Ice4fun

I find it rather funny that at the same time as access to and use of porn is skyrocketing in the mainstream (Internet access, phone access, tv channels) our municipal leaders around the country have decided to be our moral police and ensure new strip clubs don't open... please give me a break... if they did nothing the challenge for strip clubs would mean there would be less. More liberal in our homes more conservative on the street... lol

Just flicked on the Grey Cup to check the score... looks like a good game based on the score at half time... I am not a big football fan so only a passing interest.

You may be right but let's hope not ... it would be terrible if the government agreed that the law was wrong a they still waited for someone to stand up an challenge the law at considerable cost. I would like to hope that our elected leaders had more integrity then to do that.

This sounds like a great idea... I would love to see something like this in St. John's but would have to wonder if the community is just too small to pull it off in a confidential manner...hmmm

For most of my adult life I have been involved in charities and community groups mostly related to children's needs and supporting families in the community... I will readily admit that my main motivation for this involvement has tended to be my own children whose capacity to care for others and seek out opportunities help has been inspiring to me... I'm not sure if a Christmas tradition we started as a family played apart in the giving nature of my children but I hope it did. Each year as a family at Christmas time we would seek out families that we could assist during the Christmas season with gifts and food and frankly the basic necessities of life.. in the early years money was tight in our family but we made a point of ensuring that as we did for ourselves at Christmas then we did for others... As our family income grew we were able to do more but the reality is we tended to get more out of the giving then the families receiving... To meet and develop friendships with these families sometimes over several years taught me and I think my children that happiness was not derived from financial abundance... I learned that the stereotypes of people in need are just that stereotypes ... people find themselves in need for many many reasons and it in no way reflects on their character or integrity. The fact is you or I could be in the same situation...I have always felt that it was a blessing for me and my family to be allowed to be part of their lives. My children are older now and they continue to contribute to the community in wonderful ways well beyond anything their old man could ever have thought possible for me personally my charitable en devours have slowed quite a bit over the last few years as I have struggled with personal issues in my own life but our family tradition of giving to others at Christmas has remained a huge part of the Christmas Spirit for me.

Rental Properties that become empty in December... you just know you are stuck with them till at least February...

Maybe I misjudged Mr. Harper I was under the impression he was a much bigger Prick then the painting seems to illustrate....

Spouses work dinner... so your traditional hotel event chicken dinner

Bored Silly at a work event for my wife... she is networking and I am sitting here surfing... now that's fun.

I have noticed something incredibly sexy about women just after leaving the hair salon... they seem to have a little something extra in the way they walk and hold themselves...There really is nothing sexier than a lady feeling good about themselves.

Two wonderful Milestones from an great member of our community... thanks for all your contribution Cato

Congratulations Mikeyboy on 1000 posts... keep them coming

Happy Belated Birthday Reuben

I make bookings for all kinds of things... car repairs, dentist, lawyers... you name it and never seem to have any misunderstandings about timing mainly because in pretty much all those cases the discussion is about specific times... if I follow the same practice when booking an appointment with a lady I also should not have any issues. I kind of agree with one of the other posts that suggested that often there is an intention when booking to allow some flexibility by suggesting time frames like afternoon or evening... that may be find for opening the discussion but you have to be specific at some point before ending the discussion. Just my Opinion

A little late but Happy Birthday Sasha...

I can't believe I am late wishing the beautiful Sweetshay a Happy Birthday... I hope your day was packed full of "appropriate hugs" from everyone you met all day. And of course Welcome Back from your short Absence... our community is a better place with you among us.

A little late but Happy Birthday emb3750... I hope it was a great day.

Well I guess I also fall into the too much time on my hands category... My initial reaction to the OP was to agree that it did not seem right for the half naked shenanigans to be appropriate especially for children but then I remembered something I heard on the Bill Maher show earlier tonight that stated that Winnie the pooh is actually female... well being the obvious pervert that I am (Ask former PM Stephen Harper) I had to conclude half naked female in public... sounds ok to me :) Just to close the loop here is the link to a story about female Winnie http://www.seventeen.com/life/news/a35478/it-turns-out-winnie-the-pooh-is-actually-a-girl/ ... and for the record... it felt really great to say Former PM Stephen Harper. Just my Opinion

The invasion of smart phones into our lives is I think inevitable we have come to rely on them so much they are seldom out of our hands for long. When I am with a wonderful lady be that my wife or another companion I would hope that our phones take a huge back seat to the attention would be paying to each other however I understand that sometimes it's just not possible to ignore them all together. I have been with ladies who operate with two phones a work phone and a personal phone and have been aware that they have turned off the ringer on the work phone and used it for background music but kept their personal phone on because they have family obligations that require it... that has never bothered me in the least. I respect the need to available in case the school calls or for emergencies and understand that they have lives outside of work. Ladies using their phone or checking texts during a booking has for me anyway never really been a problem because I have always found them to be very respectful of my time. That might just reflect the luck I have had to be with some exceptional people over the years. Just my Opinion

I am not from Halifax but over the years have visited there fairly often. When it comes to meeting a lady in this lifestyle when I am traveling then I do tend to be somewhat concerned about the location of her incall. Generally I prefer downtown locations or well established areas especially when I was seeing someone for the first time. When I have previously met the lady or she is well established then I am generally pretty comfortable with relying on her to ensure that the location is appropriate. I would definitely agree that it is often the gentleman's loss when he is too restrictive in where he will go to meet a lady but you know that's his prerogative. On a few visits I have gone off the beaten track in Halifax to meet a lady and am very very happy that I did. Just my Opinion

I don't know if it's too early or too late to be talking about the censorship rules but what I do know is that the application of these rules and the concern for bill C36 has had an unintended dramatic impact on this site both in terms of reduced participation and interaction of members and the general lack of discussion topics here on the site. We have seen many previously very active and engaged reputable members either just stop being involved or drastically revising their engagement because of the fear of breaching a rule and being suspended or banned so now they limit their interaction to posts in the escort or massage schedule threads and frankly we have lost a number of very reputable ladies to rule infractions that have resulted in them being suspended or banned.... in my opinion these unintended outcomes are a real concern for the site. Let's face it people come to this site because of sex and frankly to use the forum for clients and workers in the sex industry to connect... the new reality is that discussion of sex can get you in trouble with the rules and that is impacting participation by members. Just my Opinion

I guess I am old enough to remember a time when very few ladies completely shaved so I am totally ok with either approach... what ever works for the woman works for me... I will say that you idea of growing it out for a month does make me think about an idea that I have always thought about but not yet done...actually shave a lady... maybe some ladies might offer a month end special where one lucky guy gets to come in and shave them hmmmmm On a side note I know that when I grow my mustache I find I am constantly running my tongue across the hair... I am hoping that same option is available if women decide to not shave this month ;) lol

I think your on the right track... for me the gifts I appreciate I appreciate the most is the gift that clearly shows the connection between me and the person who gave it to me so if my children or SO want to get me something then if it involves them spending time with me doing things we enjoy then that is perfect. Over the years I have had some pretty wonderful gifts given to me that clearly showed that the gift giver knew me well... One was a unique picture of my family done in a significant way with a letter that explained it... just a wonderful give the second was a "star chart" of the night sky which when I first opened it I was kind of perplexed about until I realized it was the gift of having a star named after a member of my family who is not with me any more... these are the kinds of gifts that require someone to know what's important to you and to go out of they way to make that connection in the gift that they give.. Just my opinion

Are you referring to Cleo Catra.... if so yes she is retired as far as I know.

In the hope that Grass_Hopper will turn up in St. John's to help me remove them... my underwear is red briefs today. :)