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From my perspective Bad Behaviour is Bad Behaviour regardless if it's an SP or A Client and both should expect that it will be shared in the community. If you commit the offense then you will have to deal with the consequences. Now that said the real question is... what should be the venue of this sharing. I personally like the fact that CERB has chosen the positive post only approach because I would fear that if we didn't people would default to airing all of there petty differences here on the site. We are talking about encounters between real people they will not always be everything we hoped but only a small fraction will cross that line and need for safety reasons to be shared. So the compromise... SP's have their own private area where they can share bad experiences and protect each other and their businesses and men have PM's on CERB and a multitude of other sites if they want to bitch. For me personally unless the encounter crossed the line of safety for the client or other SP's I would prefer to just consider disappointing encounters to incompatibility.... not every one is a good match.... just move on. Mind you being the nosey bastard I am I would love to read all the info in the SP private area....you know all that info about the bad clients an the glowing info about my sexual prowess........ ok once you all have gotten up from rolling on the floor laughing I hope you all have a great Saturday and remember if you are meeting a lady treat her like the CERB Goddess she is. Just my opinion

Happy Birthday Emily ... While we have never met... everyone I have spoken to who has met you sing your praises so my birthday wish for you is that the smiles... joy... and happiness that you spread on your travels across Canada come back to you 10 fold on your birthday and every day after.

Having a Beautiful sexy Awesome Amazing Lady Distract me last night during a difficult time and then getting a V Day message from her this morning.... kinda nice when I know she had lots if her own personal stuff to look after. I think we all need to be more thankful for those people who care enough to be there when we need them. Thanks Beautiful Just my opinion.

I kinda think they need to be proportional to the rest of the ladies body but forced to choose BIG For Valentine's Chocolate treats or oral sex.... what do you want in your mouth tonight.

Hmmmm In theory I love the idea of together but I am reminded of a line from the TV comedy "Everyone Loves Raymond" when Raymond's wife asks him if he is seeing another woman and he replied..... Yea that's my ambition in life to be a disappointment to Two Women. However in my dreams... both.... Multiple times till they begged me to Stop. LOL Additional Comments:

Happy Valentines Day Everyone Valentines Day gives us a really great opportunity to tell the people who are important to us just how much we care. Often we don't say how we feel to the ones we are closest too... i am married 30+ years and I know I don't tell my wife I love her nearly enough... tonight I will.

Some people really make you wonder how they get through the day.... are they stupid.... if just uncaring about anyone else. I have never met you but on behalf of all of all us guys... sorry you have to deal with bozo's like this.

Just so we are clear I am not saying the idea of prepayment is a bad idea...hey any arrangement that meets the needs of both people is fine from my perspective.... they are the only people's opinion that count.

If this is where we are headed it will be back to all the games... no discussion of sex... just time. Good clients who fear charges leaving the industry and lousy abusive clients requiring secrecy so they can operate in the margins and take away any security for the SP. I think it's time for Canada to Grow the Fuck Up....do we really think the Sex Industry is going away??

Ok... if the She you are referring too is the her I am thinking of then yes it is definitely She not He lololololol

I may be wrong.... God knows I have been in the past, but I think the benefits for the client of a regular ongoing relationship with a service provider tends to just naturally happen, it not as calculated as a 1.5 for 1 lol more a relaxed atmosphere and a real connection with the lady... if she wants to run over the time.... or invite you to stay longer wonderful... i know this is a business arrangement but geez I don't want it to feel like one. Just my opinion

RM I completely understand how you feel as I am very much in the same situation with one of my relatives.... I understand that to free myself from this issue with him I need to forgive and move on but to be honest I am not sure I am a Good enough person to do that even though it might be best for me. The Issue is just to important and the pain I feel to raw even after more than 5 years. Like Savannah has said for right now the best thing to do was to just move on. Some pain you just take with you to the grave.

Yea we will often tolerate more from our families but I think we also hurt much more when they break our trust with them and as expected they are often the hardest for us forgive. The deeper the level of trust the harder it is to forgive. Just my opinion Additional Comments: Please don't start a messed up family thread.... lololol the Last thing I need is all my family on here posting about me. :)

All indications are that this will be the model that the government intends to follow as I think it will play very well to the conservatives right wing support base. Unfortunately this approach will do nothing to improve he lives of sex workers who have been mistreated or forced into the business but instead will make their life worse as they reinvent their business to cover for the increased risk service users will feel. Screening will be virtually impossible for street workers and they will be at even more risk. For those Service Providers who have entered this business of their own choice and who have created a business for them selves they will see a significant portion of their clients disappear. So things will be worse for everyone but the government will get to look like it is tough on the sex industry and it's imagined negative impact on women. For most things in my life I am an optimist and I am hopeful that as this dialogue continues during the next year that Canadians will in their comments demonstrate the enlightened understanding of thus topic that I know exists just below the current moral charade that prostitution is not a topic good people support. I gave been encouraged with the recent media coverage of the issue that is presenting what I see as a more balanced narrative. For me personally I am not get ready to throw in the towel.... Just my opinion

I don't think I know that song..... perhaps you could post a short video if yourself singing it LOL.... video would be for medical use only.

I don't drink... but when I did I would have chosen Tequila.... actually Tequila Watermelon....the best drink you ever ate. Falling asleep with your lover....or.... watching your lover sleep. Additional Comments: I don't drink... but when I did I would have chosen Tequ

In a general way I kinda trust everyone until they give me a reason to not trust them. I regards to a higher level of trust I kinda think that I really start to trust someone when I have known them for awhile and their actions clearly shows me that they are honest and true. In regards to my relationship with a service providers I would not agree to see a lady without having a reasonable level of trust in them. But the unquestioned trust you with anything kind of faith is really only something that develops over time an multiple encounters.... there is one lady I see who I would trust with anything in a heartbeat... she has more integrity and character than almost anyone I know. Just my opinion

Watching Hockey on the couch in my underwear eating girkin pickles right out of the bottle.... nothing but classy here. it's no wonder the ladies are beating down my door. Lolololol

If I had thought there was an option to cone watch it with you on TV I would have not gone to the Game. :)

Just about to head home from work... been a long day but this has been a really great day the Best I have had in a Long Time and I am Very THANKFUL for that.

I will just add that forgiveness is not something you give to someone else it is a gift you give to yourself. It frees you from the pain of the issue and really has nothing to do with the the person who hurt you. Without forgiveness you continue to allow the person who hurt you to have power within your life letting it go frees you... it does not mean everything goes back to the way it was.. just that you have released yourself from the emotional baggage. Do it for you not for them.... Great idea just really hard to do. Just my opinion.

I don't get to ottawa often so I don't think I can help you on that count but I really don't see any problem with deposits for new clients.

Currently I am just about to leave for work so I have been up for a few hours... showered.... shaved... got Dresses.... checked all the CERB posts shared a few texts with an Amazing lady and will drop off her Valentines gift on my way into work. What I would like to be doing is to slip into her bed... cuddle up next to her amazing body.... put my arms around her and go to sleep.

I think it is a very hard thing to determine in advance how a particular lady might react. Certainly the idea of a retainer and asking a lady what such an arrangement might cost is not haggling from my perspective so I like Roamingguy's approach but I would be cautious with suggesting a reduced rate without a good feeling of how the lady might react. If you have been seeing this lady regularly ie weekly, then I think you would be in the best position to have a good insight into how she will react. Given the other SP posts on this thread it may be a welcome gesture that she will appreciate. The fact that you are asking might Indicate you think she might not like the idea..... or are you possibly throwing it out here in the hope she reads it and expresses an opinion (lol very sneaky of you). For me personally based only on my experience seeing a lady regularly has its own inherent benefits that have nothing to do with the rate that I pay. When I start seeing a lady I accept that the rate is reasonable for the experience she will provide me so it would never cross my mind to look for a better rate or a volume discount if I wanted more of the Amazing ladies time. For me... this would be disrespectful to the lady (lol shows what I know given the SP responses in this thread). My understanding of a retainer is that you pay an amount in advance to ensure the availability of a service provider (lawyer, Accountant, courtesan) on a consistent basis regardless of whether the service is actually used during the period. It is not a discounted hourly rate. For me your idea is more a request for a volume discount which there is nothing wrong with if both parties see it as beneficial to them. The seller hopes to make more money by encouraging a higher level of purchases and by getting the money up front while the buyer hope to achieve a reduced unit cost because of their volume purchase. Good Luck with it either way I hope you and the lady in question find an arrangement that works for both of you... after all if you and her are happy that is really all that matters. Just my Opinion