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All indications are that this will be the model that the government intends to follow as I think it will play very well to the conservatives right wing support base. Unfortunately this approach will do nothing to improve he lives of sex workers who have been mistreated or forced into the business but instead will make their life worse as they reinvent their business to cover for the increased risk service users will feel. Screening will be virtually impossible for street workers and they will be at even more risk. For those Service Providers who have entered this business of their own choice and who have created a business for them selves they will see a significant portion of their clients disappear. So things will be worse for everyone but the government will get to look like it is tough on the sex industry and it's imagined negative impact on women. For most things in my life I am an optimist and I am hopeful that as this dialogue continues during the next year that Canadians will in their comments demonstrate the enlightened understanding of thus topic that I know exists just below the current moral charade that prostitution is not a topic good people support. I gave been encouraged with the recent media coverage of the issue that is presenting what I see as a more balanced narrative. For me personally I am not get ready to throw in the towel.... Just my opinion

I don't think I know that song..... perhaps you could post a short video if yourself singing it LOL.... video would be for medical use only.

I don't drink... but when I did I would have chosen Tequila.... actually Tequila Watermelon....the best drink you ever ate. Falling asleep with your lover....or.... watching your lover sleep. Additional Comments: I don't drink... but when I did I would have chosen Tequ

In a general way I kinda trust everyone until they give me a reason to not trust them. I regards to a higher level of trust I kinda think that I really start to trust someone when I have known them for awhile and their actions clearly shows me that they are honest and true. In regards to my relationship with a service providers I would not agree to see a lady without having a reasonable level of trust in them. But the unquestioned trust you with anything kind of faith is really only something that develops over time an multiple encounters.... there is one lady I see who I would trust with anything in a heartbeat... she has more integrity and character than almost anyone I know. Just my opinion

Watching Hockey on the couch in my underwear eating girkin pickles right out of the bottle.... nothing but classy here. it's no wonder the ladies are beating down my door. Lolololol

If I had thought there was an option to cone watch it with you on TV I would have not gone to the Game. :)

Just about to head home from work... been a long day but this has been a really great day the Best I have had in a Long Time and I am Very THANKFUL for that.

I will just add that forgiveness is not something you give to someone else it is a gift you give to yourself. It frees you from the pain of the issue and really has nothing to do with the the person who hurt you. Without forgiveness you continue to allow the person who hurt you to have power within your life letting it go frees you... it does not mean everything goes back to the way it was.. just that you have released yourself from the emotional baggage. Do it for you not for them.... Great idea just really hard to do. Just my opinion.

I don't get to ottawa often so I don't think I can help you on that count but I really don't see any problem with deposits for new clients.

Currently I am just about to leave for work so I have been up for a few hours... showered.... shaved... got Dresses.... checked all the CERB posts shared a few texts with an Amazing lady and will drop off her Valentines gift on my way into work. What I would like to be doing is to slip into her bed... cuddle up next to her amazing body.... put my arms around her and go to sleep.

I think it is a very hard thing to determine in advance how a particular lady might react. Certainly the idea of a retainer and asking a lady what such an arrangement might cost is not haggling from my perspective so I like Roamingguy's approach but I would be cautious with suggesting a reduced rate without a good feeling of how the lady might react. If you have been seeing this lady regularly ie weekly, then I think you would be in the best position to have a good insight into how she will react. Given the other SP posts on this thread it may be a welcome gesture that she will appreciate. The fact that you are asking might Indicate you think she might not like the idea..... or are you possibly throwing it out here in the hope she reads it and expresses an opinion (lol very sneaky of you). For me personally based only on my experience seeing a lady regularly has its own inherent benefits that have nothing to do with the rate that I pay. When I start seeing a lady I accept that the rate is reasonable for the experience she will provide me so it would never cross my mind to look for a better rate or a volume discount if I wanted more of the Amazing ladies time. For me... this would be disrespectful to the lady (lol shows what I know given the SP responses in this thread). My understanding of a retainer is that you pay an amount in advance to ensure the availability of a service provider (lawyer, Accountant, courtesan) on a consistent basis regardless of whether the service is actually used during the period. It is not a discounted hourly rate. For me your idea is more a request for a volume discount which there is nothing wrong with if both parties see it as beneficial to them. The seller hopes to make more money by encouraging a higher level of purchases and by getting the money up front while the buyer hope to achieve a reduced unit cost because of their volume purchase. Good Luck with it either way I hope you and the lady in question find an arrangement that works for both of you... after all if you and her are happy that is really all that matters. Just my Opinion

polka dot Which type of Dance you prefer... Polka or Exotic

Happy Anniversary.... always enjoy your posts and good to see another active NL her in the community

I can tell you from personal experience that there are things that people can do that make it extremely difficult to forgive. Sometimes we don't want to forgive because the pain is just to hard.... sometimes we don't want to forgive because we are too angry... and sometimes we don't want to forgive because we want to punish and hurt the other party like they have hurt us and we see forgiving them as letting them off the hook. As others in this thread have said forgiving is not forgetting it is releasing yourself from the hurt and pain of the act you are forgiving... its about you and not them. That is the wonderful truth... to forgive is to release yourself so you can move on... but while it makes perfect sense it is often an excruciating thing to do... i know... i have people in my life that I need to forgive but the reality is I can't.... its been years but I just can't. this does not make me a bad person just a person who is still healing... it's OK to give your self the time to do that...when you do the forgiveness will come. Just my opinion.

Congratulations on your first 500 I am sure it will be no time till you hit 1000.

Winter Speed Skating or Speed Fucking

First let me say that I find sitting on the Fence tends to hurt my Balls..... That said I am the type of guy who tends to have an opinion on everything and am very willingly to share it. That generally means that I often express opinions on things that in reality I have no real interest in. We learn from each other from hearing everyone's opinion on issues and as a result we may change his we feel... that's fine. I like to remind people all the time that Opinions are like ASSHOLES... Everyone has one. Share learn adapt and grow. Just my Opinion

To Groom or not to Groom that is the question. I am not looking for the lady to go to any extraordinary measures.... we will not be walking the red carpet at the Oscars... but I do expect that she will be clean and appropriately dressed to reflect the type of experience she provides... this could be jeans. Just like I am sure that the lady I am seeing will want me to have showered brushed my teeth and put on deodorant I would expect the same. Both parties should leave the impression that their time together is important and they took the time to be ready for it.

Congratulations.... you have given us a whole new way to look at the term DUO.....No wait... i like the old way much better. Thanks for all the great posts.

Going to Bed Air Canada or West Jet

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It's kinda hard to believe.... but this must be a shy group...no pictures. Additional Comments:

Just A quick update on The Hide SMS BlackBerry App... Only SMS messages get hidden any text messages with pictures attached do not App has to be left open and running to work... would be better if it ran in background i.e. Headless The App appears on your screen with the name Hide SMS visible which is not great if you are trying to hide things It should be noted that while the App name is visible you can set it up with the ability to access it using a second fake password that opens what appears to be the app with no hidden texts in it

Have you ever had one of those weeks where nothing that you do seems to come out right. Where despite your best intentions you let down the very people that you care the most about. Where you are left questioning what you are doing and thinking that something has to change. Well that's my week this week... on all fronts this has been a complete fuck up week. It's either an aberration or a sure sign that I should reevaluate what I am doing.

Yes the BlackBerry has a wide range of font sizes... my eyes however are not nearly as well equipped... but note taken I will try slightly smaller.