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Jabba... enjoyed reading your post and kinda accept that for lots of people maybe even the majority what you suggest may be their reality. That said that reality may not be the reality for everyone. We all come into this business for our own reasons and to meet our own needs so who knows what the possibilities can be when two people connect and what they want and need coincide... lol Yea I need the sex and intimacy but I am multidimensional so I accept that other needs that I have might also get met. Great thread.... really enjoying the diversity of opinion. Just my opinion.

Just got home from work....been snowing all day.... there is snow in the driveway..... but let's just pretend it is not there..... the power of positive thought... lololol

If this guy was booking an appointment with a SP who he thought was 16 he should go to Jail. This is exactly the type of activity that I want the Police and the Government to enforce laws about.... not new laws to restrict the sexual activity of consenting adults. Just my opinion.

I scored 14.....

Heard some negative comments on the Radio today suggesting that it was terrible that a large company like Bell was trying to capitalize on this Mental Health initiative by attaching their name to the event i.e. "Bell Let's Talk"... for me I think the opposite... it is great that Bell is lending their name, corporate presence and financial support to an initiative that is encouraging all of us to bring mental health issues out of the dark so that the stereotypes and stigma can be eliminated. I don't think any of us would have to look too far to find people we know and love who have been impacted by mental health issues yet the stigma associated with this medical condition often means we do not seek the treatment and help that is necessary. We don't think twice about seeing doctors in thus country for physical conditions but somehow for mental health issues we think we can cure ourselves. I think the"Lets Talk" initiative is a great issue and I encourage us all to open our minds to learning more about this issue.... LET'S TALK AND LET'S MAKE A DIFFERENCE. Just my opinion.

I think Nat's comparison hits the nail right on the head.... while I can accept that the intention of this action by the police may be well intentioned it is ill conceived and poorly executed. They would not take this approach with any other legal business operations.

It is encouraging to see police taking a positive approach to this industry... i just hope that Mr. Harper does the same and only legislates things that are for the safety and protection of sex workers and does not try to apply his right wing moral agenda to us.

Ok.... just so I understand this thread.... the question is....how much notice should you give an SP when you want to book an appointment with her. Hmmm interesting I always assumed the best approach was to schedule your next appointment before you leave your current appointment. lol Just kidding... in my experience a day or couple of days notice will normally meet most people's need. .. keep in mind you may often be disappointed if you leave booking till the last minute. Just my opinion.

I have met a number of SP's, a few I have met on multiple occasions and have formed what I would call a Client Friendship... we know a fair bit about each other and are very comfortable with each other..in all of these cases I would expect that this friendship would only continue to exist while I am a client and neither of us have expectation that the friendship is anything other than what it is a fully matured business relationship. Now having said that... I have, I think, formed a much deeper personal friendship with one lady I have met... in this case the lady has over time come to know more about me than many of my long term civilian friends. We have chatted and shared and supported each other over the time we have known each other and I think that "friend" part of our relationship could continue even if our business relationship ended...lol.... but to be honest the only way to know that would be to end our business relationship but...i would have to be Stupid to do that. What I have always understood about our relationship is that I would be neither a Friend or a good client if expected her to share her time or her services with me for free or at a discount So I have always tried to ensure that I never make her feel like I have taken her for granted.... my respect for her and for our friendship requires that I take responsibility for this. Are we actually friends.... i think we are... but really does it even matter... it is a relationship that adds value in my life... Fuck that's more than enough for me. Just my opinion.

My teen years were in the 70's so I have always been a huge Eagle's fan. Spent an hour this afternoon watching an Eagles Documentary on TV then listened to their music most if the evening.

Tom....I have not had the pleasure of meeting you but through your post on here I gave a real appreciation for you. The thought and humor that you bring to your posts have given me great joy... thank you for all your contributions here. Unfortunately I will not be able to make it go the CERB Social in March but I look forward to meeting at a future social... in the mean time keep up the fight and let that positive attitude and sense of humour help you when you have those tougher days. You can count on lots of positive energy coming your way from all your friends and admirers here in CERB land.

I agree 100%.... at some point you just have to step up and do it. My father used to say "at some point you have to Shit or get off the pot". Just my opinion.

I have gone on Web cam sites in the past....it can be a bit of fun and an outlet for some sexual energy but for me it has always lacked the personal connection that I need to have. That might not be the case if the Web caming was with someone who I knew or had met. I have never met a SP who also provided Web cam services maybe if I do it might be something I would do more often.

Congratulations on 1000 post.... no easy feat.

We all know Emma is correct in what she has shared. I am 53 almost 54 and I know all too well that I am not always able to get an errection.... there are as many reasons for erectile-dysfunction as there are men who experience it.... physical problems.... medical issues... mental health and stress all play a part. That said I also know that my ability to maintain or achieve an erection has nothing to do with any of the wonderful ladies I am with and I sincerely hope I have never made a lady feel like it was her responsibility to "fix" it or that my performance was in any way her responsibility. I like to think that I have been very forthcoming with this issue that "I Have" but to be 100% honest I gave come to learn either as a result of my age or my issue that companionship is about so much more than my being hard.... that great sex is mostly a mental exercise. Hey if I am wrong about this and I have been a client of yours and I have made you feel responsible or caused the time together to be difficult.... please let me know... never to old to learn. Emma... thanks for raising the issue.

I am 53... soon to be 54.... that certainly means that I don't have the stamina I used to have.... i can't pick up the wonderful ladies and amaze them with my physical prowess.... i am over weight... cranky.... and carry with me all the challenges and pain that my lifetime has given me. And yet...the Amazing women in this industry open their lives and arms to me.... allowing me to connect with them... to feel young and alive, attractive and wanted.... they help me to smile even when I continue to have huge challenges in my personal life. In return I hope I add to their life in some subtle way.... i hope my maturity and experience comes through in how I behave as a client and in some small way the mutual pleasure we have physically. Finally I will just say that as an older client I think I am a better client than I would have been 30 years ago when I am not sure I knew enough to truly appreciate the many facets of a relationship with a woman. I am pretty sure thirty years ago the sex would have been more "vigorous" but I know it would not have been as good as it is for me now. One if my favorite people on this planet Savannah Lane has a comment on her website where she says "I am over 30 years old which gives me enough experience to impress you and enough energy to outlast you" .... So True..... But also so wonderful. Just my opinion.

Not sure I have preference.... i kinda think what ever makes the lady feel the best us what is right for her and will in the long run make her feel sexy.

In my experience the serious... professional SP'S are extremely reliable in getting back to clients within reasonable time frames ie. 24 hrs. That said I think these same ladies are professional enough to also screen their contacts and if the client has disrespected things like booking requirements or means of contact or been generally inappropriate in their communications they simply ignore the contact. If I appropriately contacted a lady in a means she has requested and I gave not heard back I will follow up with a second contact a few says after that... if no reply... i rake the hint and move on. Just my opinion.

I am really glad you did post it here in public section.... knowing this happens regularly makes me think even more highly about you and the amazing SPs in this industry. This support for each other is the kind of thing that the public does not see about this industry... the compassionate human side.

That would be an eternity to me as I would see my favorite lady every week if see was available.

I am a kind of " to each their own" guy... i don't particularly appreciate Bieber's music but I appreciate that he is a very talented young man. Unfortunately I don't think being talented is an excuse for being an ass and unfortunately that is how he is acting. I understand that he is young and just like when we were young we did silly things... luckily for us we were just not followed all day by cameras. For me I would just like the media to stop reporting on all the foolishness. I hope he grows up and settles down and uses his talents to have a great career.

Natalie.... that sounds like a great idea.... unlike many of us who work in offices or have more traditional jobs where we get the opportunity to develop social relationships with our co-workers it has to be much harder to do this in the sex industry. Since joining CERB and getting to know some of the wonderful ladies in the business as friends and as their client I have to come to appreciate that while there is much good in the industry it can be a hard life when things are not going well and your circle of friends is not as well developed as you would like.

Oh the terrors of Cognitive dissonance ...... when we experience those feelings of post-purchase psychological tension or anxiety..... did we make the right choice lol... the things we do to ourselves to rob ourselves of the joy of the moment.

Wow...i really like this... it really does make me smile to think that I am in the thoughts of people who I care for and love. Additional Comments: Additional Comments: The subtle but awe-inspiring sound of the breathing of your child or loved ones. Remembering how it felt the 1st time you new born child grasped your finger in their tiny amazing hand.

A Happy Birthday Reddog... have a great day