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From my perspective I want to spend my time with a SP who is happy that i am there and comfortable with me so i would prefer that the SP be very honest up front... just like i am sure she would like me to be. The most successful meetings I have had with ladies is where there has been some sharing of information and interests long before we meet.. it allows for both her and I to determine if that connection is there that will make for a great time together. I would rather that the lady said no thanks then have her not enjoy her time with me as I know that will impact the quality of the session. Just my opinion

Congratulations on the 500 post milestone...keep them coming.

I had the pleasure to spend a few hours with Savannah again this week and as in the past this amazing lady far exceeded my expectations. This in itself is no small feet as I have extremely high expectations when it comes to Savannah as I have been lucky enough to meet up with this Amazing lady a number of times in the past year. From the moment this beautiful lady opens the door and you see her you will know you are a very very lucky man. Her smile makes you immediately feel at ease and welcome.... as you take her into your arms for that first hug you will feel like you are in an intimate embrace with a long time lover who has longed for your touch.....and then that initial deep passionate kiss will confirm for you that Savannah is very happy to be with you. Now stop and think..... this is just the first 60 seconds of what will be one of the most sensual, exciting and enjoyable few hours you will ever enjoy with any lady. I have said "few hours" intentionally as from my experience if you don't book multiple hours with this amazing lady you will be cursing yourself all the way home. I consider myself a very lucky man to live in St. John's so that I get the pleasure of seeing Savannah regularly.

So many good comments on this thread that I agree with. For me the one of the biggest misconception is that the business is only about SEX.... in my experience it is about companionship and friendship as much as sex. Just my opinion.

Congratulations on your 500 post milestone

Congratulations....4000 posts.... nice milestone.

I am not suggesting that this business is about anything other than business... what I am saying is that if I understand what the expectations of my partner are and I let her believe I accept those expectation then when I do something that I know goes against those expectations then I am cheating. It's not a value judgment on whether monogamy is right or wrong I believe everyone can make their own choice it is just my saying that for me...if I have let my significant other believe that I will not have sex with anyone else and I do... i have cheated and I cannot blame her for being upset only myself for not being honest enough to truly tell her how I feel about monogamy. Just my opinion....

I am anticipating meeting an amazing lady on Tuesday.... its been 4 weeks which is way way to long without seeing her.

Damn... i thought this thread was going to be about a whole different topic... so happy I don't have to explain publicly why I am so Soft. Sorry... could not help myself.

I kinda think that the Question of cheating Vs not cheating really does not have an answer that is relevant to anyone but the two people who are in a relationship. In my particular situation...i know that my wife's expectation is 100% monogamy.... it would be Stupid and dishonest of me to try to justify my actions by saying...its just a massage... or just a hand job...or its just sex... not emotional. I know what I agreed to with my wife....this is cheating. What is cheating for others would depend on what their significant others expectation was. Just my opinion.

I am still happily married to my high school sweetheart for 30+ years so I don't have a lot of relationship breakups to add to this thread.... So I guess my worst Divorce will be my first one when my wife finds out about my Hobby. While I honestly believe that this hobby has in fact saved my marriage over the last few years...i am pretty sure that will be hard to convince her if she finds out.

I kinda think there is elements of good and bad in all of us... we can be Nice one moment and then seen as not so nice by someone else. In my employment I have a fairly large number of people who work for me.... depending on the day and the decision I make I am either Nice or a Prick...perspective plays a large part. All that said... i have in my 50 plus years met a relatively small number of people who I can only say are truly NICE they are caring... compassionate people who seem to always put the needs of others ahead of their own needs. They are great parents...amazing friends and truly spiritual people..... these are the people who you meet and realize just how lucky you are to have them in your life. Just my opinion.

Watching TV (Dragons Den), surfing CERB, Chatting with an amazing Lady and looking forward to Tuesday afternoon....

London Dragons Den or Shark Tank?

Congratulations Emiafish.... 1000 posts is pretty impressive.

Happy Birthday Claire.... have a great birthday and a wonderful year.

I want someone back I need to learn how to live without them.

I thank a post when I agree with the thought or sentiment or if I disagree but the post has challenged me to look at an issue differently or consider another insight... and I thank a post when it raises an issue that I think needs to be explored or discussed. I have also thank posts I see someone being helpful..... i have only been active here for the last year but I have been pleasantly surprised about how supportive and caring this community can be. I nominate posts for all the same reasons I thank them just when they push the boundary a little further that what I think a thank will cover. Am I biased in my thanks and nominations...lololol... of course... those people in the community who I have connected with and have relationships with tend to attract my attention and I seek out their posts....i wonder how many great posts I miss..... Hey.. just my opinion.

Let's just leave it at.... "this week sucks".

Hotdog and/or Pizza at the Hockey game lolol

This morning I am sitting here trolling CERB in a warm home with electricity and heat... for most of yesterday that was not the case for me and many other Newfoundlanders... in fact a lot of people here still do not have heat. While I had access to a generator many did not and as a result had very difficult times trying to keep their loved ones warm and safe and happy. Here's to hoping the worst is behind us... but they are still saying there will be rolling blackouts today. Hmmmm so much for that HAVE PROVINCE status...lololol

What can I say.... 7000 posts is amazing... congratulations

Cristy.... Thank You for your contribution here on CERB... i have to say that I very much enjoy reading your posts... you always bring an interesting perspective and a piece of yourself in what you write. I am looking forward to the next 2000. Congratulations Additional Comments:

Congratulations on 4000 posts... keep them coming.

Well I am not willing to give up head or intercourse....that would be a revolution not a resolution. That said... my goal for this year is to happier... i know that is a very general thing but for the people here who know me well they will understand and for at least one of them I owe them thanks for helping me see that I can look forward to happier times again.