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Ice4fun

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  1. Basketball tickets for the St. John's Edge
  2. I am male and yes that is me in the profile pic lol
  3. I asked her if she was a LYLA member earlier today and she said she is not so I suggest that she signup hopefully she will.
  4. I was just texting with Jen asking if she ever travels to Newfoundland and she said she had not in the past but would consider visiting in March. Just noticed that she has posted a ad on LL to see if there is enough interest for the visit. If you are in St. John's hit her up we need to support any of the visiting ladies. Just my opinion
  5. This is an interesting read. It talks about medical professionals using child sex dolls to treat pedophiles but suggest that they should not be generally available to the public. https://www.google.ca/amp/s/www.nbcnews.com/mach/amp/ncna834576 and this article basicly supports the same position. One interesting note in this article is the unconfirmed report that of the 7 men charged with importing Child sex dolls in the UK 6 have also been linked to other illegal child porn. https://safeguardinghub.co.uk/child-sex-dolls-whats-your-view/ An finally this article makes the same point https://www.google.ca/amp/s/metro.co.uk/2017/08/08/child-sex-dolls-do-not-stop-paedophiles-abusing-children-say-nspcc-6829793/amp/ It appears from the reading I have done that there is a group of medical and sex treatment professional that think research into the potential of using child sex dolls needs to be done but also a consensus by these same individuals that general availability of these "dolls" is not a good idea. There will always be different opinions hand this is Just my Opinion
  6. Everyone has there own opinion. For me sexualizing children is wrong and not something we should encourage or condone in any way. We will have to agree to disagree 🙂 Just my Opinion
  7. While I am pretty good with my own research if you have some professional knowledge that would be of help to the community it might be good if you started a thread and shared it with everyone.. Cam be a resource we can refer people too. Thanks for helping out
  8. I am not really sure I understand the OP's question? If you are asking how do married people manage being involved in the lifestyle? We are careful and plan ahead. If the question is what do people do in situations where their life partner or wife is not that sexual or not meeting our needs... I guess I would agree with gogofmagog we see wonderful Lyla ladies. In fact even when our home sex lives are great ... we see wonderful Lyla ladies. Just my Opinion
  9. There will always be risks of married guys meeting someone other then their wife for sex but in my experience (30+ yrs) it's a very manageable risk. - have a plausible story in case you meet anyone you know. If it's a hotel in a small town it might be easier to explain then a house in part of town where you don't know anyone. Hotel excuses ... meeting a business associate... booking a date night as a surprise for side... eating at hotel Resturant etc. - establish a reason for being in the area of the appointment with your SO so that if she hears from someone who knows you she will not be suspicious -take a cab to the location of meeting and leave car where your spouse would expect it to be (in a really small town this could be a bigger problem if everyone knows the cab drivers) - do some research on the hotels/motels in your area there is usually a more discrete way to enter the building then through the main lobby (if locked SP might be able to let you in. - book appointments for a time that would be less suspicious. This might vary by location or individual) - if the hotel/motel has a bar or restaurant establish a pattern of going there to eat or have a drink on a regular basis so that your have a built in cover for appointments. The risk is higher in small cities but can be significant in larger cities where you think you are safer but in reality are not. I was in Ottawa once and was meeting a lady and thought it would be great to also enjoy a meal... while in the restaurant one of my wifes friends was sitting at the next table and I had to quickly come up with a cover story. After the meeting was over I called my wife like I do when traveling and made surer to mention seeing her friend while I was at dinner with an associate. There is Risk but check out all the photo albums on here and know there is also great reward. Just my Opinion
  10. I enjoy reading ladies blogs and totally agre it can help develop a brand ... in more than one case I have been enticed to make a booking by the writing of the ad or website where a pic and menu would have had me keep looking. Sex is a physical activity but the biggest joy of it is in your mind and if you can fuck your partners mind even before you are in the same room together then it will be a very very good session. My only caution would be to make sure you think through the idea from a confidentiality perspective ... by this I mean be sure that you are ok with sharing that much of yourself especially if you are not publicly known to be an SP. SHIT happens and many ladies have been outed by assholes so think a out what info you might have shared and would you be ok with it being associated with your real life persona. Just my Opinion
  11. I have used the "Seeking Arrangements" site and met a few ladies and had very enjoyable interactions with them in the situations I was involved in it was relatively the same cost as seeing and SP if you averaged it out. I think SA is a way for the members both male and female to rationalize to themselves that while they are bartering or paying for/ providing sex it's not prostitution... it's friends with benefits and they see it as more morally right... bottom line it's the same thing just less professionally done. it is also interesting to note that if you go on these sites you will see SP's using a different profile name. If you want a recommendation I would suggest sticking with an SP Just my Opinion
  12. I have travelled to most major cities in Canada and from my perspective Halifax has always hit above its weight. There are a number of wonderful local ladies and all the reputable touring ladies include Halifax if you have trouble finding a provider in Halifax then I would have to think you are extremely picky... believe me I am picky but I have never been disappointed. Halifax like all cities has seen the increased use of the Internet by scam artists and providers who are not reputable but who can post and ad and be in the business. I have found however that it is pretty easy to spot them. As for LYLA Halifax, Ottawa and NB are the most active sites and you can identify a reputable provider pretty easy ... check the recommendation sections or post a message asking about someone you might be interested in. Just my Opinion
  13. Every time Canada does not medal in the JR's everyone thinks the sky is falling ... the competition is getting better each year but Canada is still one of the hockey heavyweights and will win it's share of medals.
  14. From my perspective this is no different than child porn and should not be acceptable under any conditions.
  15. I wish I was gonna be in Ottawa on the 13th. I hope its a great event
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