Ice4fun

In my experience if my booking with a lady fall through and I can't book with someone on short notice I never tend to go home empty handed in fact quite the opposite it means I have to take things directly in my own hands lolol it means I go to my Plan C I have a booking with the "Palm Sisters" Lol Sorry... just kidding I get your point Luckyme.

I agree with Grass_Hopper the more information you give the lady in your opening request the smoother the conversation will go... if your request is last minute and time sensitive then tell her and that way if she is busy or not working the day of your request she will realize this when she does read your text and act accordingly.. ladies tend to get lots and lots of messages and only a small portion turn into bookings so keep that in mind. And you know sometimes even the most amazing lady can be having a bad day and may reply inappropriately lol let's face it we have all been there. Just my Opinion

Well from my perspective your proposition is that a difference in height between a client and a lady could be a vertical challenge when in my experience that obvious outcome is a very fun and entertaining Horizontal solution. I am 6 ft tall and have seen tall and short ladies with great success (well in my opinion anyway... lol... they might have a different opinion). Of course when you are engaged in a rigorous game of.... Let's say tiddlewinks then you always have to think about angles and body position so as to best tiddle your wink. I have found that careful selection and usage of common things found in the game play area can make the world of difference... A well place pillow.... the selection of the perfect height table, bench or counter top... can make the world of difference .... bending at the knees when you manipulate the wink can have a wonderful impact allowing you to play to a level that will leave the person you are playing with either speechless or perhaps screaming at you for your extraordinary game play. One final suggestion that I have learned over the years of playing tiddlewinks and that is that proximity to the wink is extremely important in many cases you will find that great success can be had when you position yourself with your face adjacent to the wink so close in fact that you are breathing on it... this can be accomplished by ensuring your playing area is large and flat ( a bed is a great option) so that you can lie down and get your face up close to the wink so you can explore all the various playing angles.... this game of tiddlewinks is all about the details and if you take the time to do the hands on exploration needed I guarantee you it will drive the person you are playing with crazy. Hey but what do I know... I don't play professionally but I do like to wet my whistle from time to time. Just my Opinion

I kind of fall in the shit happens camp so i think you need to be able to roll with the punches. I have been doing this now for well over 20 years and yes I have had cancellations by me and cancellations by ladies but in my experience it is very very rare for this to happen without some communication from the lady. I know on a few occasions I have been lied to by ladies (this is a very small community and just like the ladies talk so to do clients) but I decided a long time ago to not not spend too much time worrying about things I can't control... if she is a no call no show I do the same thing I would expect her to do... Don't book with the person any more and move on with life. In an ideal world every Client and every SP would act with 100% integrity and trust and honest would not be a problem but this is the real world not Disney World so we have to be realistic and expect that there will be Unreliable Clients and SP's... of course we should encourage good communication and not condone a*sshole behavior like NCNS but let's not over react when it actually happens. In my experience the best way for us guys to reduce the level of occurrence of type of behavior is to try and stick to well established well known ladies who have spent considerable time building a reputation for service in this industry...(side note and a reference to another recent thread on SP rates ... this is one of the things you are likely to get with that higher price) it won't guarantee no problems but it will certainly reduce the number of times you are disappointed. Frankly I would have to think hard to come up with very many problems like this that I have had with established well respected Lyla ladies usually when they make a booking it's solid. The less established ladies... who have a different name in every city they visit and generally book on a "just in time" basis tend to be much less reliable if you are not calling to book for right now or in the next few hours they tend in my experience to be just like the last minute clients pretty unreliable. I have seen ladies Ads that have caught my eye and tried to book for the next day and gotten responses like "that time tomorrow should be great but you will have to call me in the morning to confirm" that's not really the same as "great I have you booked for 3 pm please call me an hour before the appointment so we can confirm the location". All to often in the first example the ladies is not answering in the morning or is busy or whatever..... so I just move on. As for a plan B.... I am not sure how that works do I double book so I backup lady is available? Sure if I a traveling and have the the time and a lady backs out at the last minute I might improvise and check the ads to see if someone else is available on short notice but that's not always possible so I guess my Plan be is to just know that unfortunately associated with the great pleasure you can find in this industry there is also the reality of some frustration and disappointment so you have to take some of that bad with the good and just move on when it happens. For us guys the reality that there will be no show of a lady is a disappointment ... A pain in the a*ss undoubtedly but for the ladies when us clients don't show it can dramatically impact their livelihood ... it can mean that instead of a trip having a positive financial outcome then it can be a loss ... that risk too has to be built into their pricing hmmm no wonder this extracurricular activity is so expensive. Just my Opinion

Home from the IceCaps game which they lost 3 to 2 in OT... actually 5 seconds into OT... so now watching Furious 7 on TV

My last purchase was groceries this afternoon... just the basic stuff but with one great addition... Girl Guide Cookies that were being sold by some kids at the exit... so last purchase but snack for tonight.

:) I see what you did there... we get that great visual mental image of you in a tiny pink panty plus a wonderful taste sensation crosses our mind... oh yea and on top of that we think about bubblegum. Lol

Funny I thought this was the discussion... were we all suppose to agree?

Didn't your mother teach you it's not nice to laugh at people.... and especially if they are naked..... and you never know I might be.... lol

Laying on the couch... watching TV while contemplating "the Whole Sha-Bang"

I was doing what I normally do each morning checking the posts on LYLA and my twitter feed when I came across a Twitter post from the wonderful LYLA Goddess Autumn Raine http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=110704 In her twitter post she was promoting her new Massage Spa services (opens this Friday by the way) that she is introducing with a Electronic Poster she developed While perusing her new spa services poster I came across the phrase "Autumn's Whole Sha-Bang" and frankly it just made me smile... what a great word... I had of course heard of it before but never really in this context and frankly it's a great word for this industry... "The Whole Sha-Bang Booking" you know, one with everything included (for the uninitiated I am of course referring to tiddlewinks and a movie). Well being the a*ss that I am I decided to Google the term and things got even better when I noted the word has a meaning in computer programing but it also has an abbreviation #! Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shebang_(Unix) So just imagine the new opening texts we could see in future when guys are making a booking.... "Hi...saw your ad on LYLA and you look amazing are you available this afternoon for #!?" Let's face it that's way shorter then typing tiddlewinks lolol The Urban Dictionary http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=shabangalso had definitions... "shabang - everything including the extras... comes with the whole shabang" or "Shabang ... the person in your group that usually gets the party crackin, and keeps the party crackin. Without this person you can sit for hours bored wondering where this person is." or "Sha-Bang...it means like EVERYTHING HOT so if you say a girl or guy has the whole Sha-Bang it means their gorgeous and have it ALL... making you turn your head to stare!" Hey they all seem appropriate to me.... such a great multi-purpose word for this industry.... feel free to use it as you see fit lol

Well I am not out of bed that long yet so it's a bit early to be posting a highlight of the day but I have to say it's pretty nice to wake to a temperature of 11c on February 6 in St. John's NL... yes I know it's raining and the wind is high and there is a flash freezing warning because the temperature is supposed to drop quickly this afternoon but to wake and look out and not see any snow in sight is pretty fuking good...

Sitting here extremely frustrated....

Pizza and Fries at hockey game...

Supper tonight ended up being Pizza and fries at the hockey game which the IceCaps lost 5 to 2 to the Utica Comets the farm team for the Canucks... the IceCaps are playing like their parent club the HABS... Lousy.

I am not sure I have a problem with guys asking about ladies who advertise on other sites because frankly that is one of the reasons guys come to this site to share info on wonderful ladies they may have met and while my experience may tell me that all LYLA ladies are great I don' think it's safe to say that all the great ladies are on Lyla... some have never been on here and some have been and are no more for a variety of reasons. I think the quantity and quality of posts on this board has declined over the last year or so due to the new laws and restrictions on what we can say so i don't think we want to drive people away... Let's encourage greater discourse and suggest that guys do what I do... if i meet a lady who is not on Lyla I encourage them to join. It's important to recognize that any recommendation written on here is an expression of one guys opinion and opinions are like a*ssholes everyone has on and most stink. Recommendations reflect that individuals preferences, like and dislikes... no two encounters will be the same as so much relies on chemistry and connection... that's why everything in this industry is Y*M*M*V... I guess if that's a fair question to ask a guy who is a member here then should it also be fair to ask Ladiy members here if they think there is not enough Guy clients here on LYLA... It's not about enough in either case in my opinion it's about guys looking for a provider that is right for them and ladies looking for good clients and that happens here and in other venues..

I don't know many ladies in the Moncton area but I do know that Candy Julie will be in PEI April 1st to 3rd so she might be traveling to Moncton too.

Late leaving the office so supper will be junk food at the Icecaps hockey game

Why is cauliflower so expensive this year... why has the price of oil fluctuated so much... Why oh why are there not standardized pricing for all the things we buy.... perhaps the government should step in and impose some form of price controls on all products and services so as to ensure that the appropriate value is placed on everything.... ahhhh but wait there is the rub... not everyone agrees on the value of everything it would appear that individuals in fact do have the ability to determine for themselves what value they place on certain goods or services and remarkably the free market tends to be a pretty good way for that willing seller and willing purchaser to connect and carry out that business transaction. If the buyer feels they are no getting appropriate value for their money they decline to purchase and if the seller feels they are not getting paid enought to cover the value of th good or service being sold they don't sell it... pretty simple when you think about it. I have never been a seller in this particular market but I like to kid myself into thinking that the reason for that is the fact that the market would not pay the enormous value I place on myself when in fact the reality is there is no market for a 55 year old, over weight married guy in this industry lol OFGILF But what I have learned over the years is that if a lady Is selling a service as intimate as what we are discussing (hypotheticly of course given our current laws) then the only person who really needs to be 100% comfortable in the valuation is HER... if I as the client have a problem with the valuation I can just move along she has to live with it. As for the general concept of value for money in this industry I have a a distinct pleasure of meeting ladies who provide service at most of the various price points and frankly while I have seldom been disapointed... I am always fealt that I kinda get what I pay for and as a result the majority of my repeat encounters have been at the higher price point so I guess that suggests to me that I see Value in the money I am spending. PS: that's not to say I don't frome time to time get a wonderful surprise from amazing ladies at all price ranges :) Just My Opinion

Lunch at MacDonald's.... Hey... I have worked hard for almost 35 years so as I approach retirement I deserve nothing but the best lolol

At the office trying to get a few things finished up before I leave for the day but also texting with a good friend who is going through a difficult time.... You know in some way life should be easier especially for good people like this person.

I think Autumn Raine will soon be touring to Ottawa and she looks great in Yoga pants...

Just for the record Sweetshay's Birthday was back in November... I think she may have restarted this tread today when she thanked everyone for their best wishes back then.

Well I have red rope and you are listed on my LYLA Profile as a friend... so i volunteer... Hmmm next purchase... dogfood.

Home from work long enough to eat and now sitting down to check a few posts...