Ice4fun

Menu or no menu is a question that all SP's need to deal with and you will find arguments from people on both sides. From my perspective as a client you need to paint a picture of the type of experience a client can expect when he sees you and you did a pretty good ob of that in your post .. It can be edited a bit of course I offer a sensual encounter that is not driven by a menu but is an exploration based on the individual situation. As you would expect I have some hard limits for our mutual safety (no BB services, DFK, Kink, Greek or Car dates) but assure you our time together will be amazing. In Canada we currently operate under a weird set of laws that make it ok for you to advertise and discuss specific sexual services but it is illegal for your client to discuss the purchase of these services so keeping the discussions general and painting only a mental picture of the time together without discussion of menu or rates for specific services is protecting your clients legally and most experienced clients will know that. It's a discussion of rate for time spent in your company ... we all know what that means. For me personally a menu means nothing because I know that YMMV make the menu only a list of possibilities and not a commitment to a particular service. As for being nervous I understand that I think I always have a nervous anticipation when meeting a new lady and that is in my opinion a very good thing. A number of the ladies I have met over the years have indicated that they like to have some back and forth with a client in the days leading up to the meet.... This does to things ... helps with the comfort level and for me anyway dramatically increases the anticipation level.. Just to be clear I am not suggesting a series of endless texts (ladies have lives outside of work) but just a couple of touch base messages initiated by the lady. Anyway I hope things go extremely well for you not only with this first client but with your new business. Just my Opinion

I agree with Roaming Guy ... hit the nail on the head. Don't give clients any personal info that's not how this business works and if they are asking it's a red light for me. If client says "do I get your info in return" Just say no that's not how this business works and explain that you need his info strictly for screening and without completing your screening you can't meet him. You will build a reputation over time but being on Lyla is a good way to start. I also recommend a website as a good way to build a business identity ... Twitter is also excellent for this. There are many ladies on here who can give you the best advice and I am sure some will DM you rather then post on here. You Just my Opinion

Well given my pretty active participation in this industry for over 30+ yrs.... I don't think I am in any position to make judgements... lol. I tell everyone that I am an older pervert.

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