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Alexx Alexx ... I think the best way for you to get the best advice is to start a Canada wide tour with the first stop in St. JohnKs NL. 😉 hey a guy can dream

I was just wondering if many people in here are involved in the Swinging community.. I find it hard to believe that people who are sexually active in this industry would not also be interested in connecting with singles and couples for sex too... Or an I alone in that interest )

When I joined Lyla (CERB at the time) it was hard to actually stay current with all the discussions and there were way more people online everyday. At that time there seemed to a higher degree of interaction with ladies which was great. I totally understand that for the ladies this is a business and they need to put their time and energies where it pay the best return for them and let's face it twitter and other social media have moved people away from all kinds of discussion sites. Whenever I meet with someone who is not on Lyla I always tell them about the site but let's face it if they come here and it does not result in business then it's not gonna stick. I wonder if we would be wise to actually open the site up for other discussion opportunities like swinging opportunities etc. The legislation change a few years ago changed the discussions an a lot of people left here.... I hope as some people have said they are starting to return. Just my opinion

I understand that the industry is about sex but frankly the best sex I have ever had was when I was not as focused on the actual sex. For most of my meetings over the years I have booked 2hrs ... no rush.. Great opportunity for companionship and connection.. And in some cases we never even got to actual penetration. 90% of sex for me is in the mind... if you get mindfucked it was great sex lol Just my opinion

I hear you and it can be frustrating but I often remind myself that this is a business and for ladies who tour it can be a real gamble. I have know very reputable ladies who have gone to a city and gotten no booking or repeated no shows or just broke even.... I imagine being on the road and not making any money can be very difficult so I have some understanding why ladies share a room to reduce risk. If I am reading your post correctly you booked 25 mins in advance and we're late getting there and there was some waiting and interaction with other clients. It sounds like it could be managed a little better but if the service was good and the lady as expected. Let's assume for a minute that the second lady gets has a booking that wants to come earlier but is put off till later because her partner already had a booking and then you text that your running late... the 2nd booking is early and you are late so the two ladies try to make the very best of the situation. You waited 27 mins (which I assume was a total of about 1hr from when you made the booking and the second client got in a few minutes early. I can live with that if it means ladies take the risk to travel. Just my opinion.

Saw this on Twitter and immediately thought NotchJohnson would approve

I think CMJ is in Ottawa?

I agree if we want to have interactions on here with the lovely ladies of LYLA I think it serves us well to be respectful.

The OP is probably not going to answer as they are a banned user.

Great advice from Roamingguy I always like it when a lady has a website but have recently found that many ladies are not maintaining the sites and instead are utilizing Twitter, Facebook and Instagram to provide more current interactive experience. In my experience I was attracted to a lady in one of two ways ... 1. Saw picture and said OMG 2. The wording of her Ads or post on social media caught my attention. In your case the pictures you have posted clearly made me go OMG as you are extremely attractive. Now I am looking forward to learning more about your personality though your active engagement on here. I have found that the reduction in interaction on here is a great loss to the Board so I encourage you and all the ladies to invest in some chatting with us on here. While I enjoy the banter between us gentlemen and use the site to check ads for my area let's face it guys come here too find out about you ladies. Just my opinion

Actively looking for someone I can meet up with on short notice today.

Like everything in life the more planning and research you do the more likely it will be successful. I have not found that the reputable ladies make it very hard to tell what the tone of the meeting will be like. Both you and the lady have a vested interest in the meeting going smoothly. If you are respectful of the lady and her booking protocols then I find I also get all the info I need. In the unlikely event that the meeting does not go as smoothly as either party had hoped I am pretty sure I would not have any interest in staying any longer then necessary. I would just leave and chalk it up to experience. Rarely in life do you find yourself in a really good place without having had a few bumps along the road. Just my opinion

Check out the twitter followers of a bunch of the lyla ladies especially any that travel south

I think there is a lot of usage of Twitter and Instagram

Most new phones now have a built in private browser for operating in incognito mode leaving no trace on the phone of sites visited. That's what I use for all my industry related and private surfing. In regards to pictures and adult content I download or save.. That is all on my phones SD card which I switch out when I travel. While the search without consent or reasonable cause is kinda scary I would expect that plain adult content that does not cross any social norms (child porn etc) is not gonna raise any issues for most people unless they have other reasons to suspect you. Just my opinion

I hear you Katherine... it seems to me that at least in St. John's the market for upscale reputable ladies has diminished. I may be wrong but I think there are several reasons behind this: 1. The passing of the new legislation a couple of years ago pushed a number of clients out of the market or at least reduced their willingness to seek out new ladies. I think some of this "interest" shifted to "sugar" sites and to swinger and dating sites. 2. The loss of Backpage and Craigslist had the effect at least in St. John's of pushing everyone to NLADULT to the point where most of the posts on the site are pure bullshit. You are wading through post after post looking for someone reputable and I thinks people just said enough. 3. The overall market in St, John's has been dragged down by ladies offering services for prices that should scare people away but don't it seems. It appears to me that many of these ladies are struggling with drug, mental health and financial issues and while I respect the right of a lady to make decisions for themselves and set rates that are right for themselves these rates of FS for less than 100 is a sign of a problem not an opportunity. Unfortunately the availability at this end of the market has decreased demand for reputable ladies making regular travel here not really financially viable. Who wants to spend a week travelling to break even or make a couple hundred. 4. For a number of years there were a handful of reputable local ladies here in St. John's and I think that was good for the market. I will say since I returned to Lyla I have been pleasantly surprised to see that there are a few local ladies here again. 5. For many years the Massage situation here in St. John's was desperate and the locations were dumps however currently there are a couple of much better operations with excellent ladies. Additionally services provided at the parlours are now much less conservative. So unfortunately we have a small base of active guys here in the city who are willing to recognize the value of encouraging great ladies to visit but while we beg ladies to come we don't support them well enough while they are here to make it worth their while. I am hoping that the situation will improve again here in the city. Just my opinion

I am not sure this is something that is race specific.

If the OPer did not immediately contact Ms Manda he is an idiot LOL

Before I became active in this industry I thought I had a certain type of lady a certain look but what I have found is that diversity is really the way to go ... I have learner that it is less about how a lady looks and more about how they feel about themselves ... if they feel sexy and beautiful it shows. Just my Opinion

I am not giving the OP any credibility .. I am just engaging others in conversation. The OP's initial post was bull shit but I can tell you that if I go on the ad sites for here in NL I will see lot of unrealistically low rates quoted ... some reflect individuals who are truly in a difficult spot and others are copycats that advertise low prices but you need to realize at the end of the day that is not what the customer will pay. It's a part of this industry that does not interest me but is a reality that you see every day. I enjoy exploring the ideas and the dialogue that develops from what might have initially been a ridiculous OP. Just my opinion

I like it when I can review a ladies website before contacting her it has for me always been one element I considered when it was someone new as it added some legitimacy. That said some of the need for the websites has disappeared with the increased usage of social media in the industry especially Twitter but also Facebook and Instagram. These new venues give you a much better insight into someone you are considering seeing then a static website. I know many of the ladies hate that clients don't read their sites or ads and then contact them and ask questions that were clearly answered on the site. I am gonna suggest that some of that is simply guys making conversation as a way of getting a feel for the lady... yes I know they're are better ways lol Unfortunately the guy who calls is only thinking about his one call or text or email where the lady faces it from many many many potential clients. My experience has taught me that in the first interaction with most ladies you will get a better reaction if your communication is more about yourself and your interest (not sexual acts) then rates etc. Some self deprecating humour can often start the conversation on a lighter note. Just my opinion

There is some truth in what you are saying... in my experience if a price is too good to be true there is a reason... the hourly rates is good but it's what is not included that will cost you more... the upsell starts as soon as the door opens. Just my opinion

Did you hear anything back on your question?

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I would agree it is most likely a phishing scam and they have been very commonly used by hackers because the LinkedIn social platform is seen by many as the most secure social media platform so it is hoped by hackers that they will get more people to accept email and click the link LinkedIn Phishing scams