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I think I have been having the wrong breakfast ...

Lucky You

And the cold shower together after can also be great fun...

I could only imagine that rushing to get MSOG would only ruin wha could be a great time. Frankly in my experience getting there is way more than half the fun. Taking the time to slowly become familiar with every inch of a beautiful woman's body is never something to be rushed. Slow and deliberate with attention to detail is important... what makes the back arch when you touch it... what causes her breathing Patten to change.... What is that unique yet special sound she makes at that perfect moment... Sometimes once done right can be way better than multiple shots Just my opinion

I see you are in Dartmouth... I know that MsManda sees couples so she might also see female customers

You are exactly right everyone takes from the situation what that want too. But what truly befuddled me is the fact that a guy can get turned off on the idea that there was a previous client???! Given the nature of this business it should be logical to assume that there are many other clients and if that's a problem maybe this is not the lifestyle for you. It is clearly unrealistic to assume that a lady puts up an ad or travels to another city "Just For You" this is her business so of course there are other clients. My only expectation is that both I and the lady have excellent hygiene and that while I am with her I will have no doubt that based on the way she treats me I am the the centre of her attention and she is my centre of attention. As for MsManda herself if you ever meet her you will know immediately that her hygiene is impeccable and that if any of your attention is focused on whither the show is wet or dry then you are clearly approaching this from the wrong perspective. If you think she is hot in her pictures just wait till you actually see her. Just my Opinion

If it feels transactional I am probably not repeating because the chemistry was not there..

Well at least any repeated bumping

Well regardless if I am a ladies beset client or not my approach will always be to treat the lady with the utmost Respect. I have learner that when the lady appreciates how you treat her The likelihood that she will treat me good is exponentially higher. You can have a situation where things go wrong and maybe it's your fault or hers who cares deal with it as positively as you can. I would have to think that most successful ladies in this building have more than 1 Best client or like the rest of the fantasy associated with the industry more than one should leave feeling like they are the #1 Just my opinion

Of course a lady and a gentleman should shower before a meeting and I think any reputable lady does that automatically. That said I am not sure that a dry shower means anything more than the shower is dry... there may have been no previous client and the lady had cleaned up and dried out shower in the hours previous. Just my opinion

In my experience the majority of swinging is not large group but couples looking for a second couple or a threesome ie mfmf mmf ffm

Alexx Alexx ... I think the best way for you to get the best advice is to start a Canada wide tour with the first stop in St. JohnKs NL. 😉 hey a guy can dream

I was just wondering if many people in here are involved in the Swinging community.. I find it hard to believe that people who are sexually active in this industry would not also be interested in connecting with singles and couples for sex too... Or an I alone in that interest )

When I joined Lyla (CERB at the time) it was hard to actually stay current with all the discussions and there were way more people online everyday. At that time there seemed to a higher degree of interaction with ladies which was great. I totally understand that for the ladies this is a business and they need to put their time and energies where it pay the best return for them and let's face it twitter and other social media have moved people away from all kinds of discussion sites. Whenever I meet with someone who is not on Lyla I always tell them about the site but let's face it if they come here and it does not result in business then it's not gonna stick. I wonder if we would be wise to actually open the site up for other discussion opportunities like swinging opportunities etc. The legislation change a few years ago changed the discussions an a lot of people left here.... I hope as some people have said they are starting to return. Just my opinion

I understand that the industry is about sex but frankly the best sex I have ever had was when I was not as focused on the actual sex. For most of my meetings over the years I have booked 2hrs ... no rush.. Great opportunity for companionship and connection.. And in some cases we never even got to actual penetration. 90% of sex for me is in the mind... if you get mindfucked it was great sex lol Just my opinion

I hear you and it can be frustrating but I often remind myself that this is a business and for ladies who tour it can be a real gamble. I have know very reputable ladies who have gone to a city and gotten no booking or repeated no shows or just broke even.... I imagine being on the road and not making any money can be very difficult so I have some understanding why ladies share a room to reduce risk. If I am reading your post correctly you booked 25 mins in advance and we're late getting there and there was some waiting and interaction with other clients. It sounds like it could be managed a little better but if the service was good and the lady as expected. Let's assume for a minute that the second lady gets has a booking that wants to come earlier but is put off till later because her partner already had a booking and then you text that your running late... the 2nd booking is early and you are late so the two ladies try to make the very best of the situation. You waited 27 mins (which I assume was a total of about 1hr from when you made the booking and the second client got in a few minutes early. I can live with that if it means ladies take the risk to travel. Just my opinion.

Saw this on Twitter and immediately thought NotchJohnson would approve

I think CMJ is in Ottawa?

I agree if we want to have interactions on here with the lovely ladies of LYLA I think it serves us well to be respectful.

The OP is probably not going to answer as they are a banned user.

Great advice from Roamingguy I always like it when a lady has a website but have recently found that many ladies are not maintaining the sites and instead are utilizing Twitter, Facebook and Instagram to provide more current interactive experience. In my experience I was attracted to a lady in one of two ways ... 1. Saw picture and said OMG 2. The wording of her Ads or post on social media caught my attention. In your case the pictures you have posted clearly made me go OMG as you are extremely attractive. Now I am looking forward to learning more about your personality though your active engagement on here. I have found that the reduction in interaction on here is a great loss to the Board so I encourage you and all the ladies to invest in some chatting with us on here. While I enjoy the banter between us gentlemen and use the site to check ads for my area let's face it guys come here too find out about you ladies. Just my opinion

Actively looking for someone I can meet up with on short notice today.

Like everything in life the more planning and research you do the more likely it will be successful. I have not found that the reputable ladies make it very hard to tell what the tone of the meeting will be like. Both you and the lady have a vested interest in the meeting going smoothly. If you are respectful of the lady and her booking protocols then I find I also get all the info I need. In the unlikely event that the meeting does not go as smoothly as either party had hoped I am pretty sure I would not have any interest in staying any longer then necessary. I would just leave and chalk it up to experience. Rarely in life do you find yourself in a really good place without having had a few bumps along the road. Just my opinion

Check out the twitter followers of a bunch of the lyla ladies especially any that travel south

I think there is a lot of usage of Twitter and Instagram