Ice4fun

Is this lady a LYLA member?

While I am pretty good with my own research if you have some professional knowledge that would be of help to the community it might be good if you started a thread and shared it with everyone.. Cam be a resource we can refer people too. Thanks for helping out

I am not really sure I understand the OP's question? If you are asking how do married people manage being involved in the lifestyle? We are careful and plan ahead. If the question is what do people do in situations where their life partner or wife is not that sexual or not meeting our needs... I guess I would agree with gogofmagog we see wonderful Lyla ladies. In fact even when our home sex lives are great ... we see wonderful Lyla ladies. Just my Opinion

There will always be risks of married guys meeting someone other then their wife for sex but in my experience (30+ yrs) it's a very manageable risk. - have a plausible story in case you meet anyone you know. If it's a hotel in a small town it might be easier to explain then a house in part of town where you don't know anyone. Hotel excuses ... meeting a business associate... booking a date night as a surprise for side... eating at hotel Resturant etc. - establish a reason for being in the area of the appointment with your SO so that if she hears from someone who knows you she will not be suspicious -take a cab to the location of meeting and leave car where your spouse would expect it to be (in a really small town this could be a bigger problem if everyone knows the cab drivers) - do some research on the hotels/motels in your area there is usually a more discrete way to enter the building then through the main lobby (if locked SP might be able to let you in. - book appointments for a time that would be less suspicious. This might vary by location or individual) - if the hotel/motel has a bar or restaurant establish a pattern of going there to eat or have a drink on a regular basis so that your have a built in cover for appointments. The risk is higher in small cities but can be significant in larger cities where you think you are safer but in reality are not. I was in Ottawa once and was meeting a lady and thought it would be great to also enjoy a meal... while in the restaurant one of my wifes friends was sitting at the next table and I had to quickly come up with a cover story. After the meeting was over I called my wife like I do when traveling and made surer to mention seeing her friend while I was at dinner with an associate. There is Risk but check out all the photo albums on here and know there is also great reward. Just my Opinion

I enjoy reading ladies blogs and totally agre it can help develop a brand ... in more than one case I have been enticed to make a booking by the writing of the ad or website where a pic and menu would have had me keep looking. Sex is a physical activity but the biggest joy of it is in your mind and if you can fuck your partners mind even before you are in the same room together then it will be a very very good session. My only caution would be to make sure you think through the idea from a confidentiality perspective ... by this I mean be sure that you are ok with sharing that much of yourself especially if you are not publicly known to be an SP. SHIT happens and many ladies have been outed by assholes so think a out what info you might have shared and would you be ok with it being associated with your real life persona. Just my Opinion

I have used the "Seeking Arrangements" site and met a few ladies and had very enjoyable interactions with them in the situations I was involved in it was relatively the same cost as seeing and SP if you averaged it out. I think SA is a way for the members both male and female to rationalize to themselves that while they are bartering or paying for/ providing sex it's not prostitution... it's friends with benefits and they see it as more morally right... bottom line it's the same thing just less professionally done. it is also interesting to note that if you go on these sites you will see SP's using a different profile name. If you want a recommendation I would suggest sticking with an SP Just my Opinion

I have travelled to most major cities in Canada and from my perspective Halifax has always hit above its weight. There are a number of wonderful local ladies and all the reputable touring ladies include Halifax if you have trouble finding a provider in Halifax then I would have to think you are extremely picky... believe me I am picky but I have never been disappointed. Halifax like all cities has seen the increased use of the Internet by scam artists and providers who are not reputable but who can post and ad and be in the business. I have found however that it is pretty easy to spot them. As for LYLA Halifax, Ottawa and NB are the most active sites and you can identify a reputable provider pretty easy ... check the recommendation sections or post a message asking about someone you might be interested in. Just my Opinion

Every time Canada does not medal in the JR's everyone thinks the sky is falling ... the competition is getting better each year but Canada is still one of the hockey heavyweights and will win it's share of medals.

From my perspective this is no different than child porn and should not be acceptable under any conditions.

I wish I was gonna be in Ottawa on the 13th. I hope its a great event

It would be great to hear some input from any of the ladies who might of travelled with a client... what needs to be done to make it work.

Homework, homework, homework... the reality is there are providers out there who cannot be trusted and will take advantage of the situation and that's why it's important to do homework and see ladies with a reputable reputation. It's really no different for the ladies .. They have guys who try to cheat them or waste their time .. They also try to do appropriate screening to limit their risks. One other thing that I have noticed over the years is that in markets that are very competitive some providers will compete based on advertising below market prices and then up selling at the time of the appointment... kissing extra, touching extra, etc. In the current legal environment where selling sex is legal but buying is not it is often not wise to ask the questions you might want to especially with someone you have never met before. So I have chosen to assume that if the rate is below normal market then I assume it will actually cost more in reality. Note: just to be clear I am not suggesting that the OP or the SP in this case were dealing with below market rates. Just my Opinion

Green Book

Recently saw Green Book and thought it was great. Overview Dr Don Shirley is a world-class African-American pianist, who is about to embark on a concert tour in the Deep South in 1962. In need of a driver and protection, Shirley recruits Tony Lip, a tough-talking bouncer from an Italian-American neighbourhood in the Bronx. Despite their differences, the two men soon develop an unexpected bond while confronting racism and danger in an era of segregation.

Over the years I have had a few Rubin's with these types of operators and have always concluded that they are not worth any more off my time. I agree 100% that it's worth the risk of the guy finding out who you are and causing problems... they don't have to be in the same city for that to happen they can post your private info on website or even contact your family. This lifestyle is about enjoying time with a. Beautiful lady so just let the jerks go and forget them Just my Opinion

In my experience where there is a will there is always a way.

I think you will find that question is one best asked to individual ladies in a more private venue... Keep in mind that YMMV can have a significant impact on services offered. Just my Opinion

Federal Government security checks are done on all new employees and have to be redone after 5yrs the extend of the security check will depend on the security level needed for the employees position. For most jobs the basic level is called "enhanced reliability" (for some positions includes credit check) and if this is your sisters level I would not expect and concerns regarding your employment as long as you don't have a criminal record and you said you don't. For levels higher then enhanced reliability (secret, Top Secret) the review is more in depth and includes greater review of family etc to ascertain if these connections might increase the risk to the government. If it is a higher level that your sister seeks they my make note of your employment (which as RoamingGuy has noted is not illegal) and they may bring it to management's attention but I would think it is highly unlikely that they would refuse her clearance. Issues are often noted in security clearances but unless they are extreme (criminal record) it is normally left up to the departments managers to decide if it has any impact on the ability off the person doing the job. From what you have shared I don't think you have a problem regarding the security clearance but as others have said it would be very wise to move away from using your own name and phone number. Like RoamingGuy I worked for the federal government for 35 years and my role frequently invoked me in dealing with security issues related to employees. Just my opinion

I guess this is an example of why we need to be careful with labelling ladies as fake . Just My Opinion

It's great to see LE focus their attention on any asshole who is looking for sex with children... I would fully support this type of activity... it's certainly not entrapment they were told the age upfront.. No argument that they did not know age. They noted that most callers backed off when age was talked about and that only 47 continued. What I would like to know is if any of the men who backed off when further and reported the ad or phone number to police. If we believe the Adult industry should be legal in Canad then are have to be willing to help stop the abusive situations including underage. Just my opinion

I have to agree that it's disrespectful and will never change what a lady charges or if she will see you so it's kinda stupid thing to do with someone who has not indicated a wish to receive such pictures. Now that said I do think there are ladies in the business who encourage exchange of pictures I think as a way of making a connection and developing the client relationship. That's not saying that they enjoy seeing Dick pics but they have seen it as part of the business. Just my Opinion

There has not really been a high end lady in St. John's since Savanah Lane left.