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I always thought I was pretty good at accepting and dealing with change.... in my work life I facilitate and manage significant chafe all the time but I am starting to think what I manage well in my work environment I am not so good at in dealing with in my own life... So today I think Change really Sucks

Was scrolling through posts and saw the thread on "playmate " and it brought back some great memories. A number of years ago I met a dancer at a strip club here in St John's we had a great night in and out of the champagne room and when the bar closed we went out to eat and played a little. She was from Ottawa and at that time I was traveling to Ottawa fairly often and she suggested that I come see her at Playmates the next time I was in Ottawa. A few weeks later I was in Ottawa so I dropped by playmates... we had another great night in the club and she came back to my hotel with me... in fact I was in town the whole week so for the next 3 evening we got together ... one night we went to a movie the rest just to some nice restaurants and back to the hotel... it really was a great week. I don't remember the name she danced under. Yea... real nice memories

hmmmmmm I'm not sure I like the idea of naked and scissors...lol

Just got home from a local AHL hockey game... after 1st period home team was down 5 to 1... in end lost game 8 to 7... wild game. Now surfing and watching TV

This is an excellent Article.... while I think that most Canadians who read this would generally agree the problem remains that for the majority of Canadians they don't have any real affinity with this issue so even if they agree with full unfettered legalization they are probably not going have any motivation to do anything to affect the outcome of the debate. Men like myself who participate in the hobby will chat on here and support sex workers in theory but due to the stigma associated with the industry we will not come forward and demand action. Who will speak loud and often... the right wing and religious fundamentalist who want all sex work to be illegal. Who is left to fight the battle a small brave group of Sex workers who so strongly believe in their right to make decision about what they do with their own bodies that they step forward ... they step into the spotlight... they challenge the laws and risk the public abuse they may receive for identifying themselves with an industry that still is looked down on by so many... they risk being seen as victims in need of being saved... they risk being seen as druggies or fallen women. Bottom line... we owe these individuals a great debt of gratitude for stepping forward to fight the battle for the rest of us. With a government like Stephen Harpers in power all the more so. Just my opinion.

Leaving work 15 minutes before I had to be at the hockey game.... always in a rush these days... kinda think things need to change.

I certainly don't see anything wrong with a video.... that said I would not normally expect to see it on BP but on a ladies Website.

I have never really been a collector... as a child I collected stamps and coins and hockey cards but that was all short lived.... lol I wish I still had the coins and stamps and hockey cards from 40+ years ago now they would really be worth something. As I have aged I have come to realize that what we really collect in life is experiences and memories. of time we have spent with the important people who have crossed our path as we weave our way through life. Each person we meet leaves us with something that impacts our lives.... some are small and relatively short impacts and some are life changing. I have been very lucky in life... i guess you could say that my "collection" if experiences has been extraordinarily amazing.... i have had so many wonderful people who have entered my life and allowed me the pleasure to walk along besides them for a time. Some like my family have been lifelong gifts others have had only a short presence but a huge impact.... some I think have saved my life. In either case I am truly grateful for the "collection" of people that have played a part in my life.

Congratulations Bianca....

I agree that in reality people mature at different ages and yes I am sure if we looked we could find a 15 year old who is better informed and equipped to make this type if decision them some people twice her age... i would suggest however that in general that would not be the case of mist 15 year olds. As for how does one become informed.... well we all have to make decisions in our lives without all the information.... we have to take the time and do our research and think the issue through. In my experience I am much better at doing this now that I am in my 50's than I was as a teenager.... my life experiences has given me a huge data base of information that I can rely on as I think my way through. The real problem in this industry is that because if the stigma associated with the work adults (not 15 year olds) can't do the types of valuable research that would be possible in a the other Legal workplaces. Just my opinion.

Happy Birthday RG... have a great day.

Regardless of which laws are in place or even if the young lady was doing this by choice what she needs is support so that she fully understands her decisions and is not being taken advantage of. I see this as a child protection issue and not a criminal code issue for the young lady. If she was forced into prostution then bring the full force of our criminal justice system down on the pimp or trafficker. Adults should be allowed to choose to work in the sex industry children could not.

Well written article.... i fully agree ad would mist Canadians.... the problem is that Stephen Harper gas never let logic or common sense deter him from his ideological views in the past... the only hope is that he concludes passing a new law will negatively impact him in the next election so that he talks tough but does not actually act. He could do something like the Victims Rights announcement yesterday... something that let's him beat his drum for his core supporters but does not really have any teeth to enforce the rights he announced. Just my opinion.

Lexy.... your not supposed to break you cleaning them. ;)

Welcome... 2big4u.... this is a great community so jump right in.

Any place... but if I had to choose hotel Should she join you in Jacuzzi or Shower?

I agree with all the advice already given and would suggest that it is only reasonable to ask if the information has not already been provided in the ad or website. Just like with anything that we pay for there will be times when there are things we would like have buy can't always afford and SP'S understand that... the trick is to be sure to have your discussion in a manner that does not leave her with the impression that you think the rate is too high or that you don't have that much and are looking for a bargain. In my experience just like in any human interaction sometimes no matter how tactful we may have thought we were we.. may me misunderstood... if that happens... just be a gentleman... apologize for the misunderstanding and wish the lady good night /day Just my opinion.

Hockey Tickets for next season.

Lately I have been craving a good meal if Halibut :)

In this forum it might be better to not say "Bait and Switch" to Lures.... :) The same amazing lady each visit or a new lady each time?

Finally home.... just ate... now watching TV and surfing CERB.

How come we were so stupid to elect Stephen Harper more than once? WTF!!!

This whole process is even more galling when you consider that every poll of Canadians that I have seen has the Canadian public supporting legalization.... so to change the narrative you spin the minority position while making it look like it is an open consultation process... this is typical Stephen Harper stuff.... Just my opinion

I hope you did not think I glazed over the young lady... this to me is where the government should be using their resources to support underrated sex workers (whether by choice or pressure).i I my opinion someone who is 15 has not had the life experiences necessary to make this type if life choice. I know people will talk about the age of consent and the various cultural issues... all I can say is that my opinion is it is too young. Just my opinion.

Busy day at work... hoping to head home shortly and when I do... that will be the highlight of the day.