Ice4fun

Might just be me but If I was shown a picture of an ID with personal info (name address etc) blotted out so that I could only see picture and age I would still be concerned that the DOB could have been altered in the picture... Let's face it with all the digital photography software out there it would not be hard to do this. For me personally if I had any concern that the lady in question might not be of legal age to be involved in this type of activity I think I would just stay clear of the situation all together. Just my Opinion

Happy Birthday... I hope you have an wonderful day.

This really is an interesting question...not one I have spent much time thinking about until this morning.. I have always ascribed to the theory that if a lady feels sexy about herself then that translate into how she looks and moves and acts which in turn influences how others view or see her. Sexy or attractive for me is not one look or one body type or a particular piece of clothing... it is a feeling and a chemistry that develops... I kinda think that our experiences and the culture we are raised in might predispose us to see certain types of looks or body types or images as more sexy and therefore we might be drawn to particular women or ads or encounters because of that preconditioning. We might look for bookings with people who present an image that matches that ideal. We have been conditioned by society to see that if you look like Marilyn Monroe or Cindy Crawford...or the current "it" looks of the day then you look beautiful and sexy. What my involvement in this lifestyle has taught me is that sexy comes in all shapes, sizes and looks. I have learned, I think, that a woman who feels sexy about herself can pretty much make anything she wears look sexy... I am often asked when I am making a booking if I have any special clothing requests for the lady and I invariably answer, especially if it is a lady I have never met before, please wear what ever you feel sexy wearing and frankly I have never been disappointed. After all how would I know what would look and feel best on a lady I have never met... if I requested a sexy school girl look but the lady feels silly in that outfit I don't see how that enhances the encounter. If however she wears something that she thinks she is drop dead gorgeous in that has to translate, in my opinion, into how she will act and make for a great session. Twenty years ago if you had asked me what type of lady are you look for for an encounter I think I would have been primarily drawn by the visuals of young petite ladies with great hourglass bodies and hey I still think that is great but what I have learned from meeting with a range of very diverse ladies is that Sexy can't be defined by one image... There are ladies on this site who in no way match that traditional sexy look but who exude sexual energy and that when you meet them you walk away saying O My God what have I been missing. Ok... back to the glasses... I guess that what I am saying is that I don't think the glasses make the lady look sexy I think the Lady makes the glasses look sexy. Just my Opinion

Does not sound like something that I would be interested in... Just my Opinion

Like most things in life people can choose to use things for good reasons or Bad... the Internet is no different. On a positive front it has opened up the world for people and somewhat leveled the playing field in a world where knowledge and access to data and a corresponding ability to communicate can mean the difference between poverty or affluence...the internet has transformed the world we live in and the transformation still continues For all its benefits the internet also has its dark sides one of which is the fact that it has provided bullies with a huge platform from which to spew their lies and abuse. Because of its very nature of allowing people anonymity or at the very least the perception of it... people's natural tendency to moderate their speech in a public forum seems to have reduced dramatically. Where before people might a have been willing to politely disagree all to often now they feel safe in attacking in often a very personal way the pople they may disagree with. Now I understand that there are certainly times when it could be argued that the person attacked might of had it coming because of their initial comment or behavior I am just suggesting that the threshold for the veracity of the reply has been dramatically lower by the internet anonymity. We don't really have to look to far to see evidence of that... we see it fairly regularly here on this board and we are the "friendly" board. We often feel very comfortable here jumping on someone who says something wrong or stupid or makes a mistake... I wonder would we pile on like that in real life if people knew who we are or do we just feel safe here hidden behind our profile names. Just my Opinion

What are "fake breasts" I am familiar with big breasts, small breasts, perky breasts, delicious breasts, amazing breasts, bouncy breasts and even enhanced breasts but every set I have come across have all seemed very real. :) All in Jest of course :) Just my Opinion

Congratulations on 1000 posts... keep them coming.

Frankly I find the whole idea that we might be discussing if Mr. Trudeau is "Ready" or not to be somewhat distasteful... this whole issue of "his readiness" ha come out of the constant parade of negative attack adds that the conservative war chest has churned out for the last year plus... So let's look at that idea of readiness for a minute... if readiness means Experience in leading a government then certainly he does not have that experience... He does not have the level of experience in government that Mr. Harper and his merry band of cronies do and perhaps... just perhaps that might be the biggest reason we should seriously look at Mr Trudeau: No experience in contempt for the Supreme Court... frankly experience we could do without. No experience of years of undercutting social program and attacking funding for groups who just happen to hold a different political vision then the gov't of the day No Experience at appointing Crooks to the Senate and ploting to cover up their misbehaviour by using your chief of staff to do the dirty work No experience at robo call schandles No Experience with ministers and parlmentary secretaries being charged with breaking election rules No experience with demonstrating a total lack of respect for his provincial counterparts by refusing to attend first ministers meetings No Experience in running record deficits year after year and claiming to be the best financial managers and the list goes on and on Frankly if what we have seen from Mr. Harper is competence I am all in favour of electing someone with no experience and no demonstrated competence for the job... frankly how much worse could it be. For me I am hoping for a minority government lead by either the liberals or the NDP so that Mr. Harper can take his "experience" and leave... because from my perspective Canada should think he is READY to be a former PM we don't deserve a man of his character... after all we have had enough punishment. Just my Opinion

I was just on Twitter reading a bunch of posts and came across one that suggested that the terms "Hobby" and "Hobbiest" were not ideal terms for use in this industry and that might be seen as inappropriate because this industry is all about interpersonal relationships and the term Hobby is not complementary to that notion. I have to admit that I was surprised to see the post but it did make me think. I certainly have used the term in the past mostly however in posts on this and other similar sites and have to admit I never really thought of my participation in this industry as a hobby until I saw the term used frequently on this site so I adopted it. My initial reaction is that while I can see some initial incongruence with the use of the term if one thinks of more traditional hobbies like coin collecting a review of the definition of the term Hobby does seem to fit: Merriam-Webster definition - a pursuit outside one's regular occupation engaged in especially for relaxation http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/hobby online dictionary definition.- an activity or interest pursued for pleasure or relaxation and not as a main occupatio. http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/hobby I would love to know what others think as if is something that is seen as offensive or inappropriate especially by people working in the industry then I would want to rethink my usage of the term. Just my Opinion

From my perspective everyone, both ladies and clients, have to set their own parameters for how they participate in this industry .... Some ladies have regular professional photo shoots and some stick to selfies... some ladies have chosen to show their face in their posted pictures... some never show their face... some only show face pictures in members only sections on their websites and I am betting in all of these situations the lady has given significant thought to the potential ramifications of having their picture out there because once it is out there it is out there forever... they lose control. Unfortunately this industry has significant negative stereotypes attached to it and for many being publicly associated with the industry can have huge impacts both on the lady and on their family and friends.. from my perspective that is unfortunate but is a reality. Because of this reality I think it is extremely important that as a client that I do not either directly or indirectly put additional pressure on any lady to share more then she is comfortable in sharing... I will normally make the assumption that the lady has already shared what she is comfortable in sharing and would not ask for additional pictures and would never leave the impression that unless I see a current pictures or a face picture that I will not complete a booking... for me that is not in any way appropriate. To put the shoe on the other foot what if the lady asks me for a picture of me for her personal safety would I be ok with that if it was someone I did not know... do I want my picture and texts out there for everyone to see. This hobby comes with some inherent risks for both escorts and clients ... for clients it often is the risk of being caught by our significant other or that our activities become public... There is of course the risk to our personal safety or a financial risks associated with a bait and switch or a robbery but frankly in the 20+ years I have been in this hobby I have always found ways to mitigate these risks through good research and thinking safety first. For escorts the risks are so much greater ... they put themselves out there on a daily basis.. unlike us guys who play occasionally... they are constantly in an environment where society and the government has forced them to operate under less than ideal circumstances .. in this environment wonderful ladies have put in place the booking and safety protocols that are right for them including how they handle the desire for clients like me to have more info and more pictures... from my perspective the right thing for me to do is accept the business practice the lady has put in place and not pressure her. Just my Opinion

I can't recommend any particular brand but if you are having a problem with your current butt plug slipping out I would be happy to lend you a hand :)

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Sorry have not seen any of the ladies referenced by the OP... As for where to look... in my experience ladies with established websites who advertise regularly in different venues have been the most reliable but as with everything in life there are no guarantees what is gold for one person is often garbage to someone else.. personal preference and expectations is such a large part of this hobby. My experience with Ladies from Lyla has been head and shoulders better than other venues but that too is not a guarantee. If you want to play in this hobby you must be willing to take some Risk. As for Sasaki and Ava I do have some personal experience... the NL Recommendations thread has a post I made about Ava a while ago I now have additional experiences with her so if you would like an update you can PM me.

Happy Birthday... I hope you have a great day.

Happy Birthday... hope you have a great day

I appreciate and agree with your comments... As for people judging me... I always kind of think that says more about them than it does about me. The last comments on my post were said more in humour than anything else.

There is no right answer that will apply to everyone... each of us must find the approach that best meets our needs and go with it. In my particular case I have chosen to just have the one phone and then made certain that my data on the phone is securely available only to me by using a password on the phone and several apps that allow additional levels of security. For example I use a Blackberry with a pictorial password for phone assess. My contact information for ladies I have met or see regularly is in my main contact list but I use a password protected contact management App to hide the most sensitive listing. For my wife to access this data she would first need my phone password and then second my contact management app password. (of course you need to be smart and not use passwords that your wife might guess). I have a separate yahoo email address for my hobby activities that I can easily access from the browser on my phone but all the email are safely tucked away on Yahoo once again with a secure password needed for access. As 90% or more of my contact with ladies in this hobby is via text message (especially after 1st contact) I use an app that removes all my text messages from specifically identified contacts (yea you guessed it all the private contacts) from my SMS log so if by chance my wife does see the text chat history on my phone it is clean as a whistle... in fact down right boring. ( you guessed it the SMS app has a password) For me this combination of security features works so I am very comfortable with it. As a side note I kinda think for me the greater risk is on the financial side.. email money transfers show up on your bank statements so it would be really great if ladies created payment email accounts that were more mundane for example itsolutions@gmail.... instead of ladyx@gmail lol. Of course cash withdrawals also show up on bank statements so a separate bank account that does not have your wife's name on it and with statements sent by email is a great idea. As for my cell phone bill it is in my name only and I do electronic statements. Ok... now rereading what I just wrote I am guessing everyone reading this is thinking what a sneaking... lying... cheating bastard this guy Ice4fun is.... lol. I guess it is one of the negatives of participating in this hobby and being one of Mr. Harpers perverts. Just My Opinion

I think some pictures on this thread would really make it interesting :P

Happy Birthday... hope it is a great day.

Happy Birthday.... I hope your day is filled with even just a fraction of the happiness... joy and amazing sexual energy that you share with all of us every day... if it is it will be almost too much to handle.... kinda like you. It been a pleasure to have met you and I can't wait till I have the opportunity to see you again.

Of course Bras count... they look just as good as panties lying on the floor by the bed :) Just my Opinion

For me Meeting a lady for the first time is always hugely exciting... the nervousness of the first encounter along with the anticipation of connecting with someone in a couple of hours of exciting passion just makes first visits wonderful... of course I tend to do my homework and see ladies who are well established and as a result my experience with first visits tends to be very successful. Now that said and regardless of how wonderful those first meetings tend to be I still think they can't really hold a candle to a repeat appointment with an amazing lady who you have already made a connection with.... There is something about knowing that behind that door is a wonderful sexy beautiful lady who you have already established a connection with someone who knows what you like and is eager to make the next couple of hours totally about you. The nervous excitement of the first visit is replaced by the heightened passion of knowing you will be reconnecting with her and building on what you both already know about each other. For most if not all the ladies I have had repeat appointments with these repeat encounters are accompanied by some degree of communication between visits where our connection has been built further and the excitement and anticipation of the visit has been built. Bottom line I repeat with ladies who I have had a connection with... ladies with whom I have a shared interest that transcends just the physical pleasure of her company... A connection that enhances the physical and includes a mental stimulation. Ok that was the long answer... the short answer is I repeat with ladies I Like. Just my Opinion

I am not sure any one can pick the ultimate or best for someone else as there is just way to much personal preference factors... what could be an amazing session for me with fantastic connect might be a bust for someone else.... that said Halifax is blessed with a plethora of ladies with excellent reputations here on LYLA... I can personally recommend: Midnight Energies http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=216899 Ms. Manda http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=217435 Manuella Cruz (visiting July 19th and 20th)http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=217540 But there are probably a dozen other ladies in Halifax who i would love to meet but have not had the opportunity to yet: Maraena Katherine Sierra Exotic Touch Danielle Lilly The Red Headed Raven Lexy Grace etc...etc...etc So if you are in Halifax you really should not have any problem finding an amazing lady as your companion for the evening. Just my Opinion

I had the good fortune today to spend 2 hours in the company of Manuella Cruz...this was my third meeting with this lady and every visit just keeps getting better. This sexy petite dynamic lady is just a treasure to be with she is as smart and engaging as she is beautiful and sexy. Let's just say that if you are in the same city as this lady and you don't make a booking with her you really need to give yourself a good kick in the arse....

While I think I am like most guys who are married and hobby who like to tell ourselves that our seeing a professional escort is inherently different than an affair with someone not in the business I think I know down deep that there is not really much difference... especially if it was seen from the eyes of our wives... bottom line cheating is cheating I think. Now don't get me wrong I think the fact that the hobby cheating is with someone who is involved for primarily financial reasons means there is less emotional attachment which should in theory make it less of a reputation of your significant other then the development of feelings for someone in a civilian relationship but in the end I kinda think that is a distinction without any real significance except to help us with our cognitive dissonance. For there to be no guilt for me there would need to be no cheating... To have no cheating my SO would need to know about my hobby activity and be ok with it... and there is little or no chance she would be OK so yeah I am a guilty cheater... but you know while that is true I also strongly feel seeing ladies in the industry has been a good thing in my marriage in that it has filled a gap that is there with the lady who is and always will be the love of my life and has allowed us to continue... weird logic i know but I think each situation is different and you need to know all the details to understand the reasons why we all do this... Often at significant risk. Just my Opinion