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I have been a client in this industry for well over 20 years... I started primarily as a bit of fun when I traveled for work... many of my coworkers would hit the bars when we were on the road drinking and hoping to pick up someone for the night... I was married and this never really appealed to me so I would often head off to the casino or the strip clubs (ok ok more often the strip club) I considered this harmless fun and frankly got to meet some amazing ladies this I think naturally transitioned into seeing escorts which has in my opinion been great fun. I am older now and approaching retirement in the last 10 years our family has experienced some significant challenges which undoubtedly has impacted the relationship between my wife and I. I love her as must as I ever did and will never leave her... she will always be the one true love of my life but our situation has changed and the companionship that once was there is not any longer so I have sought it more frequently with wonderful companions in this industry. I have met so many wonderful ladies some of which I can honestly say have made a dramatic impact on my life... this industry with all its negative images and stereotypes has so many amazing.... giving... caring participants... so many other sectors of our community could learn a thing or two about life from the ladies of Lyla. As I do head into retirement I hope i have many more years of meeting people in this industry. Just my opinion.

My comment about being over the top relates only to the fact that the use of comparisons of this type .... comparing democratically elected leaders to historically vindicated mass murders is done for shock effect.... yes like the people you mentioned Harper has undermined legitimate science for political reasons... but us Canadians had a pretty good idea of what we were getting when we gave him his last majority. I all for attacking his policies... but the people who lived and died under Hitler and Stalin might suggest that Harper is a long way away from what they experienced. Just my Opinion

Well here is Autumn in Yoga pants... what's not to like about this... BTW... picture is from her twitter account with h approva to post.

Welcome to Lyla.... feel free to jump in and if you have questions just ask.

While I fully agree with the sentiments of your post I have to think that the comparisons to "Stalin and Hitler" a a little over the top. Just my Opinion

Yes you are making my point exactly... the devil is in the detail of the individual situation... If you plan on using it simply on consumables and not investing and you factor inflation as a constant the basic math is spot on. But if you factor in the realities that... ie. if the money is needed earlier just to pay rent ( a consumable) or that you plan to invest it in an appreciable asset then you have to look beyond the basic numbers.

Happy Birthday Nicolette I hope you have an amazing day.

In terms of inflation and the impact it might have... well to compare any financial item over time you have to compare constant dollars so inflationary impacts must be considered especially if we are talking about something spread over 15 to 20 years. For example if the taking of the early payments allows you to purchase a retirement property now versus waiting 5 to 10 years when the value may have gone up 10% or more a year then it becomes easy to see why inflation and the usage to which the funds will be put to becomes important. Frankly it's not really possible to know which option is better without knowing all the details related ti the individuals situation... that said discussions like this are important because it gets people thinking ahead of time about retirement... thanks for starting th thread. Just my Opinion

Basicly your math is right but like most of life's decisions it is not really that simple... you have not factored in inflation or any investment of the money you might receive earlier or if the money might have been used to paydown or pay off a high interest debt earlier. Bottom line there is a break even point but it is different for every person's individual situation... Just my Opinion

Great article thanks

I agree with most of the comments... in most cases it makes sense to take the money early in fact even if you are still working. Just my Opinion

Sorry have never seen her as a Domme but have seen her a few times for standard bookings and all I can tell you is she is a very sexy, beautiful classy lady. If she approaches her Domme sessions with the same zest as her regular booking I can't imagine you could go wwrong booking with her.

While I can't say if women play with themselves while driving as I have no first hand experience I shave certainly learned from my involvement in this industry that females can be every bit as sexual as men so I kinda think woman play in the car. As for me playing in the car... well I think we All had our go at parking and car sex as part of our adolescence however I outside of that I only really have one car incident.. it was about 15 or more years ago and I was at the original Cotton Club location in St. John's NL I had been there a while and had struck up a friendship with a sexy young dancer we spent the night together at the bar with numerous trips to the champagne room. Before I new it it was closing time and she suggested I take her to get something to eat... we piled into my car and took off and before I knew it she was sitting across my lap facing me as i tried to drive.... All I will say is it was an interesting drive up Water St and I have no idea how we were not arrested for dangerous driving. Ahhh to be young and stupid again. Just my Opinion

Lol... I think we all have.... but then I stop and remind myself that I am at least half of the equation... lol if the old adage is true that we bring out the best in other people I wonder what poor session say about us lololol Just my Opinion

Well I always thought that if I could sit at the Bar and lick my eyebrows it would be a wonderful way to attract the ladies... lol (kidding of course) I had a relative who is not with me anymore who loved to sing and play music... it's not a talent I ever had and I miss the singing and music in my home... so if i could suddenly develop a talent it would be to make music of some kind... sort of feel it would bridge the gap and keep us connected. Just my Opinion

I have been active in this industry as a client for well over 20 years and have seen lots of posts by ladies saying they restrict their client to over 30 or 40... interestingly while I have never been turned down for a booking because I was to young I was recently turned down by a lady who told me she does not see anyone over 50. Getting turned down for a booking is never fun especially when you have already developed an interest in a particular lady but let's be honest while we might sit back and say hey why does she not see anyone under 30 Like somehow it's not right we never stop to think we do the exact same thing... we might not right it in an ad... but we read ads and skip over ladies who don't meet the selection criteria we have in our mind... so really what the difference. Just my Opinion

I am at a point where I could retire at anytime... I have a good pension plan and we have made some excellent investments in real estate that will ensure we have a good retirement income flow... Being able to retire and wanting to retire is of course two separate things up till a few months ago I would have said I would stick around for a few more years but the dynamics where I work are changing and frankly I am not at a place in my life where I am willing to put up with much bullshit... so i may leave earlier than I expected. As for finances... don't rely on CPP... or the government... start early and invest in yourself. Just my Opinion

Happy Birthday... hope you have a great day.

For me the bottom line is as follows: It is illegal to purchase a sexual service in Canada even though it IS LEGAL to sell a sexual service. So in my opinion the hiring of a Escort for the purposes of him/her providing you with a sexual service is against the law. As with everything in life the devil is always in the detail... what if you are only hiring the escort for companionship with no explicit or implied contract for sex just the pleasure of her time... that should be legal. I guess to a certain extent it comes down to what they can prove and we will only really know legally once this is placed before the courts and it makes its way back the the Supreme Court. As for me... th legality was questionable in the past and I made bookings it is questionable now and I will continue to make bookings but just be a little more careful. Just my Opinion

Well I don't know much about the industry in Winnipeg or about how these particular arrests might seem to the participants in the industry in that area so my comments here should really be taken as my general thoughts about the industry based on my experiences over the year in a few markets across the country. From my perspective it is pretty obvious that the sex industry certainly does have its element of exploiters who look to take advantage of sex workers who find themselves in difficult situations and that this element is more likely to be seen at the street level. Now I am not saying that everyone who works in the industry at the street level is being exploited just that I think the risks in that part of the industry are much greater and the elements of our society that look to take advantage might focus more where they think there is greater vulnerability. If the police is Winnipeg are operating on this type of premises and focusing on eliminating the exploitative elements then I guess this could be a good thing. My concern I guess is that we have often seen people professing to want to "save" sex workers when in reality the steps they take only make life for the sex worker more difficult and risky. You want to do something to remove the exploitative element out of the industry make it legal and apply the same safe work legislation to sex workers that you do to others. I recently saw a tweet from a lady who may need surgery and she commented that their are no medical benefits or EI in this business... There are so many things that could be done but we seem to instead want to only focus on the application of legal repercussion on one or the other parties to this industry. We used to persecute the sex worker and now we want to persecute the client. I think things are changing but we have a very long way to go. Just my Opinion