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Distinct lack of Asian Girls here.....?
Ice4fun replied to harrysan's topic in Escort Discussion for NFLD
We get the occasional touring Asian lady but locally there are only two that I know of Misa and Sasaki both of which advertise fairly regularly on Backpage. Hope that's helpful. -
This link might help: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=196046&highlight=obsession
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What you are supposed to do here on LYLA is keep your posts positive or say nothing about it... you have been a member here since 2008 and posting since 2014 this should not be a surprise to you. You had a bad experience... ok sorry to hear that ... but that happens... unless it was a dangerous encounter or a Bait and switch when it comes to LYLA just move on. I fully appreciate that some members of the board feel that if we are encouraged to post the positive we should be allowed to post the negative ...but frankly doing that would turn this board into the same thing as the many other boards that are out there where it is post after post of ladies and clients posting their dirty laundry and trying to get even for their bad session by trashing the other party... frankly that is not what I want to see here. The fact that you did not go into details is not in any way a positive... you identified the lady and said you had a very bad session and told people to PM you for details. This is a direct attack on the lady for which she can't even defend herself. If the lady publicly responds to you here on LYLA she risks being banned or suspended which directly impacts her financial security... that does not seem fair to me. Just my Opinion
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A good friend of mine uses this quote all the time... "Opinions are like Assholes... everyone has one and most of them stink" Bottom line opinions are so subjective that it is hard to rely on them... positive opinions may be equally unreliable because of individual preference but at least they are not hurtful Just my Opinion
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10 Things NOT to Say to an Escort
Ice4fun replied to VedaSloan's topic in New to this? Things you should know...
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One thing there is no shortage of is places on the internet to post negative things about people be they Escorts or clients so i think it's kind of refreshing that this place is not supposed to be one of them... general rule of thumb is if you can't say something nice don't say anything. Let's face it out side of the warnings about dangerous situations do we really want this board filled with everyone's dirty laundry... what is poor service to one person is perfection to someone else... if you have a bad experience (note I said bad not dangerous) then move on and chalk it up to experience... There really is no reason to trash either party but if you do want to do that just don't do it here. Just my Opinion
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Happy Birthday sexnonstop724 hope it's a great day.
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Turn-offs for a lady
Ice4fun replied to Exotic Touch Danielle's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
Most likely just very jealous... after all who would not be... but you are right a bit tacky to ask. -
Happy Birthday Michelle hope it is a great day.
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It will be a shame to see Barb's disappear... I used to spend considerable time traveling to Ottawa for work... I would stay at the Delta and many many nights I staggered across the street to my room... not always alone lolol... very good memories.... kinda wish I could get back there for one last evening before it closes... hopefully it will still be open in October.
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SP's changing names
Ice4fun replied to Bobolakj43's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
There could be a myriad of reasons why someone working in this industry would change their name some benign and some for less positive reasons. I have met with a few ladies who have changed their name some complete changes and some subtle changes... some to better reflect the image they wish to present in their business and some to make a break with a past that has or is causing them difficulties either of their own making or more likely if they are well established reputable ladies to get away from individuals who are stalking or bullying them. Unfortunately in this industry like the rest of society you get to meet all kinds of people and I think ladies in this industry often are subject to abuse by individuals who accept the stereotypes that have been painted of sex workers and assume they don't have to respect them like they most likely would other independent business people who were providing them with a service. People forget that sex workers have a life outside of their work environment and that they unfortunately often have to go to extraordinary length to protect both their own privacy and that of others who might be in their life. This will sometimes include restarting their business under a new name with a new website and new pictures often at considerable cost and impact on their business to say nothing of the effect on their personal feelings of safety and security. As I have traveled my road in this lifestyle I have appreciated all the wonderful ladies I have met and have come to learn that at least for me, it is better to not assume but instead do your research and rely on input from people you can trust... if a lady changed her name but has a good reputation then the name should really not be an issue if it was a change driven by the lady herself she will most likely have discussed it and it will not be a secret...ie some ladies even include the tag line in their ads..formerly?????. If the lady has not explained it and you have put it together based on pictures or rumors then perhaps.. just perhaps giving the lady the benefit of the doubt and not making things any worse for her might just be the right thing to do. Just my Opinion -
Do's and Don'ts before getting intimate
Ice4fun replied to TorontoMelanieJolliet's topic in Health & Wellness
The suggestion to not brush your teeth before an encounter is interesting as I learned from a very wise lady that having fresh breath is not a nicety but is a requirement... As a result of learning that I have always kept a toothbrush... toothpaste and mouthwash in my car for use immediately before seeing the lady. I have to admit the idea of not irritating your gums to reduce chances of HIV transmission kinda makes sense... I would love to her some more Ladies comments. -
If the choice we as Canadians have to make is between Harper, Trudeau and Mulcair then the reality we have is that we don't really have that much to choose from... I personally do not trust Mr. Harper and think he is the most narrow minded and vindictive leader Canada has ever had... the Liberals lost power because of their association with scandal and misuse of taxpayers money yet the Harper Conservative record stinks from the outset top down... robo calls... charges under the election act against Ministers and the PMs Parliamentary assistant...and of course Duffy and the involvement of the PCO office in the cover up. Justin Trudeau...while I am not one to say he should live or die based on his experience I can't help thinking would he be on anyone's radar if it was not for his Father's last name. So in reality if I vote Liberal I doubt it will be BECAUSE of Mr Trudeau but more likely because the policies put forward by the Liberals overall are not offensive to me and because I can't in good conscience vote for Mr Harper who every day proves he does not represent MY Canada. As for Mr. Mulcair and the NDP... even given the NDP win in Alberta I don't see how he can win and to be frank while I know they have positioned themselves just left of center I fear they are in reality a little to left of center for my comfort. No I am not saying they are communists just that my politics would be a bit right of centre a place usually dominated by the Liberals and previous successful Conservative Governments. And frankly I can't help but think that Mulcair would be an unknown except for the political space carved out by Jack Layton. Bottom line is we have sparse pickings so in all likelihood I will be voting Liberal or NDP and hoping for a coalition government... if the conservatives pull it out and win I can only hope it is a minority government which would quickly spell the end of Mr. Harper. Just my Opinion
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I think the degree of experience that any leader has is a fair point for discussion but to equate Trudeau to an equivalent with George W. Bush is I think a bit of a stretch. Just my Opinion
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work phone number and personal phone number
Ice4fun replied to Meaghan McLeod's topic in Tech corner
I certainly get that... for me I currently carry 2 blackberries one for work and one for personal use. While BlackBerry offers great options for keeping my work and personal Fata separate an option for a separate line would be an excellent improvement. -
The essence of leadership is the ability to attract smart intelligent people around you who have a broad spectrum of knowledge and understanding of issues who can advise and inform you on issues. It is through this informed approach to leadership and decision making that great public policy is made. Relying on advisers is not a sign of weakness or inexperience it is a sign of strength and leadership... it demonstrates an openness to ideas and knowledge and recognizes the benefits of including others to obtain a better outcome. Advisers don't make decisions they inform the decision making process and help develop options and synthesize the best available solution. Just my Opinion
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work phone number and personal phone number
Ice4fun replied to Meaghan McLeod's topic in Tech corner
Duel Sim card phones with two numbers sound to me like a great idea that I can't understand why phone companies are not pushing... I get that the phone manufacturers might prefer people purchasing two pieces of hardware but a dual sim phone should have a huge market for businesses and individuals who now have to carry two phones. It would work great for people working in this industry and for clients who participate in this lifestyle. Just my Opinion -
Based on the feedback I am receiving here in this thread and directly from texts and PMs it certainly appears that this term is seen in negative terms by a number of ladies. I know I certainly have adopted the use of the term since I came across it here on the site and assumed it was an acceptable way to refer to your regular involvement in this industry so if my doing so has hurt anyone or was seen as disrespectful in any way then please accept my apology that was never my intention.
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If you are looking for an SP in Halifax I think you will find a plethora of wonderful ladies who it would be a pleasure to pass some time with. I certainly could recommend the following: Local Ladies Midnight Energies http://rawr4u.com/ MsManda Www.MsManda.com Touring Ladies Miss S. Lane www.savannahlane.ca visiting Halifax August 9th to 11th While I have never met these ladies I am certainly hoping too: Katherine Maraena http://www.maraenablackwell.com But hey the board is full of amazing Halifax ladies Just my Opinion
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Speaking to this topic strictly as a client I would have to say that in the area I come from their certainly seems to be more ladies in the business who are marketing lower rates. My experience however is that upon further examination the quality or services being offered are not as consistent as the what I would refer too as the top tier full service professional companions that advertise higher rates. This is by no means a criticism but I think some ladies have adopted a strategy of quoting a lower rate per hour with the strategy that once the booking is made they can convert it to a higher value financial transaction through the offering of additional or enhanced services for an extra amount. Like in any business different suppliers will adopt different business models that they feel best meet their needs. My personal preference is for a full service hourly rate not one that is more associated with a menu of services with extra fees on top of the hourly base rate. But! To each their own. There will always be a range of rates and that is fine as certainly each lady has the right to determine what she wishes to charge but I have to think that this increase in lower advertised rates has to at least in some way stem from us guy constantly looking for a bargain. There are constantly posts by well established ladies mentioning how they are inundated with texts, emails and calls for guys wanting to negotiate rates... you have to wonder when we are gonna realize that most of the time you get what you pay for and that most bargains that sound too good to be true actually are. I hope the trend to menus and extra charges does not continue to grow I would rather just know that my encounter with the wonderful lady is gonna cost $300 up front then to be quoted $220 but have it turn into $350 because of extra charges. Just my Opinion
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Happy Birthday... hope you have a great day.
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Just so I am clear... am I correct in assuming you see the term hobbiest in a negative context?
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I don't think anyone is debating that ... just suggesting when there is a question of legal age it is better to error on the side of caution and not take the risk. Seeking to find a way to establish the age is of course fine but can also be difficult if the need for discretion is high.
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what are you doing at this very minute?
Ice4fun replied to Exotic Touch Danielle's topic in Fun Threads
Just got off the phone with a very good friend who has been battling Cancer for over Six Years... she got bad news from her MRI today so it looks like it back on Chemo. It seems that no matter where you turn these days it's bad news.