Ice4fun

I am 50 plus and have learned over the years that affairs if the heart really can't be placed in just one category... of course you need to follow your heart but your instincts, logic and intelligence need to also play a part. Love...is a complex and challenging mistress...one who will bring amazing happiness and beauty into your life but it comes with heartache, pain and loneliness all of which I accept as part if the deal.

Canada is a multicultural country and as the diversity of our population continues to change so will the traditions and values that we see as Canadian.... this is not good or bad it is just a fact. One of the things that I think has made Canada such a great country has been our willingness to Embrace difference cultures and I encourage us to continue to do just that. What we have to be careful if is the over reaction from accepting new Canadian traditions to disrespecting current traditions and values. Rather than thy to remove Christian Traditions and references in public and schools we should be looking for opportunities to welcome the new Canadian traditions. So for me it is Merry Christmas...it is what rolls off my tongue the easiest... it not disrespecting others it is respecting my traditional a Canadian.

Choir tribute to Nelson Mandela http://za.news.yahoo.com/watch--the-most-touching-mandela-tribute-came-from-the-least-expected-place-070947330.html

Have you ever used a Fleshlight? Do you own one? If so what's your impression.... does it deserve to be the top selling male sex toy? As for me... I have used one recently and was presently surprised at how good it felt... now I am pretty sure some of that pleasure was derived from the fact that there was a. extremely beautiful lady actually holding the toy....

Now as I come back to this thread and read all the posts I can only conclude that I took this topic to lightly with my previous tongue in cheek response.... Bottom line for me... we are all responsible for our own communication so think about what you do before you do it. I hate when businesses cold call me so I would be no different with a SP I have never seen. With the few ladies I have seen regularly I take it upon myself to establish a protocol for future contact. Because I am married and want that to continue I have ensured that those with who I play only have means to contact me that keep me safe. I feel the onus is on me to do that. All that said.... the ladies I regularly see have never left me with the impression that they want to put me at risk...in fact I think they are often overly protective of my privacy and their own. this issue has thankfully never been a problem for me and maybe that stems from the fact that all the ladies I meet are extraordinary professionals.

Just got home from the rink after watching the St. John's IceCaps lose...watched My Leafs beat Ottawa in a shoot out....now watching Flames and Oilers. Hey Savannah.... just for you I am cheering for the Flames :)

I crave lots of things: Left over Pizza in the morning Apple Pie and ice-cream Dill Pickles Italian food Eggo waffles Salmon Orange Juice Every morning French Fries Chowder with any type of seafood Egg Rolls Raspberries Blueberry crumble But as you can see there is one thing I crave more than the rest.

Notchjohnson you are talking madness.....of course Porn is real.... its as real as the fact that I am huge...much to big for most ladies....its as real as the fact that I am the best lover my partner has ever had.... its as real as the fact that I am not overweight because women love men with a little extra meat on their bones.....man you need to start talking sense....;)

As I read Natalie's posts in this thread all I can think is Shit I really want to kiss this beautiful lady. Natalie if you Kiss have as good as you write I too could spend an entire encounter kissing you. Lolol... but we might have to extend because if you kiss that good.....

I was reading through some old threads from last December and came across one started by SweetSami... thought given the time of the year it was appropriate to start it again. If you had just one wish for Christmas what would it be? For me my wish would be the same one I have had for many years I would want to wish that I could go back in time and stop the needless passing of someone I love very much. I would change places with her in a heartbeat.

Hmmmm I see this as somewhat problematic...with my shitty eyesight this list will have to be in big block letters and will cover most of my arm.

Well let me think.... Toothbrush toothpaste 3 travel size bottles of scope listerine breath freshner strips Hair Brush Electric Razor Nail Clippers A small cigarette lighter that I forgot to give to the lady who asked I bring one for her candles chargers for BlackBerry and ipad GPS tripple A and Double A batteries.. wink wink nothing worse than a great toy an no batteries so I am prepared for next time. As I review this list it strikes me that maybe I better make certain my wife does not take my vehicle...lololol Additional Comments: Well let me think.... Toothbrush toothpaste 3 travel size bottles of scope listerine breath freshner strips Hair Brush Electric Razor Nail Clippers A small cigarette lighter that I forgot to give to the lady who asked I bring one for her candles chargers for BlackBerry and ipad GPS tripple A and Double A batteries.. wink wink nothing worse than a great toy an no batteries so I am prepared for next time. As I review this list it strikes me that maybe I better make certain my wife does not take my vehicle...lololol

This is not a topic I ever thought I would write about....but the truth is it is certainly a reality in my life... it is something that I have come to live with and accept ... I now fully understand that an active and enjoyable sex life does not revolve around my always having a huge erection in fact I think it has made me a better partner as I now focus more on ensuring my partners needs are met. I have lived with this for the last 4 or 5 years I don't know if it is derived from my health issues or my age or from the fact that emotionally the last 6 years have been extremely difficult...most likely it is a combination of all of the above. I will say that the amazing women that I have met as part if this hobby have always made me feel great and hard or not I have always enjoyed myself. One particular lady that I see regularly (you know who you are) has truly been special both with this issue and generally with helping me see the positives in the world around me. Bottom line... life is hard enough without beating yourself up about getting hard every time. Embrace who you are and enjoy. Of course that is just my opinion.

Interesting Question that Cristy raises. It would seem that most of her concerns are addressed in the post by PistolPete which indicates that verified SP's can access private profiles through the SP only access. That said the basic premise of Cristy's question remains... should a member who chooses to keep their profile private have the right to view other members profiles. Each member has the ability to include or not include as much private details as they wish in their profile so if a person does not want to reveal and personal data just don't include it. If it is your preference to keep your profile completely private maybe it would follow that you either not have the privilege to see other people's profiles or that other members would be able to choose a setting that would restrict access to their own public profile to anyone who has a private profile.... sort of a you only see mine if you show me yours too. I kinda think this would be a much fairer approach. I fully appreciate and agree with the current SP access to private profiles but other members should also be able to see the basics of individuals who are lurking them. Now having said all that.... this is certainly not a burning issue for me.

What style and color underwear are you wearing right now. I have heard that a picture is worth a thousand words. Me.... grey boxers

Are you more of a Voyeur or an Exhibitionist... Would you rather have sex with someone watching or watch while another couple has sex? For me this is really a tough question.... I have never had sex with anyone just watching...while in theory I find the idea interesting lol I wonder if in the actual moment it would have an impact on performance...lol worry it would be negative.. hope it would be positive. Likewise I have never been just a Voyeur and watched others have sex... but this is way less risky so given the choice it would be most likely what I would choose... i know what you are thinking "chicken" lol What about you?

I am looking forward to reading many more... congrats.

The first 100 of many more to come...congrats

Wait just a minute are you trying to tell us that Porn is not real.... that it is not live action... that it is staged..... WTF....is there nothing left in the world that is true... and.... pure. I saw a Christmas thread a little further down the list that better not be saying there is no Santa Claus :)

I saw the following poem that I think sums up Nelson Mandela... Invictus Out of the night that covers me, Black as the pit from pole to pole, I thank whatever gods may be For my unconquerable soul. In the fell clutch of circumstance I have not winced nor cried aloud. Under the bludgeonings of chance My head is bloody, but unbowed. Beyond this place of wrath and tears Looms but the Horror of the shade, And yet the menace of the years Finds and shall find me unafraid. It matters not how strait the gate, How charged with punishments the scroll, I am the master of my fate: I am the captain of my soul. William Ernest Henley 1875

No poverty.... safety and security for all.... sounds too good to be true and I fear that would be the case. Would we institutionalize social welfare... would we remove any current motivation for individuals to look after their own well being. We would treat everyone the same...all getting $10,000... but us that fair... you make a million but still get 10,000. you would have to think that to do this they would make it income tested. Put me down as doubtful Additional Comments:

While not unexpected the passing of Nelson Mandela is still a significant loss for the world. This man not only transformed his country but also set an example for the world of how the determination and action if even a single man can change the world we live in. He showed us that leadership requires that the leader operate with integrity and principles. Thank you Mr. Mandela for the changes you brought to the world.

Not sure I had a favorite toy but if I had to pick.... HOT WHEELS

Eating a bowl of Captain Crunch....(and I don't really like Captain Crunch).... and contemplating a shower..... and smiling because of the amazing people who have come into my life this year. It appears that good things can happen to you whether you deserve it or not.

It seems giving within the community is not something we talk about.... lol...