Ice4fun

Watching the Penguins play Lightning

I kinda feel it's fine to keep sentimental objects if you have the space for them... they may not actually get your attention all that often but they have an amazing power to transport you to other times that contain powerful memories for you. I have learned in the last few years that things that were simple silly sentimental trinkets can become the lasting connection that you can have with people who are no longer in your life... I have things from my daughter that just the very sight of can help me get through the day. So hey if you want them keep them.

I am not so sure that the drop off in activity here is attributable to people changing their habits because of the new law... I think the impacts of the law on this site has been more driven by how the rules around what we can or cannot say have been imposed. I totally get that at the start of all this the owners of this site needed to protect themselves so they acted to ensure their risk was managed and I assume they continue to do that and you know what that is certainly their right... I am just suggesting that these new rules have dramatically impacted the discussion here. Let face it this is a site about sex and the business of sex yet we can't actually talk about sex. This restriction on speech has made the discussion way less interesting so clients have less interest in hanging out and participating and frankly the strict application of the rules by the MOD (just doing his job) has resulted in the suspension or banning of a number of ladies who in the past tended to... lets say invigorate the discussion. So i think it's fair to suggest that the fear of the impact of being suspended has caused many to step back and if the ladies are not engaging then us guys quickly lose interest... we might come in and check the ads but we don't contribute like we used to. In regards to the way we treat each other and the impact that might be having ...I have been a member of this board for over 5 years now for most of that time I lurked in the background and listened and learned.. in fact learned a great deal. About 3 years ago I decided to become more active and up to recently I have tended to post regularly ... Now given the fact that I tend to have an opinion on everything some might suggest that I was too active and a little less opinion from Ice4Fun might be a good thing.... and that may be fair and they are certainly entitled to their opinion too. My approach has always been you post something people are free to agree or disagree ... comment on it or ignore it... kinda like if Ice4fun's posts bug you then don't read them or if you disagree with me I am fine with you telling me that publicly in the thread or in a PM if that would be more appropriate. This should be an open forum with a few restriction put in place by council and the Mod so that everyone's voice is open to be heard but perhaps we just need to hear more voices. I have found this site to be a great place to do research and to learn.. to chat .. and of course to meet amazing people and not just all the wonderful sexy ladies but people like Tom (the Liquor) who significantly impacted me with the way he approached the issues in his life. This board has been and I think still is a very valuable resource that we should all cherish and protect but we should also all realize that its open nature and welcoming atmosphere is not a given and if WE the members don't stand up for its values then it can be lost. It certainly would appear to me that since the new laws were enacted that the volume of posts have declined ... there are less unique threads and we are seeing a smaller group of voices being heard (mine certainly being one of that smaller group) and I am not sure that is a good thing. Now it might be that we still have lots of active members just more are choosing to lurk because of the new law or it could also be that many members, both new and old, have chosen not to post because they have seen how a poorly worded post or an ill-informed comment can result in their being beaten up in post after post by some members either intentionally or unintentionally and sometimes because they have a personal grudge to advance and now see an opportunity. For an industry that has amazed me by the individual tolerance levels for diversity that its members demonstrate each day I have been somewhat shocked by the lack of tolerance for diversity of opinion that we as a group often show here in our posts. I said WE because i have taken some time over the last couple of days to review a number of my posts and have seen occurrences when my eagerness to post "my opinion" has meant that I have not always considered how the wording of my comments might be perceived by other on the board with different opinions. This is something I will have to work on personally and I am certainly open to encouraging any member who takes offense to one of my posts to call me on it ... pop me a PM ..if I screwed up I will be happy to reflect and correct it. Many regular members on this board have had a good chuckle at me over the last couple of years because on a couple of occasions I have gotten frustrated by some of the drama that I see here on the site and walked away only to return a month or so later... what can I say in my real life I am not much of a quitter so why be one here but I wonder how many people have just walked away or regressed into the shadows restricting their posts to the fun and silly threads because they feel if they express a real opinion the self appointed site police come out and bully them into silence. Lets face it the ladies on this site use it to generate income so they can't afford to get into a pissing match with others members and risk being baned or suspended so I think we are seeing lots of ladies who are biting their tongue and putting up with it to avoid drama... so they just place their ads... make a few frivolous posts and stay out of the Drama... Somehow that type of atmosphere is not what I think we the members wanted or expected as this is after all the friendly community. Just my Opinion

Congratulations... keep them coming

It has been a family weekend... weather was great here in St. John's so we got some work done in the garden and some work done on some rentals we own. Mixed in with that was watching The world Hockey Championship which Canada won. Foodwise... great steaks on the BBQ was the order of the day

I don't really have a place that I consider my slice of heaven but I know that when I am able to reconnect with my daughter who I lost a number of years ago through participating in activities that I know would be near and dear to her heart then I feel closest to heaven.

Sound l a great night of wonderful things in your mouth for you to swallow.... just saying

No I am pretty sure I want her to have a hand (or a mouth) I the making of the mess :)

It's your basic Asian Massage Spa with the basic services you would expect.

Well I don't know what everyone else things but if I have you naked in my house I seriously doubt my thought will be about having you do the house cleaning... mind you that said it can be very nice if a lady cleans up any "mess" she might make :P

Well the only province I have not visited is Saskatchewan so for me it would be a great roadtrip plan.

Watching the Blues and Sharks game and checking my schedule for July..

BBQed Beef Tenderloin...

I am late to th topic as I have been away from the board for a while but I have to admit this thread made me stop and think... I have had experiences with Transgendered ladies an enjoyed them immensely but in all of those cases I was aware upfront that I was meeting someone who was trans and had not undergone a complete gender reassignment surgery... some have indicated that was their goal other indicated that they were happy as they currently were which in my situations have all been Male to Female. In these circumstances where I was looking for an encounter with a Trans lady I was of course very happy that they had disclosed this in their ads. But I had to stop and think what if I had been booking to see a lady whose advertisement attracted me and upon meeting I discovered the person was trans either fully transitioned or not. Well I think if I was expecting an encounter with a lady and envisioned that our game of tiddlewinks would include all the generally accepted body parts associated with a male female game of tiddlewinks and was surprised to find that was not the case I think I would have expected to this would have been disclosed in the booking process. However if all the body parts were accounted for regardless if "God given" or "assisted by man" then I don't think I would care. Just my Opinion

I am learning later in my life than I would have thought that there are lots of things about our existence that really suck and as the title to this thread says "not in a good way"... throughout my life I have generally been a very positive person always looking for the good that can come out of any situation and while I still like to tell myself that is the truth I do in fact find myself more and more in a foul mood about my life. I have often heard it said that in the tough times in your life you find out who your true friends are... and you know finding that out more recently in my own life really sucks

All the best in the future... your input will be greatly missed. It's been interesting to note that over the last short while we have lost a few long time prolific contributors and with each of these loses I think the community loses some of its diversity.

My next major purchase will be more life insurance...

I am always open to new ideas... but before we run off and change the thread name to "Commando" I think we would need to do our due diligence and require a proof of the actually veracity of the claim.... like they say a picture is worth a thousand words...lolol Yes... I know you all see through this feeble attempt at getting naked pictures of people but I have never claimed to be anything other than a pervert :)

I totally understand how that happened... there are just some things that when you see them you just lick your lips (or theirs) and say that I have to taste.... But I guess I understand your point .... I mean as a child we grow up with Disney story book images of animals that we later enjoy eating... I mean if your image of rabbits was from Disney's Thumper or maybe the Velveteen Rabbit it's unlikely that at the sighting of a real wild rabbit that you gonna think hmmmm can't wait to get my mouth on that.... yet while not a big fan of game animals I have in fact recently had a strong desire to eat some rabbit... I guess my Disney days are over :)

In my opinion it is pretty unlikely that the current government will do anything with the existing law until it is either challenged in the courts or it legality is questioned by the courts as part of their administration of the law. The reality is governments do thinks that will reflect well on their popularity and controversial issues like Prostitution are unlikely to help them. I agree that the majority of Canadians are probably not against legalizing prostitution but so what very few of them would see this as an important issue and certainly not an issue that drives political action. So I don't expect much from the government but I hope they prove m wrong. Just my opinion

The easy answer for me would be for the lady to wear whatever she feels sexy in... I Want the lady to feel sexy and confident about herself because in my opinion that is very likely to have a direct impact on our time together. I have often been asked by ladies what I would like them to wear and frankly I have always thought that they know best what fits their body and what they feel good in so I ask them to choose. Lol and let's face it we turn up at their place and they are their sexy... Beautiful and eager to welcome us is it really possible that they could be wearing the wrong thing Just my Opinion

Turkey was on the menu but I actually did not eat very much it was good but too much happening in life to eat today.

Steak for a family celebration on Sunday

Happy belated Birthday Lilly I hope you had a great day

Leaving a message for a good friend to remind them of something important....