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polka dot Which type of Dance you prefer... Polka or Exotic

Happy Anniversary.... always enjoy your posts and good to see another active NL her in the community

I can tell you from personal experience that there are things that people can do that make it extremely difficult to forgive. Sometimes we don't want to forgive because the pain is just to hard.... sometimes we don't want to forgive because we are too angry... and sometimes we don't want to forgive because we want to punish and hurt the other party like they have hurt us and we see forgiving them as letting them off the hook. As others in this thread have said forgiving is not forgetting it is releasing yourself from the hurt and pain of the act you are forgiving... its about you and not them. That is the wonderful truth... to forgive is to release yourself so you can move on... but while it makes perfect sense it is often an excruciating thing to do... i know... i have people in my life that I need to forgive but the reality is I can't.... its been years but I just can't. this does not make me a bad person just a person who is still healing... it's OK to give your self the time to do that...when you do the forgiveness will come. Just my opinion.

Congratulations on your first 500 I am sure it will be no time till you hit 1000.

Winter Speed Skating or Speed Fucking

First let me say that I find sitting on the Fence tends to hurt my Balls..... That said I am the type of guy who tends to have an opinion on everything and am very willingly to share it. That generally means that I often express opinions on things that in reality I have no real interest in. We learn from each other from hearing everyone's opinion on issues and as a result we may change his we feel... that's fine. I like to remind people all the time that Opinions are like ASSHOLES... Everyone has one. Share learn adapt and grow. Just my Opinion

To Groom or not to Groom that is the question. I am not looking for the lady to go to any extraordinary measures.... we will not be walking the red carpet at the Oscars... but I do expect that she will be clean and appropriately dressed to reflect the type of experience she provides... this could be jeans. Just like I am sure that the lady I am seeing will want me to have showered brushed my teeth and put on deodorant I would expect the same. Both parties should leave the impression that their time together is important and they took the time to be ready for it.

Congratulations.... you have given us a whole new way to look at the term DUO.....No wait... i like the old way much better. Thanks for all the great posts.

Going to Bed Air Canada or West Jet

Fruit Photography or Painting

It's kinda hard to believe.... but this must be a shy group...no pictures. Additional Comments:

Just A quick update on The Hide SMS BlackBerry App... Only SMS messages get hidden any text messages with pictures attached do not App has to be left open and running to work... would be better if it ran in background i.e. Headless The App appears on your screen with the name Hide SMS visible which is not great if you are trying to hide things It should be noted that while the App name is visible you can set it up with the ability to access it using a second fake password that opens what appears to be the app with no hidden texts in it

Have you ever had one of those weeks where nothing that you do seems to come out right. Where despite your best intentions you let down the very people that you care the most about. Where you are left questioning what you are doing and thinking that something has to change. Well that's my week this week... on all fronts this has been a complete fuck up week. It's either an aberration or a sure sign that I should reevaluate what I am doing.

Yes the BlackBerry has a wide range of font sizes... my eyes however are not nearly as well equipped... but note taken I will try slightly smaller.

Thanks If anyone finds a Android or Apple App that is similar I would love to hear about it.

I am a die hard BlackBerry user and I recently downloaded a new App that I think is great for this Hobby/Business. The App is called "Hide SMS" and while it is for BlackBerry 10 phones I am sure there are similar Apps for other popular phones. Bottom line the App redirects incoming text messages from identified contacts or phone numbers into a password protected area on your phone and not into your regular text message location. This allows clients to securely text back and forth with SP's with no indication of the text trail in their regular text listing. If your spouse checks your phone you are all clear. It also would allow SP'S to flag the number of regular clients so that the record of their conversations were secure in case the phone is ever lost of stolen. I have only been playing with the app since yesterday but it looks very promising.

Just to clarify my comments regarding Private Profiles.... i am absolutely fine with allowing members to choose to have a private profile for whatever their reason might be... that said I think it would also be appropriate to allow other members with open profiles to restrict access to only those who also share their details. Under this arrangement everyone's interests are respected. Just my opinion.

For me personally I think my confidence is dependent on what aspect of my life I an involved in at the time. In my professional role at work I think most people who know me would say I have a huge amount of confidence which is why I excel in the leadership role I have. In my Community Role I am often engaged in leading community initiatives so I feel a great deal if confidence. In my personal life... my family life... i used to be a very confident Dad and Husband... however I have had a lot happen in my personal life in recent years that has dramatically impacted my personal self image and confidence.... so my confidence in this are is lacking. I'm hoping that will change but who knows. Just my opinion

Don't mean to hijack thread but more and more I have a problem with private profiles... with the amount of choice you have in regards to what you show on your profile I don't see why private profiles exist.... if they continue to exist members should have the ability to not allow access to their profile to private members. As for Province.... should not be a problem for anyone... but sometimes us guys are too busy looking at the amazing ladies profiles that we often don't think about ours till weeks/Months/Years later Just my Opinion

Family Weekend Summer Olympics or Winter Olympics

I think pretty much everyone is unique and in ways quirky... in fact one of the things I like about the posts that I read is that the diversity of opinions and outlooks on life have challenged me to stop and think about all of this. So my advice... hit the send button... its just a comment. As for a board presence... to each their own... just like in real life some people, like me, have an opinion on everything and tend to express it, others tend to keep their opinions to themselves or only comment after great thought or on things that they feel strongly about... Some have time to post some don't... Do whatever us right for you Just my opinion.

It's a real shame that we have lost this amazing actor. He was one of those actors where if you saw his name in the movies credits you sorta knew it was a movie worth going to see. When you think about this it is kinda amazing as in almost all of his movies he was not he leading man but was a supporting actor. I know I was always happy to have seen his movies and would have loved to have seen him in stage as his acting on Broadway in Death of a Salesman was said to be amazing.

For me the aspect that I think I find most important has changed since I first started seeing SP.... initially I think the most important aspect that I looked for was a lady who fit my mental image of sexy so I would check out the ads mainly for the pictures and secondly for an indication of what type of services they provide. I think my experience has shown me that there really is no correlation between looks and an amazing meeting with a lady. I have learned that for me it really is all about the connection with the lady. As a result of my realization that it is about the connection I now tend to book longer session and I enjoy very much the conversation... the sharing.... the time after the sex when we are together. So if I was looking to meet someone new now I am looking at how their ads are written for what they can tell me about them.... i am reading their posts.... i am checking their recommendations. And if all of that catches my interest I am contacting them and to be 100% honest the ability to chat with them a little before we meet would be a major consideration. I gave learned that a little familiarity with each other before the meeting can enhance the anticipation and make for an amazing time together. When I think back my reliance on visual cues was a little silly as to be honest I have never met a lady who was not sexy and beautiful in person. Just my opinion.

3000 posts pretty amazing.... i have appreciated your involvement with the community... thanks

I prefer to not insult either of these important people in my life... i have had good and not so good sex with both and amazing mind blowing sex with both. So I will pass on this one.