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Has anyone hit on any new restaurants they would recommend?

So it's two years later now since the last post on this thread... what phone is everyone using now?

Thanks for the post... was wondering if you could elaborate on the reason this would be important.... it's always good to have someone with more understanding of these tech issues provide some background for the rest of us who might tend to just take things for granted. Thanks

Happy Birthday sinful12345... hope it is a great day Welcome to Lyla

Happy Birthday Skylar... I hope you have a great day.

Lol while I previously posted that I am not to fond of Duo's I have to say a recent Ad I saw certainly has me thinking... Bianca Jaguar and MsManda... very different ladies but there is something that is very interesting there... kindred kinky spirits maybe... lol

Glad to see you participating Hockeyfan266... just a couple more posts and the new member tag will be gone. I have noticed that the number of individual unique voices that we are hearing here on Lyla seems to have declined over the last year... maybe it's the new laws.... I don't know but the board seems quieter than in the past so I encourage everyone to speak up... share your thoughts and opinions... I think we need the diversity it enlivens the discussions and educates us by making us think and rethink our own opinions. Just my Opinion

Sitting on the deck eating breakfast.... so far great weather for this long weekend.

Rumor has it that a number of the Top Tier touring ladies are experiencing increased numbers of time wasters and No Shows on their Atlantic Tours ..... if that is the case us guys in Atlantic must be really stupid because that just means these wonderful ladies will just not come back as often... or maybe at all Over the next couple of weeks we have the opportunity to prove this rumor wrong at least for NL as we have a number of world class ladies visiting so let's make sure we don't F*** this up.... Check the ads and make a booking and let's make their trip to NL the highlight of their summer. If we don't it could be a long cold winter this year.

In my opinion there are many things that could make a client a good client.... frequency of bookings, length of bookings, the client's behavior before during and after the booking, bringing a gift, remembering special occasions or special things about the lady.... being extremely discrete about the lady... posting reviews if she wants them or not posting them if she doesn't.... so many things can go into it and of course Tipping is one. Some have suggested that being a good tipper can ensure better service or better access to bookings.... in many ways that is probably true whenever a lady sees a client as a "good client". Most ladies I have met have always said something like "tips and gift are always appreciated but never expected" and I think they have treated that way. Just my Opinion

Not really sure what is happening in other markets across the country but in St. John's there seems to be a lot more visiting ladies and some local ladies who are advertising lower hourly rates (not dramatically ... like $50 less) then the normal all ( relatively) inclusive rates charged by many of the more established and reputable ladies. Of course what seems to be happening is exactly what Eric referenced... when you get there they want extra for almost everything. So once again I think this just proves you will never go wrong if you stick with reputable ladies who are well know in the business and who ensure you leave happy with no surprises.... If you are a hobbiest and new to the industry do your research... ask around. If you are in St. John's and have a question about one of the ladies here then feel free to pop me a PM if I have seen the lady and she is ok with me passing on her details then I would be happy to do so.

A great massage session... wonderful way to start the long weekend.

Without a doubt there is truth in your comment that "Sometimes the castles we build imprison us" on a good day it is generally pretty easy to see that bad things happen in life and they are not your fault... on a good day it is easy to understand that you have friends and people who care about you who will stick with you even if they know your struggles... the problem is of course that all days are not good days and when you are dealing with issues that encompass you and consume your thoughts and your energy it is not so easy to just say hey accept me as i am or I will get new friends... you struggling internally just to feel normal and be accepted. You are undoubtedly correct that in a perfect world those who really care for you would be there for you regardless of your mental health challenge and yeah maybe if your social circle looks at you differently then they are not really your friends but the fact is that in the real world people do treat you differently if they know you are struggling with mental health issue they may not mean to... or they may not even know they are doing it but they do and at a time when you are already feeling very vulnerable it is extremely hard to just say hey accept or not i don't care. More than 5 years ago I did in fact lose a child... I held them in my arms as they took their last breath and told them they would be ok.... words that I spoke at the time in the hope of bringing comfort but words that haunt me every day since as there is no certainty of things being ok.... There are the questions of why did this happen... the question of why did I not do more to keep my child safe... There is the overwhelming feeling that it is unfair that I continue to be here while my child... A much better person than me is gone... There is the feeling that I let my child down and that now it is even more important for me to be the strong one for the rest of my family who is also struggling and who need to know things will be ok even at a time when I can't convince myself of that... So I hide my pain... I deflect and seek diversions that will allow me to forget for just a short while that an important part of who I am is gone... I ensure that the rest of my family knows that we will make it through... that life goes on because they need that assurance so they can move forward... they do not need or deserve to share my pain or even to know of the daily struggle... they don't need the worry of wondering how I am doing... they just need to know I will be there for them. So yep I have made the castle that imprisons me... but I am like all of the rest of us... just trying to make it through life one day at a time.

It's probably been 8 or 9 years since I last hit Playmates for an evening... I am gonna be in Ottawa in early June so I think I am due.... lol

Part of the challenge with mental health is the fact that it is often seen as who the person is not something the person is dealing with... if we have a physical ailment we don't as easily get seen as the disease... Not sure I am explaining that very well... I hope you get what i mean.

Takeout Chinese food...

A nice bottle of red wine...

First to deal with Traci's question regarding male consent... well to be honest until you mentioned it I never really considered it... As I think back about the encounters I have had over the years I don't recall a time when the activities initiated by the lady have been unwelcome by me.. I appreciate that I am a pretty open guy so most likely even if i was surprised by the activity I most like would be ok with it. I do think that my choice of ladies that I have seen may play a part in this whole thing as well as my general desire to connect with a lady during a visit. In terms of the ladies I choose to see they tend to be very reputable well reviewed ladies who are experienced in the industry and normally want some discussion on what type of experience I am looking for this prior discussion while not normally a menu based discussion does sort of pair a picture of the type of experience and therfore as long as the activities stay within this general area then I would think consent was implied by the continuing with the booking. In regards to my looking for a connection in my encounters I think this tends to manifest itself initially in the encounter with a longer period of chatting at the start of the encounter and this often sets the tone. I read the article posted by Berlin that contained the concept of "enthusiastic consent" with great interest... Is enthusiastic consent necessary in my opinion probably not in most cases... I think people engage in sexual activity for many reason and that it is wonderful when both parties are Enthusiastic about their involvement I can think of lots of occasion when it might just be a part of their relationship that they willingly consent to even if not enthusiastically. In the case of this industry I think it would be silly to expect that every engagement involves "enthusiastic" consent especially on behalf of the provider. I would hope the client was enthusiastic or else why is he making the booking but let's be honest this is a business relationship so while there certainly should be willing consent there is no requirement for enthusiastic consent. The lady is providing or fulfilling a fantasy so of course her behavior should seem enthusiastic engagement as she is creating an environment for her client. Of course there is some risk in all of this... us men want the fantasy of enthusiastic engagement and to be made feel that we are, even if for just the duration of the appointment, the most important thing in the ladies day. If the lady or for that matter the client crosses the line from business enthusiasm into feelings that this is real then bad outcomes can happen so it is important that both parties not encourage the idea that there is more to it than a business arrangement if they don't really believe there is. Just my Opinion

Great meeting with a wonderful lady here in St. John's

Happy Birthday xoxangiexox I hope you have a great day.

Roast Chicken with rice and mixed vegies...

Unfortunately car repairs... $1600.00 worth... think it's time to replace my vehicle.

Watching the news and eating supper...

I am not sure there is anything better than having a beautiful sexy woman lying next to you stroking your cock while she kisses you passionately... pretty awesome in my opinion.

Sorry to see the last of the Canadian teams eliminated tonight but that's the way it is. Now being a Leafs fan who has supported all the other Canadian teams in the playoffs... not always easy... I will take this moment to just say this... With Salary cap rules the payrolls for most NHL teams are pretty comparable.... so the leafs and the flame and Habs and Senators and Canucks all make as a team about the same amount.. now most people want to shit all over the leafs for their poor play (with good reason) but when you think about it they got the same pay as the Habs and Flames but worked a month less... Hmmmm in any other industry that would be considered pretty good lolol Extra month of Golf... same pay lololol Like all good Leafs Fans.... I know... There is always next year.