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Spouses work dinner... so your traditional hotel event chicken dinner

Bored Silly at a work event for my wife... she is networking and I am sitting here surfing... now that's fun.

I have noticed something incredibly sexy about women just after leaving the hair salon... they seem to have a little something extra in the way they walk and hold themselves...There really is nothing sexier than a lady feeling good about themselves.

Two wonderful Milestones from an great member of our community... thanks for all your contribution Cato

Congratulations Mikeyboy on 1000 posts... keep them coming

Happy Belated Birthday Reuben

I make bookings for all kinds of things... car repairs, dentist, lawyers... you name it and never seem to have any misunderstandings about timing mainly because in pretty much all those cases the discussion is about specific times... if I follow the same practice when booking an appointment with a lady I also should not have any issues. I kind of agree with one of the other posts that suggested that often there is an intention when booking to allow some flexibility by suggesting time frames like afternoon or evening... that may be find for opening the discussion but you have to be specific at some point before ending the discussion. Just my Opinion

A little late but Happy Birthday Sasha...

I can't believe I am late wishing the beautiful Sweetshay a Happy Birthday... I hope your day was packed full of "appropriate hugs" from everyone you met all day. And of course Welcome Back from your short Absence... our community is a better place with you among us.

A little late but Happy Birthday emb3750... I hope it was a great day.

Well I guess I also fall into the too much time on my hands category... My initial reaction to the OP was to agree that it did not seem right for the half naked shenanigans to be appropriate especially for children but then I remembered something I heard on the Bill Maher show earlier tonight that stated that Winnie the pooh is actually female... well being the obvious pervert that I am (Ask former PM Stephen Harper) I had to conclude half naked female in public... sounds ok to me :) Just to close the loop here is the link to a story about female Winnie http://www.seventeen.com/life/news/a35478/it-turns-out-winnie-the-pooh-is-actually-a-girl/ ... and for the record... it felt really great to say Former PM Stephen Harper. Just my Opinion

The invasion of smart phones into our lives is I think inevitable we have come to rely on them so much they are seldom out of our hands for long. When I am with a wonderful lady be that my wife or another companion I would hope that our phones take a huge back seat to the attention would be paying to each other however I understand that sometimes it's just not possible to ignore them all together. I have been with ladies who operate with two phones a work phone and a personal phone and have been aware that they have turned off the ringer on the work phone and used it for background music but kept their personal phone on because they have family obligations that require it... that has never bothered me in the least. I respect the need to available in case the school calls or for emergencies and understand that they have lives outside of work. Ladies using their phone or checking texts during a booking has for me anyway never really been a problem because I have always found them to be very respectful of my time. That might just reflect the luck I have had to be with some exceptional people over the years. Just my Opinion

I am not from Halifax but over the years have visited there fairly often. When it comes to meeting a lady in this lifestyle when I am traveling then I do tend to be somewhat concerned about the location of her incall. Generally I prefer downtown locations or well established areas especially when I was seeing someone for the first time. When I have previously met the lady or she is well established then I am generally pretty comfortable with relying on her to ensure that the location is appropriate. I would definitely agree that it is often the gentleman's loss when he is too restrictive in where he will go to meet a lady but you know that's his prerogative. On a few visits I have gone off the beaten track in Halifax to meet a lady and am very very happy that I did. Just my Opinion

I don't know if it's too early or too late to be talking about the censorship rules but what I do know is that the application of these rules and the concern for bill C36 has had an unintended dramatic impact on this site both in terms of reduced participation and interaction of members and the general lack of discussion topics here on the site. We have seen many previously very active and engaged reputable members either just stop being involved or drastically revising their engagement because of the fear of breaching a rule and being suspended or banned so now they limit their interaction to posts in the escort or massage schedule threads and frankly we have lost a number of very reputable ladies to rule infractions that have resulted in them being suspended or banned.... in my opinion these unintended outcomes are a real concern for the site. Let's face it people come to this site because of sex and frankly to use the forum for clients and workers in the sex industry to connect... the new reality is that discussion of sex can get you in trouble with the rules and that is impacting participation by members. Just my Opinion

I guess I am old enough to remember a time when very few ladies completely shaved so I am totally ok with either approach... what ever works for the woman works for me... I will say that you idea of growing it out for a month does make me think about an idea that I have always thought about but not yet done...actually shave a lady... maybe some ladies might offer a month end special where one lucky guy gets to come in and shave them hmmmmm On a side note I know that when I grow my mustache I find I am constantly running my tongue across the hair... I am hoping that same option is available if women decide to not shave this month ;) lol

I think your on the right track... for me the gifts I appreciate I appreciate the most is the gift that clearly shows the connection between me and the person who gave it to me so if my children or SO want to get me something then if it involves them spending time with me doing things we enjoy then that is perfect. Over the years I have had some pretty wonderful gifts given to me that clearly showed that the gift giver knew me well... One was a unique picture of my family done in a significant way with a letter that explained it... just a wonderful give the second was a "star chart" of the night sky which when I first opened it I was kind of perplexed about until I realized it was the gift of having a star named after a member of my family who is not with me any more... these are the kinds of gifts that require someone to know what's important to you and to go out of they way to make that connection in the gift that they give.. Just my opinion

Are you referring to Cleo Catra.... if so yes she is retired as far as I know.

In the hope that Grass_Hopper will turn up in St. John's to help me remove them... my underwear is red briefs today. :)

I certainly can't speak about most markets in Canada but what I have noticed in the last few years in St. John's is a dramatic increase in the number of visiting ladies... we always seemed to have a small regular group of very reputable ladies who would tour here and most still do and I think they generally do ok here but in my opinion there seems to be a lot more BP ads for visiting ladies with no website or presence on boards like this who appear and generally advertise for significantly lower rates than most of the well known ladies. In my experience this lower rate is not really a lower rate as the reality is that the service level is dramatically lower and everything is an extra charge once you are in the room. More recently I have seen lots of BP ads offering special rates of $80 or $100 and while I certainly love to save some money I don't see this as a good thing as it dramatically impacts the business of the extremely reputable ladies especially the wonderful local ladies here who are LYLA members. Now don't get me wrong I appreciate and respect the right of each and every lady to set her own rates so I am not saying there is something wrong with all these "new" people in the market just emphasizing that it is having an impact and making things slow for some wonderful ladies who live or visit here. I would also bet that some of the ladies who have worked in St. John's for many years would tell me that they have seen this before and that it is cylindrical business with lots of its ups and downs and no doubt they are right... but if you rely on the revenue and it's down I am pretty sure it still is difficult especially if moving on to a better market for a while is not an option. Just my Opinion

Getting ready to head to the office and catching up on all the LYLA posts and emails...

As I said before ladies select their clients for a lot of reasons but is that not also very similar to what us gentlemen do... we don't bring up BP and call the first lady that appears on the list... we check the lady out to see if she meets our requirements... are we looking for a BBW or a spinner or an Asian lady.... perhaps a lady with an amazing ass or a tall lady or a short lady... we CHOOSE who we wish to spend our time with based on our own specific criteria... so I wonder are we choosing or are we discriminating... or are you suggesting that the ladies in this lifestyle should not be allowed to choose who they spend time with just the clients. Just my Opinion

Discrimination is a very harsh word... There are endless threads on here discussing the reasons why a lady might choose to restrict who she sees with the ugly connotations of discrimination being just one. My experience in this industry is that I have been struck by just how open to diversity this community is... it has amazed me. I have been active in this lifestyle for quite a few years and frankly when I have cold called a lady from her ad I don't think I can recall a lady specifically asking my age....so I am left to wonder if you are experiencing 50% or more who are concerned with age if it is your approach that raises the concern more then the specific age? Just my Opinion

Its not illegal to pay a lady to spend time with you And I doubt that LE actually discussed any services.... but I agree if they booked a ladies time which is legalthey should pay... I doubt they did.

Note to self... if I ever have the opportunity to provide capitalCforcougar a full body massage be certain to ensure it is FULL BODY... and I guess watch for appropriate ques to any parts requiring additional or repeat attention. :)

Police in St. John's recently did a similar outreach project booking appointments with ladies who arrive to be met by police officers who ask lots of questions and offer assistance... no big issues except wasted time for the lady.