember it is not your friend that is talking it is the problem they are fighing.... you don't own the problem and are not responsible for the solution. I know some of this because I went through it for almost 30 years with a member of my family... many many attempts and many many relapses..... unbelievable pain and guilt by my parents and family... things are better now but it takes a toll.... be sure to understand what success looks like... it is not that you keep your friendship or things return to normal... it is that someone you care about wins the battle.... it's not about you its about them.

My first instinct would not be to email a lady I had an interest in seeing it would be to Text her. I think for many if us the text message or BBM has replaced the email as our primary means if shirt conversations with people. That said I can tell you that some if the nicest ladies I have met have been through initial contact by email as that is their preferred method of contact. In some ways I think it payed off because there was a more detailed initial sharing of information because either the lady asked for more information or I felt that the email communications was mire formal so I shared more. Now given all if that let's talk about what really matters.... if you are interested in meeting a lady or finding out more about her... read her ad... read her website... read her CERB information... find out how she likes to be contacted and do that.

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I have a feeling I would appreciate storms mire if I was stuck inside with you... power or no power. :)

More horny..... lol... if spring causes that then I know a number of women who must think it's spring all year :)

Today was a good day.... can't really say why.... but it was.

Shit... this is an open forum... people can have any opinion they want... right or wrong. I come here for lots of reasons... when I come here some posts make me roll my eyes and some challenge me to think... some people's posts make me laugh and some make me wonder if they are ok....but that's the reality of an open community.. if it works for you stay and enjoy if it doesn't leave. When I see a topic I like I post a reply if you like it great.... if not great too. Frankly I don't need you or anyone else analyzing me and placing their sense of judgment on me or my participation.

Is this a less caring world.... i guess in a lot of ways it is and I think it is easy to find examples to support the fact that it appears that the world is gone to hell in a hand basket. But you know I have been lucky enough over the last few years to have spent considerable time working with Youth and young adults and quite honestly they have just amazed me and have allowed me to also see all the good things we have to be thankful for.... i used to wonder what would happen in the future but now kinda feel it just might be a better place. Just my opinion.

I scored 16.... much better than I expected...lol

On a day in day out basis I eat to live... very often that is bad choices in large helping.... for those who gave met me they have seen my gut so that will come as no surprise. No that said.... i also love great meals in good restaurants especially when the company is good and the conversation engaging.

With the exception of losing some weight I am not sure I would look to change too much about my appearance I am generally OK with me. I too have a medical issues that while it does not impact my appearance it has had and will continue to have significant impact on my life... so rather than alter my appearance if I had the power I would change my health.

The road of life is seldom an uneventful journey and at times in our life we will all struggle.... no matter how independent we may think we are... no matter how strong we may imagine ourselves... life has a way to humble us all. When this happens to us we are seldom prepared... we are often in denial that we even have a problem... and we often take it out on the very ones who care most about. It is at these times that the way you have lead your life, the character and integrity that you have shown others....the friendships and the connections that you have made that will come to support you and comfort you and stuck with you regardless of how difficult you have made it. Just so I am clear I am not suggesting that regardless of what you do your friends should just do as you ask... i am saying that in these cases when a friend is in trouble and in need and does not know it or accept it the best you can often do is to let them know you are there.... provide them with options that they can choose should they wish to seek help... they may not appreciate the offer in the moment but maybe soon they will. Just my opinion

I think both types of pictures serve a purpose certainly the professionally shot pictures tell me that the lady is serious about her business and they do an excellent job of portraying the image the lady us trying to convey. Selfies... well they are just cute and sexy and spontaneous... there us nothing better than having an lady you see pop you a spontaneous selfie either before or after the session. Just my opinion.

I'm not a member.... would happily join if I ever met a willing lady on a flight. lol but to be honest for someone I am already seeing I can think of lots of other places I would prefer.

Boring Blue..... however they look amazing on the floor next to the bed... i just need to find some sexy lady who want to help me fake them off lol

We may all be excluded from blood donation but the post for me was an excellent reminder that as part of our community we all should be looking to Give Back in some way. While I know that some of us struggle financially my overall impression is that to be a regular hobbyist you need to have access to a reasonable amount of disposable income. If that is the case then a reminder to give back like the OP is kinda right in my mind so thanks. For myself I try to remain very active in my community serving on a number of Boards for local charities or Committees... I have been extremely lucky in my life and except for the last 5 years I did not really know what it was like to struggle... as I have struggled over the last few years I have been amazed at the number of caring wonderful people who I met while in involved in community work who have come forward to support me and give me strength. I started supporting charities and community groups long ago because I felt that I should help Other poor people in my community" what I have learned is that we are all part of the community and at times we will all need help so when you support a charity you are building Your Community which also improves your life. I have gotten far more out of my involvement with charity than I have ever given. Just my opinion

Just heading out to work.... we had Snow Yesterday and looks like a lot more tomorrow..... been a fun week so far lol

Your right Isabella...lol... i should have started with my own list... for the most part yesterday was not a great day for me and to be honest when I read it was international Happiness Day Just kinda thought it might be nice to hear some happy thoughts. Better Days ahead I am sure... Thanks for your reply.

I guess we are just not that Happy a Group.... Oh Well. :)