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We all know Emma is correct in what she has shared. I am 53 almost 54 and I know all too well that I am not always able to get an errection.... there are as many reasons for erectile-dysfunction as there are men who experience it.... physical problems.... medical issues... mental health and stress all play a part. That said I also know that my ability to maintain or achieve an erection has nothing to do with any of the wonderful ladies I am with and I sincerely hope I have never made a lady feel like it was her responsibility to "fix" it or that my performance was in any way her responsibility. I like to think that I have been very forthcoming with this issue that "I Have" but to be 100% honest I gave come to learn either as a result of my age or my issue that companionship is about so much more than my being hard.... that great sex is mostly a mental exercise. Hey if I am wrong about this and I have been a client of yours and I have made you feel responsible or caused the time together to be difficult.... please let me know... never to old to learn. Emma... thanks for raising the issue.

I am 53... soon to be 54.... that certainly means that I don't have the stamina I used to have.... i can't pick up the wonderful ladies and amaze them with my physical prowess.... i am over weight... cranky.... and carry with me all the challenges and pain that my lifetime has given me. And yet...the Amazing women in this industry open their lives and arms to me.... allowing me to connect with them... to feel young and alive, attractive and wanted.... they help me to smile even when I continue to have huge challenges in my personal life. In return I hope I add to their life in some subtle way.... i hope my maturity and experience comes through in how I behave as a client and in some small way the mutual pleasure we have physically. Finally I will just say that as an older client I think I am a better client than I would have been 30 years ago when I am not sure I knew enough to truly appreciate the many facets of a relationship with a woman. I am pretty sure thirty years ago the sex would have been more "vigorous" but I know it would not have been as good as it is for me now. One if my favorite people on this planet Savannah Lane has a comment on her website where she says "I am over 30 years old which gives me enough experience to impress you and enough energy to outlast you" .... So True..... But also so wonderful. Just my opinion.

Not sure I have preference.... i kinda think what ever makes the lady feel the best us what is right for her and will in the long run make her feel sexy.

In my experience the serious... professional SP'S are extremely reliable in getting back to clients within reasonable time frames ie. 24 hrs. That said I think these same ladies are professional enough to also screen their contacts and if the client has disrespected things like booking requirements or means of contact or been generally inappropriate in their communications they simply ignore the contact. If I appropriately contacted a lady in a means she has requested and I gave not heard back I will follow up with a second contact a few says after that... if no reply... i rake the hint and move on. Just my opinion.

I am really glad you did post it here in public section.... knowing this happens regularly makes me think even more highly about you and the amazing SPs in this industry. This support for each other is the kind of thing that the public does not see about this industry... the compassionate human side.

That would be an eternity to me as I would see my favorite lady every week if see was available.

I am a kind of " to each their own" guy... i don't particularly appreciate Bieber's music but I appreciate that he is a very talented young man. Unfortunately I don't think being talented is an excuse for being an ass and unfortunately that is how he is acting. I understand that he is young and just like when we were young we did silly things... luckily for us we were just not followed all day by cameras. For me I would just like the media to stop reporting on all the foolishness. I hope he grows up and settles down and uses his talents to have a great career.

Natalie.... that sounds like a great idea.... unlike many of us who work in offices or have more traditional jobs where we get the opportunity to develop social relationships with our co-workers it has to be much harder to do this in the sex industry. Since joining CERB and getting to know some of the wonderful ladies in the business as friends and as their client I have to come to appreciate that while there is much good in the industry it can be a hard life when things are not going well and your circle of friends is not as well developed as you would like.

Oh the terrors of Cognitive dissonance ...... when we experience those feelings of post-purchase psychological tension or anxiety..... did we make the right choice lol... the things we do to ourselves to rob ourselves of the joy of the moment.

Wow...i really like this... it really does make me smile to think that I am in the thoughts of people who I care for and love. Additional Comments: Additional Comments: The subtle but awe-inspiring sound of the breathing of your child or loved ones. Remembering how it felt the 1st time you new born child grasped your finger in their tiny amazing hand.

A Happy Birthday Reddog... have a great day

Happy Birthday Meg....have a great day.

Don't think I have ever had a half hour session so can't really comment on that time frame... i would say about 80% of my sessions are booked as 2 hours and I don't think I have ever gone into a session with the idea of MSOG on my mind. I enjoy meeting the lady chatting... the seduction...the slow but passionate time of anticipation... i have had session which have been amazing and I have not cum.... when my pleasure is dictated solely by the number of times I can cum.... i think I will give all thus up. Btw..... the responsibility for my cumming...is mine not my partners... mind you I gave never met with a wonderful lady in this business who does not do everything she can to help me. This whole topic kinda reminds me of the penny arcade... you know where you play the games and collect as many tickets as you can..... but in reality the tickets have little or no value.... let's stop collecting the tickets and just enjoy the time. Just my opinion.

As a very spiritual and religious type of guy I have found it has transferred into my exercise routine...in fact my whole body image has been determined through my spiritual approach. Those of you who have met will note my uncanny resemblance to Buddha ;). Lol Ok...ok... my only exercise is with the wonderful Savannah.

My last purchase was yesterday evening when I went out to a great restaurant with an absolutely amazing lady. While the food was excellent the companionship of this wonderful lady was unbelievable.

Happy Birthday Bobbi...have a great day.

Happy Birthday Old Dog....have a great day.

Congratulations.... I enjoy your posts.

The highlight of the day for me today was a simple "Good Morning " text from an Amazing lady.

From my perspective I want to spend my time with a SP who is happy that i am there and comfortable with me so i would prefer that the SP be very honest up front... just like i am sure she would like me to be. The most successful meetings I have had with ladies is where there has been some sharing of information and interests long before we meet.. it allows for both her and I to determine if that connection is there that will make for a great time together. I would rather that the lady said no thanks then have her not enjoy her time with me as I know that will impact the quality of the session. Just my opinion

Congratulations on the 500 post milestone...keep them coming.

I had the pleasure to spend a few hours with Savannah again this week and as in the past this amazing lady far exceeded my expectations. This in itself is no small feet as I have extremely high expectations when it comes to Savannah as I have been lucky enough to meet up with this Amazing lady a number of times in the past year. From the moment this beautiful lady opens the door and you see her you will know you are a very very lucky man. Her smile makes you immediately feel at ease and welcome.... as you take her into your arms for that first hug you will feel like you are in an intimate embrace with a long time lover who has longed for your touch.....and then that initial deep passionate kiss will confirm for you that Savannah is very happy to be with you. Now stop and think..... this is just the first 60 seconds of what will be one of the most sensual, exciting and enjoyable few hours you will ever enjoy with any lady. I have said "few hours" intentionally as from my experience if you don't book multiple hours with this amazing lady you will be cursing yourself all the way home. I consider myself a very lucky man to live in St. John's so that I get the pleasure of seeing Savannah regularly.

So many good comments on this thread that I agree with. For me the one of the biggest misconception is that the business is only about SEX.... in my experience it is about companionship and friendship as much as sex. Just my opinion.

Congratulations on your 500 post milestone

Congratulations....4000 posts.... nice milestone.