Ice4fun

As I am not from Toronto I don't think i can comment on how good a job he has done as Mayor. My only comment would be that he appears to be a man out if control and I fear if he does not get help this could turn tragic. It is like watching a train wreck in slow motion. I could care less if he has used drugs lots of us have as for him consorting with escorts....welll the fact that I am commenting on cerb should tell you how I feel about that. I am concerned if he drinks and drives. He should seek help and get out of the public eye for a while...the longer thus goes on the worse it is for him.

I have been traveling a difficult road for a number of years and I have felt absolutely alone..... it has not been the absence of people who I love or who love me that has been the problem...i am happily married to a wonderful lady and have a supportive and loving family...but shit happens in life and as a spouse and father you often have to be strong when you feel week and are alone because you can't share your burden with those you love. To the world you are happy...when inside you are pain. I never thought that losing myself in the company of a Beautiful SP would provide me with someone who I can talk to who us supportive and non-judgemental..... wonderful ladies who help people who feel lonely.... Thank You.

I currently have only one Guilty Pleasure...and i think she knows who it is... and to be honest...lol... i don't feel very guilty about seeing her.

I can't even imagine having sex with a beautiful lady and not following it up with a Thank You. I always send a text after our meeting to say thanks....i want her to know that I enjoyed our time together and I appreciate everything she has done to make the time together amazing. Usually just a short text. As for receiving a message from her.... on a couple of occasions a wonderful lady I see regularly has sent me a message first which I loved.

To be honest I don't think there is a right answer... i am delighted when ladies share their image with me clothed or nude. i have seen many amazing nude pictures of SP's often with out showing their face. My preference would be to see their face but i fully understand the need for discretion. My favorite picture that I received from a SP who I had booked with but not yet met was a picture of this beautiful lady in jeans with her hands in her pockets and thumbs through her belt loops... a very simple picture that for some reason I really like.... no nudity.... just plain sexy. As for showing the goods and as a result guys wacking off and not booking.... if they are doing that... they were never going to book anyway. Do what ever you feel is right for you...you will never please everyone.

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For me to enjoy my time with her it is very important that she also enjoy the encounter. I appreciate that when I am with a SP that it may not always be that emotional connection that makes for mind blowing orgasms... but that does not mean that I should not be interested in what she enjoys... what brings her pleasure... to be very frank in my experience if the person you are with is happy and knows that you are interested in her experience then it usually means better sex all the way around....so is it the gentleman who ensures his partner cums first or the greedy bastard who knows that her cumming is directly linked to his own pleasure.

I guess if i was honest... i would say No. I have many great things in my life... wonderful wife... amazing children... financially secure but while they bring great joy to me I still live in the shadow of grief.... Time is making a difference but I am afraid it remains a constant in my life.

I have had a few ladies that I have seen more than once and I think that in most of the cases it is the great sex with a person who I have connected with and felt comfortable. I have only had one lady who I think i would classify myself as a regular... in that case it was way more than the sex (but that is always great too) she is someone who I connected well with even before our first face to face and who I have a level of trust and companionship with that is amazing...someone said it earlier in this thread but this lady actually know more about me and what's happening in my life than people I have know for years... we really connect and i enjoy every minute in her company.

It means what it should mean...you are paying for your companions time not a license to Rape and Pillage... just like in the real world she gets to decide what is appropriate for that visit. In my experience this is not a bad thing as SP's get into the business with open eyes. As for us guys...we can impact just what are mileage will be by being respectful....clean... sober....on time...and truly appreciating the wonderful lady we have chosen to meet.

The stupidest thing I have done recently is let my wife use my phone without noticing that CERB was still open on the browser.... luckily she is not very tech savy so I dodged a bullet.... note to all clear the history on your phones browser. l

Definitely savor the moment.....nothing better than holding her in your arms and chatting after. In theory this is a prelude to a round two but in practice lol... sometimes all there is...is round one. The mind may be willing but the body may not be.

I never knew it was possible to have a too wet pussy....and i assume I have done something right if the bed gets wet.

One of many memorable moments involving this beautiful lady.

My secret addiction knows who she is...lol...

Looking at pictures of my favorite SP and wishing I could see here this week.

I rely on the SP's I have met to keep any personal information about me confidential so I assume that this will only happen if I respect their boundaries. On occasion I have been contacted here on CERB with requests for information on ladies I have met... when I am contacted I normally contact the lady and tell them about the request and ask them what they would like me to pass along...if anything. As for providing info to friends about SP's. .. well to be honest none of my friends know about this aspect of my life.

BBM is by far the best chat App available. Based on the 20 million plus downloads made in its 1st week of availability I suspect it will continue to be a success. That said I am not sure it will be widely used by SP's or hobiests as people will need to add them to their contacts and for most of us we would not want to have our spouses stumble across the contact... i phone number in your text can be explained a contact is a little harder. If BlackBerry was smart they would have a way to hide or lock private contacts.

As with most things that people don't understand I think there is a tendency to stereotype... while things are changing slowly society has looked down on sex workers and the services they provide so I guess it is understandable that many would continue to think there is something wrong with clients. I think like most things there is as many reasons why men seek out the companionship of a service provider as there are men. For my part I am just a regular guy ... involved in my community... great job... wonderful family... my initial involvement I think came from purely the excitement of sex with someone new after 20 plus years if marriage but what I came to appreciate especially in the last year is the wonderful caring relationship that can develop with your service provider... it is not constrained by all the real life realities that inhabit us in our civilian lives... it can give you a level if intimacy that is amazing because both people are truly living in the moment they are sharing. Early in this thread someone mentioned the lying in bed holding a beautiful woman's hand and I think they were right it is about those moments and the nonjudgmental conversations as much as it is about the great sex. I think people need to understand that the clients in this industry are just regular people who come with their own reasons and needs... some want the great or different sex...some want the companionship... some want or need a distraction from things in their everyday life. Some are at a point in their life where they need a friend. Hey but what do i really know...lol...i am only one client who strongly feels that my involvement in this industry has been very positive for me. So i guess what I would tell you to tell them about clients is we are a bunch of really happy regular people... so if your dad or brother or husband seems really happy the 3rd Monday of each month....it might be them.

I have had the pleasure to meet Clarissa on a couple of occasions and would highly recommend her. From the moment I walked into the room with her I felt welcomed and appreciated. Clarissa is a petite sexy lady with an amazing body and a desire to ensure that you enjoy every minute in her presence. Clarissa is engaging and funny and treats you like you are the only man in the world. It is very obvious that she know what she is doing and enjoys her time with you. I guarantee you that once you have met her you will want to see her again.

She is an amazing sexy lady....funny, engaging, discrete, generous and an absolute blast to spend time with.... i would recommend her in a heartbeat.

I kinda think i might be considered a time waster by some SP'S but i think i am probably just high maintenance as a client. If i contact a new SP it is usually with the intention of booking so I don't waste her time in that regards but i do tend to message SP'S who I meet regularly as I enjoy staying in contact. I have justified this in my own mind by saying that it us ok because I see the person frequently...but who knows what they think. This thread has given me food for thought...thanks for starting it. if you are a SP who I have met...and i was a time waster for you...feel free to drop me a PM with the feedback.

Sometimes in life you just get lucky... That is how i feel about meeting Ms. Savannah Lane. Over the last 3 weeks i have had the pleasure to be in Savannah's company twice the first time for an hour and a half and the second for two hours. On both occasions i left her feeling extremely relaxed and satisfied but knowing that i had to see her again. When I first stumbled across her ad on the NLAdultclassified website I have to admit I thought it was another of the many well written SP ads that promises more than just great sex... "an experience" I read how she wanted to connect with her clients before and after the appointments and thought boy she certainly knows how to sell it ...but being the sucker i am for a beautiful woman...and a bit of a pervert.. I sent her a text. That first text started a back and forth chat over a couple of days that made me all the more interested n meeting this wonderful lady... so we agreed on meeting date a few days later (unfortunately for us guys she is only available on Fridays and Mondays). Each day in between we chatted and she sent me some wonderful pictures that made me even more interested in meeting her. For our first meeting we agreed to meet for a half hour coffee meeting just to see if we wanted to take this further, On the way to the meeting she texted my a beautiful pic of what she was wearing but when she opened the hotel room door... wow the pictures did not do her justice.... tall sexy and inviting. We hugged and kissed and I just knew this was going to be a great afternoon. We sat and chatted ...she is not only beautiful but articulate and smart in no time I felt like I was with a friend i had known for ever... only difference was she was drop dead gorgeous. We quickly extended our time and moved to the bed.... while i was already impressed by this lady... all I can say is that once we were on the bed... she quickly showed me that she knew her body and exactly how to make a man feel the passion and intensity that she brings to her time with you. Before I knew it our time was up but i knew that i would have to see this wonderful lady again so we scheduled a second longer meeting for the next week. Each day for the next week we chatted and shared pictures... this lady is not kidding when she says she wants to have a relationship with her clients .. and that by connecting with them it intensifies the time they spend together. Our second meeting was even more exciting and enjoyable then the first and I look forward our next meeting in 2 weeks. This lady is exactly what she says in her ads... Passionate, Intense... seductive...with a body that just wonderful... you will enjoy every minute in her presence. She truly is a BREATH of fresh air.

Without a doubt.. Barbs is the best Strip club in Ottawa

I go to Barbs every time I am in Ottawa... find it great. I have even been lucky enough to have a few of the ladies join me after hours for some drinks.