Ice4fun

When it comes to this hobby... it appears the only "restraint" I have is the limits of my bank account.

Congratulations on 2000 posts....

Now I am all confused ..... am I a low or high volume client??? I don't see a lot of individual service providers so I guess I am low volume client.... but then again certain Ladies I see very frequently.... so does repeat volume with the same SP mean you are high volume with her but low volume to the total SP pool..... this is so confusing :) Of course this also raises the question.... if advertising as a low volume SP is a way to justify a higher hourly rate then is the converse true....high volume clients with low volume SP'S should they get a volume discount...... lolololol All in jest of course... My opinion is that volume means nothing to me... i see ladies who I have a connection with... if the relationship with the lady is good I will repeat.... if the relationship is amazing I repeat as often as I can. Just my opinion :)

Happy New Year Cato and all the rest of the wonderful people here on Cerb.. it was a pleasure to interact with all of you in 2013... and I am looking forward to much more in 2014.

As it is New Years Eve...i am watching Canada play the US in the World Jr Hockey and awaiting the arrival of my New Years Eve Party Guests..... it will be a Very Busy Evening.... only person missing will be Beautiful Savannah.

Don't think I have ever really Thought about the volume of a ladies business.... it would only matter to me if I was not able to get to see her because she us always busy. Personally I don't see a high volume of ladies but the one I do see and connect with I like go see often and the issue of not being able to see her us not usually a problem... that might be because I am a regular and she knows I want to see her. The most important issue a out volume for me for the ladies I like to see is that this is a business for them so I want their volume to be enough to meet their needs... of course this is selfish for me as I want them to continue to be here for me. I agree 100% that the main thing that impacts my wanting to see a lady is the personal connect I have with her.... like all human interaction...it is always about the Relationship.

All the Best... enjoyed your posts.

Not doing much today... just sitting at home watching TV and wishing a good friend of mine felt better.... she has been under the weather all Christmas.

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While I would love to see the negative image around this industry disappear and feel safe and comfortable with people knowing that I was a customer in the industry I am not sure it would change the amount of discussion I would have with anyone. I have been married for 30 years and my sexual life with my wife is only discussed with her. Prior to that when I dated I would never think to discuss intimate details of my dates with others. I consider my relationships that I have with the amazing ladies I have met in this hobby to be extremely personal and that the details of our meetings would not be discussed by her or I without permission. That's not just about discretion or security...it is also about respect for this amazing personal time we have spent together.... it is valuable because it is so personal and intimate.. not something I would want to share... perhaps I am just too greedy. I have from time to time written about wonderful ladies I have met... let's face it... it is their business and recommendation can be helpful. in all of these cases it is written with no private details and always with the ladies knowledge... in fact if I am writing something about a lady I will often PM them a copy before I post it. I hate the stigma of this industry but appreciate the privacy. Just my opinion.

Been there... wishing your mom and you good days.

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Never been to a Social yet and can't make the proposed March date so I am not sure my comment will matter but the name tag idea could be tied into an ice breaker activity... everyone gets assigned a random name tag when they arrive along with an ice breaker sheet that asks them to check off everyone they meet.... this icebreaker sheet would provide the icebreaker name and members Cerb handle..... everyones privacy gets protected... no Cerb names are displayed... and the icebreaker activity could have a prize that would encourage people to mingle.... for those who might be less social it would give them a reason to approach the sexy ladies. Just my opinion...i hope it is another great Social... wish I could attend.

Cristy.... Thank-you For your post... I think I see myself in your comments as I have also experienced loss in my family and know all too well that you only have today with the ones you love... so make the most of it. I really hope you and your Mom have an amazing Christmas.

I am kinda partial to Savannah's new pictures from her new ad...

The one thing on TV that immediately comes to mind from my childhood is the Black and White test pattern with the Indian Head After that.... moonlanding....Bobby Kennedy Shooting.... Get Smart... And of course the Red Skelton special each Christmas

The highlight of my day today is thinking about the Amazing date I had yesterday with Savannah Lane. I had the unbelievable pleasure of sharing great food in a wonderful restaurant with the sexist most beautiful, passionate,caring and intelligent woman I have ever met. While dining with her should be enough for any man to wish for I was also blessed with her company after dinner. I have been a very lucky man this year as I have met Savannah on numerous occasions in the last eight months and with every meeting I am constantly amazed by this wonderful lady. She is my highlight of yesterday.... the highlight of today... and in fact the highlight of my year.

A nice bottle of Alter Ego 2001 Red Wine.....

The highlight of my day has not happened yet... but in just a few minutes I will be meeting one if the most amazing people in the world for a dinner date.... it really won't get any better than that.

For a number of years I have not felt that I had a lot to look forward to... it has been a very difficult time for me and my family and to be honest I did not see my way forward....i have been very good at functioning and giving the appearance that life is good when in reality I have been very unhappy. My involvement in this hobby I think has stemmed from a desire to just get away from the real world for a few hours every now and then. Little did I know that I would meet such amazing people.... people who have helped me move forward and to start to look forward to tomorrow again. For the first time in many years I have a more positive outlook for next year. I know that many people will say of course you feel better... Great sex with beautiful women will do that for you... but in honesty it has been the character and integrity of the amazing people (one in particular) that I have met that has had the most impact. Thank You

I Need A Silent Night by Amy Grant. I like this song because it focuses on Our need for Peace

I have not yet had the pleasure of attending one of the socials...almost made it to the last one.... but I would vote for February or April. If it was in March I would prefer that it was not the week of the 20th as I know now that week will not work for me.

What Sex Toy do you want to get for Christmas...who knows maybe your secret Santa will see your post and get it for you.

The last thing I bought was a sexy Bra and panty from Victoria Secret for a beautiful lady... i can't wait to see it on her...lol... and then take it off her...lol

Right now I am smiling.... just got home from a couple of hours with a wonderful lady.... it does not get any better than this.