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Getting some breakfast and going to head to the office for a few hours to see if I can get caught up.

Communicating with an SP is in its basic form a pretty simple thing.... one would think it would be pretty hard to fool up. In most of the cases you have an interested client trying to connect an interested service provider.... seems like a match made in heaven... what could possibly go wrong... lololol. Well in my experience it more closely resembles a mind field overgrown with beautiful flowers.... in our eagerness to run and pick the flowers clients tend to run right in without stopping to read the signs or get a map. Making it worse... us guys are pretty self centered so we don't stop to think that maybe just maybe we are not the only guy trying to contact the wonderful lady.... what do you mean she has a life outside of her profession.... you mean she is not just sitting by the phone waiting for my call... lolol... yea no doubt about it... we could do a better job of respecting the needs of the wonderful ladies that we want to meet. We need to remember to stop and think before we send that second text.... we need to relax and not get mad because she did not reply... lol... in most cases it just means she is not available... it's not a personal statement... she's not being mean or blowing you off. Remember she is running a business why the fuck would she want to piss off a client :). This should go without saying guys but I will say it anyway.... when we are drinking we don't always make the best decisions or communicate effectively. General rules for us clients: - Send a message if you don't get a reply don't take it personal just move along. -Read the ladies ad and website to see how she likes to be contacted and what her availability is. Follow the instructions... it is your map through the mind field. - Read her posts and website for clues about her personal interests related to ongoing contact with clients... some like it and encourage it others have no interest. -Don't be a asshole....be polite... and just to be clear I can tell you with 100% certainty that sending her a picture of your cock will not enhance the communication process. - Keep your expectations realistic... for the ladies this is their business and you are one of their many clients. Yes most of them are passionate about and enjoy what they do... yes they enjoy the company of the men they meet and connections they make... they will make you feel like you are the Centre of their world for the time you are with them but THIS IS THEIR JOB not their whole life. Now all that said.... for the wonderful SP's: - Remember we are just mere men lol... we love your attention and are infatuated by your sexy beauty.... you impact our judgment and cause us to do things that we should know better to have done.... not making an excuse here just stating a fact. - Help us by being as clear as possible about what your expectations are around ongoing contact...Yes we should know enough to not expect you to be at our beck and call.. but every SP is unique and the more you make it clear what your expectations are the better we will be in walking that mind field. Just my opinion

Can't Sleep..... so surfing CERB and channel surfing the TV...... lol the late night T V options are pure crap.

Not doing to much actually... just got home from a family event that was fun... been chatting with a friend... surfing CERB.. and watching TV.

This Hobby even with all of its highs.... meeting sexy amazing seductive women.... women of diverse backgrounds and interests will like all things in life have its ups and downs. When things are good they tend to be very good but things don't always go as we want. But do you know what.... even the worst day that includes spending time with a beautiful sexy is Pretty Great. Want to beat the blahs..... Make a booking with a sexy CERB Lady

I am a happily married hobbiest ... i love my wife and would do anything for her. We have so very many things that bring us together and make us both happy but you know I a Not sure I still believe like I use to that one person can meet all of our needs....perhaps seeing others provide a venue for me to meet needs for intimacy or connection in a way that is not possible with my wife. All that said if I was forced to choose....my hobbiest lifestyle or my wife the choice would be easy...i would choose her in a heartbeat.... i chose her 30 plus years ago and have not regretted that decision for even one second. I am not sure I deserve her but I do Love her. Just my opinion

These are very nice White wine especially for the price.

The only Wine I have tasted in the last year was a wonderful red wine called "Alter Ego" it was very good I think it was a 2006 vintage. I certainly would recommend it.

Some Kink Hands or no hands when she gives you oral?

I would love to go to New York and take in some Broadway Shows and dine in some amazing resturants.

It's Friday.... i will settle for that

I have not been with many ladies who have this delightful ability but I I have to say I love when it happens.

I use lots of different browsers and don't really have a preference. To be honest since I purchased the BlackBerry Z30 a few month's ago I seldom use anything else. The browser on the Z30 is excellent.

I kinda agree that 5 minutes is not a very long grace period and would bet that he would have expected you to wait longer...but who knows maybe he was new to the hobby and was nervous as it was and this just spooked him. Bottom line Shit happens better luck next time.

I still smile every time my wife says she was at the spa and got a great Facial......

9000 Posts..... Now that is a milestone to be proud of... congratulations.

Not that I don't believe you Nathalie but any yoga pictures I have seen of you did not lead me to think that I could do that positions..... are there any positions that resemble sitting in recliner watching TV.... :) Of course I'm just kidding I am always amazed by the great yoga positions and jealous of those in that great shape.

Congratulations On hitting 4000 posts... quite a milestone.

Congratulations Cleo.... enjoy reading your posts and blog... keep them coming.

Another reason I have to get to Halifax SOON :)

A downtown location while not a necessity is certainly a positive. My main requirements is discrete, has close available parking and is generally upscale. A place like the Delta is perfect for me underground parking with discrete elevator access in lower lobby. That said I would not really gave a problem with any of the better hotels in the city or with an upscale condo. Just my opinion.

There is another thread here asking if you have seen any good movies lately..... made me think about a similar thread that I should start...... Have you made any good Movies recently..... care to share details? Unfortunately.... i have not made any movies yet... lol not that it would be a must see. lol.

Love the premise of this thread but to be honest I don't think I am that comfortable saying what I think the best gift I have given is. When I repeat with a lady who I have a connection with I do like to bring a gift and if I can I try to make it something personal and something that I think they want or need. I have given wine and perfume and clothing and sex toys and lots of things... lol surprisingly I don't necessarily feel that the best gifts have always been the most expensive... the best has been the ones where I can tell by her reaction that I have hit the nail on the head in my selection. It's also kinda interesting that I think I give gifts as much for my benefit as the ladies I like surprising people with gifts I do it with family and friends so it just seems right. Just my opinion

Wow interesting Question.... ok if your asking if I might be initially more interested in a sexy lady who has a beautiful face then I would be lying to say no...sure seeing a beautiful face is not a negative but to be frank it's like most things in life things are not always as they might appear. External beauty is not always an indicator of a great session or an amazing connection. The reality is that beauty is subjective and to be frank how beautiful a lady might seem to me might change once I have had the opportunity to get to know her. Some of the ladies who I like the most might not have the "perfect" body or face but they in my opinion have something even more... the perfect package... that combination of personality... self awareness... confidence... passion and desire that makes them even sexier more beautiful. Do they have what some may see as physical flaws...lol... who doesn't... but that is who they are and they wear it with pride and make every inch of themselves sexy and desirable. The way they feel about themselves makes me want to be with them and when I am I feel very lucky.

First let me say I love a long passionate hug and kiss at the door before I leave... u want to gave that feeling that neither if us want to separate. That said I have had many wonderful sessions which have not ended with us hugging at the door... i recall one amazing session where I left with the lady lying naked on the bed partially covered by a sheet looking totally amazing and exhausted... i loved the idea that our fun had left her spent... we did kiss and hug at the bed and she made me feel like she hated I was leaving. Bottom line I want to feel like she would love me to stay and can't wait till I return. If I feel like that... i will be back. On a few rare occasions I have met ladies who are walking to the door almost as soon as we cum.... it a quick hug and bye... even great sex will not get me to repeat if I feel like a transaction I want the connection.